Yeah, and did you ever consider that maybe some of us kissless guys have tried? But anytime I go to a bar or a club, with or without friends, women will give me looks like I'm a disgusting rat, if I go and try to start a conversation with a woman, most will walk away, make a disgusted look at me while grabbing the arm of the nearest guy, or go hiding behind someone else, and the ones who aren't disgusted only ever return one-word responses to whatever I have to say. I've gone to bars to sit down next to friends on the only available barstool, without even making any airs of starting anything with them the women sitting next to that seat will get up and walk away with her friends and guys and whoever else she was talking to, or get up from her seat to continue her conversation while standing in the most petty and petulant way possible, with a glance of disgust at me like that's somehow my fault, or go hide behind some other people. And this happens regardless who it is. Hot chicks, average chicks, below average chicks, drunk chicks, landwhales, it doesn't matter, the behavior is always something I've listed above, like I'm a droplet of water falling into some hydrophobic material. I had a Chad-lite friend bring me into a bar and start up a conversation with two women there, and tried, at least at first, to open room in the conversation for me, but both women were intent on ignoring me. Can't hardly blame them in that case, as they were significantly out of my league and my Chad-lite friend doesn't seem to understand that sometimes, but it's hardly consoling when you're left standing there feeling awkward, clearly unwelcome in the conversation happening, feeling like a child left out, and every other woman at the bar, landwhales, average girls, uggos, whoever, even the fucking women who clearly weren't single like I was going to approach them anyway when I can see your man hanging off your fucking arm, landwhales especially as they're so prevalent around here anyway, is looking at you like "what the fuck is a maggot like you doing here, and why are you with two guys who are like that, but you're like... ew?" (The other guy was another friend of the Chadlite's, and was standing nearby with his girlfriend, and was clearly part of our "group", but they weren't engaged in that particular conversation that night).
When you're treated like a leper, or a child, or a potential Unibomber type (I've actually had people tell me I look like him, jfl), or background scenery by every woman you come across, when does it ever start? What opportunities could you possibly have then? For fuck's sake, the only women who have ever even treated me with the dignity of a child, the best treatment I've ever received from women, are coworkers, and even then, when I go off the example set by other coworkers of asking coworkers out (at this particular place, it seems to be ok, and very common, as most of my coworkers are dating other coworkers or former coworkers), then all of a sudden I'm no longer treated like a child, I'm treated like a potential rapist, a barrier is put up, and every interaction with them is awkward, and my other coworkers can't even tell me what I did wrong, they get a little mystified by the reaction, and then forget about it and never bring it up again.
And I used to be unable to talk to girls in grade school/high school, it's true. I'd turn beet red and my mouth would dry up and tongue feel swollen, but I still tried, anyway. See above for what reactions I got in those cases, and add in the occasional derisive laughter, towards a loser who was completely friendless and met the same sort of water-dropping-on-hydrophobic-material reaction from everyone, guys and girls, whenever I tried to make friends, start conversations, just feel like I belonged fucking somewhere. I tried to fit in, I tried to talk to people, no matter how much I disliked it or my autism railed against it, I tried to find ways to make people like me, or accept me, but it doesn't happen. Not because I don't try, but because I'm clearly unwelcome in the normal, civilized, well-developed, hit-all-their-proper-milestones society, and even the fringe groups, too. Do you really think a guy who tried walking over to a lunch table in the cafeteria where other kids were playing Yu-gi-oh! to sit down and try to start a conversation over a shared interest with other nerds only to have them all pack up all their things and move elsewhere to the cafeteria to leave me sitting there alone, feeling awkward, with people all over shooting weird glances at me like I did something wrong, has any chance of ever making it in any sort of real social capacity? I mean, fuck, my friends aren't even really friends; they're just my coworkers who sometimes take pity, sometimes all their other friends are busy, and most of the time, I have to invite myself along to go anywhere with them or to just hang out. But I've tried. And for over a decade I've done everything I can to fucking improve my social skills and overcome my autism, because I knew, even without the scientific studies verifying it, that my autism was the root for everything, for all the way I was treated my entire life, that my looks certainly didn't help, even though I'm not deformed and not the ugliest motherfucker on the planet by far, even if I am still obviously below average in looks. Besides learning the basics of how to make eye contact with people I'm conversing with, and other things I've improved, or attempted and failed, I can talk to women now, without going beet red, or getting tongue tied, or sweating profusely. I've made my improvements where they matter for me, for years. I've made my attempts, for years, at all social aspects of my life. But because I've never gotten a kiss from even a drunk girl, I'm a fakecel who hasn't tried enough, because I'm not a fucking deformed gargoyle?
Fuck you, you foid-kissing fuck! You don't have a single clue what I've been through, and the challenges I've faced, and fought!!, on account of my autism, below-average face, and social bankruptcy!
How are you supposed to make any attempts at getting with a woman when there are never any opportunities for it, and any opportunities I try to make where there are none will get me branded as some sort of sexual harrassment rapist Unibomber? Women shut me out, give clear signs that my presence is unwelcome, that I should read the oh-so obvious signs of derision and pack up my bags and leave, that I'm good enough to be a "safe coworker acquaintance" but don't I dare ever try to take it further than that!! And all without even being a deformed gargoyle! Ha! Imagine that!!!