Serious Social circle explained

[CopingGymcel]

I saw someone in the last thread that got deleted wondering what social circle is and thinking that it may be some vague made up thing.

Social circle is your social network (not to be confused with social media), as in your friends and their friends. It's the people you interact with socially, usually on a somewhat regular basis.

If you have a friend who has a friend who is a female, if you interact with her at let's say a house party and you then meet her again at a later date, then she is a part of your social circle, even if she's only a small part of it.

That's how most normies meet their girlfriend, they get introduced through a friend or meet her at some social gathering organized by friends. People network, they don't sit at home and watch anime all day, that's how they meet new people.

Not interacting with other people will significantly reduce the chances of finding a partner.

 

[VLÖ]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

You fucknuggets have no idea what loneliness does your mind, you become INCAPABLE to making new friends past a certain age of being along all the time.

Every single person who says "making friends is easy bro xd" has NEVER EVER had ANY trouble making them and has never had a shitty childhood/teenage period and/or are good looking.

Fucking useless bragging self-righteous charlatans.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

You fucknuggets have no idea what loneliness does your mind, you become INCAPABLE to making new friends past a certain age of being along all the time.

Every single person who says "making friends is easy bro xd" has NEVER EVER had ANY trouble making them and has never had a shitty childhood/teenage period and/or are good looking.

Fucking useless bragging self-righteous charlatans.

Infinite IQ post tbh

 

[CopingGymcel]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

It's not. I don't have any friends either. It's really hard to make friends when you get older and have none.

It's much easier to make friends when you already have a few.

I am just trying to explain how normies meet, so people aren't completely oblivious.

 

[Getlooksordie]

I saw someone in the last thread that got deleted wondering what social circle is and thinking that it may be some vague made up thing.

Social circle is your social network (not to be confused with social media), as in your friends and their friends. It's the people you interact with socially, usually on a somewhat regular basis.

If you have a friend who has a friend who is a female, if you interact with her at let's say a house party and you then meet her again at a later date, then she is a part of your social circle, even if she's only a small part of it.

That's how most normies meet their girlfriend, they get introduced through a friend or meet her at some social gathering organized by friends. People network, they don't sit at home and watch anime all day, that's how they meet new people.

Not interacting with other people will significantly reduce the chances of finding a partner.

amazing insight.

 

[CopingGymcel]

amazing insight.

Well, it's obvious, but it has to be said.

The more people you interact with, the higher your chances of finding a partner. Approaching random women during the day sadly does not fall under "interacting."

 

[SirIncel]

Also, when you finally manage to get some friends, it's really hard to keep them, when you're introverted and don't want to hang out with people all the time.
That's my problem.

 

[acnescarcel]

i h8 ppl and sure as fuck don't want to go to a party lol

 

[theson]

I saw someone in the last thread that got deleted wondering what social circle is and thinking that it may be some vague made up thing.

Social circle is your social network (not to be confused with social media), as in your friends and their friends. It's the people you interact with socially, usually on a somewhat regular basis.

If you have a friend who has a friend who is a female, if you interact with her at let's say a house party and you then meet her again at a later date, then she is a part of your social circle, even if she's only a small part of it.

That's how most normies meet their girlfriend, they get introduced through a friend or meet her at some social gathering organized by friends. People network, they don't sit at home and watch anime all day, that's how they meet new people.

Not interacting with other people will significantly reduce the chances of finding a partner.

This is actually correct. If you don't have any friends then your dating prospects skew to zero even if you're average looking since online dating is a lot more competitive. That's why if you're at least average, trying to meet people and make friends is actually very good advice. If you're ugly though, people will just be repulsed by you and even if you do make some "friends", you'll always be an outsider in the group and you'll never get invited to any of the cool parties or any event that your so-called friends actually care about.

 

[Erenor]

I saw someone in the last thread that got deleted wondering what social circle is and thinking that it may be some vague made up thing.

Social circle is your social network (not to be confused with social media), as in your friends and their friends. It's the people you interact with socially, usually on a somewhat regular basis.

If you have a friend who has a friend who is a female, if you interact with her at let's say a house party and you then meet her again at a later date, then she is a part of your social circle, even if she's only a small part of it.

That's how most normies meet their girlfriend, they get introduced through a friend or meet her at some social gathering organized by friends. People network, they don't sit at home and watch anime all day, that's how they meet new people.

Not interacting with other people will significantly reduce the chances of finding a partner.

This is actually correct. If you don't have any friends then your dating prospects skew to zero even if you're average looking since online dating is a lot more competitive. That's why if you're at least average, trying to meet people and make friends is actually very good advice. If you're ugly though, people will just be repulsed by you and even if you do make some "friends", you'll always be an outsider in the group and you'll never get invited to any of the cool parties or any event that your so-called friends actually care about.

wise words, this gets forgotten too often here.

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

I don't think he wanted to say that or imply that people with a small or no social circle are volcels, he was just stating the facts, and maybe deliver a counterargument to people who call social circle maxxing a cope.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

You fucknuggets have no idea what loneliness does your mind, you become INCAPABLE to making new friends past a certain age of being along all the time.

Every single person who says "making friends is easy bro xd" has NEVER EVER had ANY trouble making them and has never had a shitty childhood/teenage period and/or are good looking.

Fucking useless bragging self-righteous charlatans.

what hes saying is that this is the reason why sub8 theory is total bullshit. This is how NORMIES get their gfs. An incel still wouldnt get a girl through this route even if he hypothetically had a social circle. What you said was literally the worst strawmen I have ever read.

 

[CopingGymcel]

what hes saying is that this is the reason why sub8 theory is total bullshit. This is how NORMIES get their gfs. An incel still wouldnt get a girl through this route even if he hypothetically had a social circle. What you said was literally the worst strawmen I have ever read.

Yup. There was this baby faced incel who posted here, whom I PMd with a few times. He told me that he had a social circle, he would go to parties, get drunk, etc, but his looksmatch (lowest value foid there) would always reject him.

 

[Copecell]

Socialcirclecel here.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Socialcirclecel here.

What would you rate yourself? How tall are you? Do find socializing fun? How often do you go out with friends? How many foids are apart of your social circle or how often do you talk to the opposite sex?

Sorry for all the questions, but would be interesting to know considering this discussion we're having.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

Good Thread.

 

[Copecell]

What would you rate yourself? How tall are you? Do find socializing fun? How often do you go out with friends? How many foids are apart of your social circle or how often do you talk to the opposite sex?

Sorry for all the questions, but would be interesting to know considering this discussion we're having.

Ment Lackofsocialcirclecel. Can't really rate myself anymore thought i was above average for a while but im feeling like crap right now so i'm less positive so i'd say average or slightly below. I'm 5'9, got no friends or social circle. Had a late puberty that fucked me over so i lost all confidence growing up (being short and looking like a kid, getting bullied due to it and so on. Been depressed for a long time now but i'm starting to get it under control with the current medication, nutrition and exercise. Hopefully i will ascend but i'm a huge mentalcel after all these years of torment. I'm not incel due to looks as i'm not ugly (i think) perhaps below average but not ugly.

 

[CopingGymcel]

Ment Lackofsocialcirclecel. Can't really rate myself anymore thought i was above average for a while but im feeling like crap right now so i'm less positive so i'd say average or slightly below. I'm 5'9, got no friends or social circle. Had a late puberty that fucked me over so i lost all confidence growing up (being short and looking like a kid, getting bullied due to it and so on. Been depressed for a long time now but i'm starting to get it under control with the current medication, nutrition and exercise. Hopefully i will ascend but i'm a huge mentalcel after all these years of torment. I'm not incel due to looks as i'm not ugly (i think) perhaps below average but not ugly.

Ohh, I thought you meant that you had a social circle.

Would be interesting if an incel with a social circle commented. I remember that guy who proclaimed that he was super NT and had lots of friends, but was an incel. The guy was a huge LARPer. Can't remember if he was on lookism or here.

 

[Zesto]

I don't have any friends but will try to make some if that's what it takes.

 

[VLÖ]

what hes saying is that this is the reason why sub8 theory is total bullshit. This is how NORMIES get their gfs. An incel still wouldnt get a girl through this route even if he hypothetically had a social circle. What you said was literally the worst strawmen I have ever read.

What does it have to do with us though? Why tell us that? We're not normies so who gives a shit. And besides, this is how degenerate teenager thugs meet, not normies.

 

[HarvesterOfInceldom]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

You fucknuggets have no idea what loneliness does your mind, you become INCAPABLE to making new friends past a certain age of being along all the time.

Every single person who says "making friends is easy bro xd" has NEVER EVER had ANY trouble making them and has never had a shitty childhood/teenage period and/or are good looking.

Fucking useless bragging self-righteous charlatans.

Ohh, I thought you meant that you had a social circle.

Would be interesting if an incel with a social circle commented. I remember that guy who proclaimed that he was super NT and had lots of friends, but was an incel. The guy was a huge LARPer. Can't remember if he was on lookism or here.

I had a small social circle, and can generally get along with people I'm partnered with. That being said, women were never in my social circle - i suppose if you're in a popular social circle with a lot of women then you would be right, but that's not always the case

 

[Deleted member 5861]

What does it have to do with us though? Why tell us that? We're not normies so who gives a shit. And besides, this is how degenerate teenager thugs meet, not normies.

because all the "its over if sub-8" lunatics are doing some major damage to the validity of the blackpill when they are trying to etch that as part of it. Social circle game is a part of the blackpill, therefore we mention it. Tinder also got "nothing to with us" so why talk about it?

 

[Haircutbro]

And making normie friends as an incel is SOOOOOOO fucking easy, isn't it?

Yes it is, or should i say, you looks are not hindering you to make friends
You would need to be a deformed 0/10, then i would say yeah you looks are the reason you cant make friends
You dont make friends because, you are autistic, or you have absolutely no social skills
Not making friends, is always a mental problem, sometimes due something you were born with, like severe autism
But mostly its just, running away from your problems, or liking having problems
Even if you have zero social skills, you can still train, and get to a point where you can get friends
And trust me, ive gone down that road
I was at a place in my life, where i could not talk to any person, not even my family, i was mute, even when i spoke to my family, i could not articulate myself, i started stuttering, and was not able to hold a conversation whatsoever
When i went outside, i had severe panic attacks, i only looked down to the ground, people were scared of me, and knew something is wrong in my head
I had no friends, no one liked me, my family did not, and i certainly did not like myself, I went through hell to attack this problem
I started going to school again, and even though i only went like 1 or 2 hours at max every day, because then i had to drive to the emergency room, because i had such massive panic attacks, that i could not breathe anymore, i went blind or had severe heart problems, where my pulse went up to 200 beats a minute
All related to stress, everything was too much for me
But i kept fighting, and you know what
Nowdays i have friends, i can stand up for myself, i started fighting guys who are bigger and stronger than me, if they disrespected me
I told people to fuck off, and i did what i wanted, i hug people, i can talk to them, i even can talk to girls
Of course i still have some problems, and its not always easy, but no one can tell me, that its impossible to make friends, or its impossible to adapt in such a way, that society wants to interact with you
And im not talking about getting a gf, thats another story, which indeed has something to do with looks, which you cant change
But im friends with girls, even though im ugly as fuck
You can all have friends, but this needs effort
And sitting at home, doing nothing wont change shit
You need a plan, and you need a goal, and the motivation to do it
And if you go down that road, everyone can change, and have a social circle, despite being ugly

 

[VLÖ]

Yes it is, or should i say, you looks are not hindering you to make friends
You would need to be a deformed 0/10, then i would say yeah you looks are the reason you cant make friends
You dont make friends because, you are autistic, or you have absolutely no social skills
Not making friends, is always a mental problem, sometimes due something you were born with, like severe autism
But mostly its just, running away from your problems, or liking having problems
Even if you have zero social skills, you can still train, and get to a point where you can get friends
And trust me, ive gone down that road
I was at a place in my life, where i could not talk to any person, not even my family, i was mute, even when i spoke to my family, i could not articulate myself, i started stuttering, and was not able to hold a conversation whatsoever
When i went outside, i had severe panic attacks, i only looked down to the ground, people were scared of me, and knew something is wrong in my head
I had no friends, no one liked me, my family did not, and i certainly did not like myself, I went through hell to attack this problem
I started going to school again, and even though i only went like 1 or 2 hours at max every day, because then i had to drive to the emergency room, because i had such massive panic attacks, that i could not breathe anymore, i went blind or had severe heart problems, where my pulse went up to 200 beats a minute
All related to stress, everything was too much for me
But i kept fighting, and you know what
Nowdays i have friends, i can stand up for myself, i started fighting guys who are bigger and stronger than me, if they disrespected me
I told people to fuck off, and i did what i wanted, i hug people, i can talk to them, i even can talk to girls
Of course i still have some problems, and its not always easy, but no one can tell me, that its impossible to make friends, or its impossible to adapt in such a way, that society wants to interact with you
And im not talking about getting a gf, thats another story, which indeed has something to do with looks, which you cant change
But im friends with girls, even though im ugly as fuck
You can all have friends, but this needs effort
And sitting at home, doing nothing wont change shit
You need a plan, and you need a goal, and the motivation to do it
And if you go down that road, everyone can change, and have a social circle, despite being ugly

That's a whole lot of fucking text just to stroke your own dick. I don't care how YOU got friends you muppet. YOU are not ME. Your experiences aren't mine. Just because you got lucky doesn't mean everyone will.

 

[Notgoingtomakeit]

Yeah it's no secret social circles are an invaluable resource.

 

[grayjedi90]

I saw someone in the last thread that got deleted wondering what social circle is and thinking that it may be some vague made up thing.

Social circle is your social network (not to be confused with social media), as in your friends and their friends. It's the people you interact with socially, usually on a somewhat regular basis.

If you have a friend who has a friend who is a female, if you interact with her at let's say a house party and you then meet her again at a later date, then she is a part of your social circle, even if she's only a small part of it.

That's how most normies meet their girlfriend, they get introduced through a friend or meet her at some social gathering organized by friends. People network, they don't sit at home and watch anime all day, that's how they meet new people.

Not interacting with other people will significantly reduce the chances of finding a partner.

Yup. 28, no friends or social circle and no girfriend either. Rip me, it's a hellish experience i wish no one.

 

[Rice Cel]

Doesn't work for us. Normies look for friends of equal or higher value. Our looks make us extremely low value and they'd be embarrassed to have us around their the friends

 

[CopingGymcel]

Doesn't work for us. Normies look for friends of equal or higher value. Our looks make us extremely low value and they'd be embarrassed to have us around their the friends

I think normies appreciate a few friends they can mog also.

 

[Arentheal]

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Jahlarni Toney
Answered Dec 28, 2017
Yes, of course there is a chance! Your height is mostly dependent on your genes so if your relatives are short then you should expect it as well. Nothing you do at this point will really affect anything. I’d say try not to think about it but that of course does not help.
I’m almost 16 now and 5 foot 9 and still find myself feeling self conscious about my height considering so many people are taller than (as well as my peers)
Height is still important in social situations too. You seem more important and attractive. You can try to make up for it with a great personality though. Again, there’s still hope
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Personality doesnt mean SHIT! I fucking hate being a manlet! If i was created for a purpose it would be to make other people feel better about their height

 

[Vorbei]

Being a smartphonecel (too poor to afford one) makes cultivating a social circle so much more difficult, everything is done through group chat apps and IM services these days. I've been attending a course for past couple of months and even if I wasn't anxious and high-inhib it wouldn't matter because the friendship groups that have formed have done so through these apps, some people are even creating an agency together. The importance of social circle game can't be understated.

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

what hes saying is that this is the reason why sub8 theory is total bullshit. This is how NORMIES get their gfs. An incel still wouldnt get a girl through this route even if he hypothetically had a social circle.

Pretty much.

8+ = success on tinder

5-7 = social circle game provided you are NT

sub 4 = Truecel even if NT, extroverted, etc.

Another thing is girls will often try to push ugly (sub 4) men out of their social circle. This has happened to me several times and I have seen it happen to other ugly males. Though a lot of time the girls will simply ignore the ugly men in their social circle, even if they themselves are sub 4.

 

[Rice Cel]

I think normies appreciate a few friends they can mog also.

As long as that's not the sole purpose of the friendship I guess it's fine but those kinds of friends you'll typically have already been friends with for a long time. If you're older and trying to find new friends for social circle game, they'll have a higher chance of ulterior motives

 

[KV-]

Also, when you finally manage to get some friends, it's really hard to keep them, when you're introverted and don't want to hang out with people all the time.
That's my problem.

Cope. Your “friends” don’t want to hang with you because they find you uncool/ugly and they freeloaded off whatever value you offered them (free rides, piggybacked gym membership, notes on a test, etc). If someone genuinely wants to be your friend it means they like you, and will not simply leave you because you don’t want to hang out every day. Especially because they probably know you are an introvert if you are actually friends.

Pretty much.

8+ = success on tinder

5-7 = social circle game provided you are NT

sub 4 = Truecel even if NT, extroverted, etc.

Another thing is girls will often try to push ugly (sub 4) men out of their social circle. This has happened to me several times and I have seen it happen to other ugly males. Though a lot of time the girls will simply ignore the ugly men in their social circle, even if they themselves are sub 4.

The only time sub 4s are allowed to stay in a social circle is if they provide some sort of material value to the other members of the group, like free food or test answers or something.

 

[theundeadburg]

yeah. thats why i say people without social circles are fakecels

 

[TheHaircutBrother]

Social circle is necessary if you are not 8+. If you don't have friends, you might as well rope. You can only meet girls during childhood, or through common friends later on.

 

[catfishman23]

Coping gymcel is a normie

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Most normies don't meet their GF online, either