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There are things that the harder they are to get the more value they have when you finally get them, for example a new world record, or a new scientific discovery, the difficulty makes the end result more attractive
But this doesn't apply to sex and romantic relationships, the harder they are to get the more repellent the end result is, people don't congratulate an ugly man for getting a good looking woman, they'll just hate him even more for not "staying in his lane"
The easiness is one of the main factors of romance, it must come naturally, if it's difficult it's not romantic anymore and the sex just becomes prostitution, hard to get means they never liked you in the first place which defeats the whole purpose
But this doesn't apply to sex and romantic relationships, the harder they are to get the more repellent the end result is, people don't congratulate an ugly man for getting a good looking woman, they'll just hate him even more for not "staying in his lane"
The easiness is one of the main factors of romance, it must come naturally, if it's difficult it's not romantic anymore and the sex just becomes prostitution, hard to get means they never liked you in the first place which defeats the whole purpose