Serious Social anxiety around women doesn't exist, it's fear of other men that makes you uneasy.

[Drakul]

Too many times I've heard "men" asking for advice on how to make eye contact with a foid, how to talk to her confidently and generally on not being scared around the other gender (the other singular one, jfl at living in a world where you have to specify).

How the hell does this chickening attitude even make sense? You are double her size, triple her muscle mass and you could literally kill her with a hand.

Then why when it comes to approach, even simply to just talk, those wimps begin to shake end sweats cold? In front of you stands some tender small cute creature and yet you're acting like you are facing Hulk Hogan or el Chapo Guzman with his guards behind him pulling how out a video camera and two machetes.

You know why? Maybe it's not so much about you being a pussy (you still are) but about an ingrained and ancestral mechanism you inherited from your forefathercels.

Back in the past (and by past I don't mean just the caveman era but up until 100-150 years ago) approaching a foid or even just saying hi the smallest thing she could have perceived as non appropriate could (and who knows how many times did) have had CONSEQUENCES. And sometimes deadly.

Even just trying to have a tame convo with the sister of medieval illiterate angry religious Chad could result in having him feeding you to the pigs few hours later.

Or having said something a bit too bold trying to court just your average village girl could lead you in being the very next day approached by 8-10 farmers with a very serious look on their face and holding pitchforks.

Now THAT is a good occasion to sweat cold JFL

And do you think that you can get rid tens of thousands of years of evolutionary conditioning just because some Indian PUA scammer janitor made you pay 400 dollars to "teach" you how holding frame and doing shit tests?

You don't. Real IRL confidence is given either by being a Chad/well adjusted and respected man in the community (thus not unconsciously fear retaliation) or by being a schizo with nothing to lose (thus unconsciously ready to die). All the faggots in between have to live with the constant uneasiness around m'lady.

If tomorrow ALL men apart ugly blackpilled subhumans were killed your behaviour around femaloids would turn flips 180 degrees in an instant.

Simps and mate guarding jocks out of the picture you'd talk to them with the same nonchalance you talk with your down syndrome neighbour.

If her started to call you ugly and creepy you would just laugh to her face and sway your penis in front of her in a mocking way. You would now see them for the harmless small animals they are and wouldn't give a damn about their "opinions".

 

[Lonelyus]

Too many times I've heard "men" asking for advice on how to make eye contact with a foid, how to talk to her confidently and generally on not being scared around the other gender (the other singular one, jfl at living in a world where you have to specify).

How the hell does this chickening attitude even make sense? You are double her size, triple her muscle mass and you could literally kill her with a hand.

Then why when it comes to approach, even simply to just talk, those wimps begin to shake end sweats cold? In front of you stands some tender small cute creature and yet you're acting like you are facing Hulk Hogan or el Chapo Guzman with his guards behind him pulling how out a video camera and two machetes.

You know why? Maybe it's not so much about you being a pussy (you still are) but about an ingrained and ancestral mechanism you inherited from your forefathercels.

Back in the past (and by past I don't mean just the caveman era but up until 100-150 years ago) approaching a foid or even just saying hi the smallest thing she could have perceived as non appropriate could (and who knows how many times did) have had CONSEQUENCES. And sometimes deadly.

Even just trying to have a tame convo with the sister of medieval illiterate angry religious Chad could result in having him feeding you to the pigs few hours later.

Or having said something a bit too bold trying to court just your average village girl could lead you in being the very next day approached by 8-10 farmers with a very serious look on their face and holding pitchforks.

Now THAT is a good occasion to sweat cold JFL

And do you think that you can get rid tens of thousands of years of evolutionary conditioning just because some Indian PUA scammer janitor made you pay 400 dollars to "teach" you how holding frame and doing shit tests?

You don't. Real IRL confidence is given either by being a Chad/well adjusted and respected man in the community (thus not unconsciously fear retaliation) or by being a schizo with nothing to lose (thus unconsciously ready to die). All the faggots in between have to live with the constant uneasiness around m'lady.

If tomorrow ALL men apart ugly blackpilled subhumans were killed your behaviour around femaloids would turn flips 180 degrees in an instant.

Simps and mate guarding jocks out of the picture you'd talk to them with the same nonchalance you talk with your down syndrome neighbour.

If her started to call you ugly and creepy you would just laugh to her face and sway your penis in front of her in a mocking way. You would now see them for the harmless small animals they are and wouldn't give a damn about their "opinions".

Yeah because men could come up and ask, Is this man harassing you, In order to try to seem alpha and get her

 

[AsakuraHao]

You are double her size

I'm 5'5

 

[Mecoja]

I dont agree, i feel anxious around attractive women and rich people because it makes me insecure and worthless, im fine around other men even double my size.

 

[TheyStarveUs]

I'm 5'5

Men are scared of rejection and humiliation from women. Nothing to do with size or physicality.

 

[Drakul]

I dont agree, i feel anxious around attractive women and rich people because it makes me insecure and worthless, im fine around other men even double my size.

You feel insecure cause you can't treat them as objects. If I give you homelandER superpowers you'll laugh at them.

 

[Repulsive123]

over

 

[Drakul]

Men are scared of rejection and humiliation from women. Nothing to do with size or physicality.

Unconscious fear of other men. If you could mouthfuck every woman you see in daylight with no one intervening, out of fear u kill them,you wouldn't give a damn of their "rejections".

 

[tulasdanslos]

And the fed reveals itself, wanting to have a porn life of being more powerful than Joe Biden and facefucking random girls in broad daylight.

 

[Robb97]

I used to be afraid of 5 year old kids, because they could insult me openly. And other teenagers and adults would hear it, which would further lower my social status. Imagine having a girlfriend somehow, and then a couple of little kids start openly disrespecting me. People are watching, so I can't discipline them. My girlfriend would lose all her respect and realize that I have bottom of the barrel tier genetics.

Now I don't care anymore because I don't have social status to lose. I already got none and that won't change in the future.

 

[TheyStarveUs]

Unconscious fear of other men. If you could mouthfuck every woman you see in daylight with no one intervening, out of fear u kill them,you wouldn't give a damn of their "rejections".

You don't take the hit in self-worth into account, plus the other women will overhear the interaction and lower your status

 

[Drakul]

You don't take the hit in self-worth into account, plus the other women will overhear the interaction and lower your status

You will bang them later.

 

[TheyStarveUs]

I don't believe it's an innate thing, we don't have the balls to go up to women because we don't have the looks for it, if we were a tall attractive man then approaching wouldn't be hard, we receive all this negative feedback loop that we are fed whilst growing up, then no shit we are scared of a woman as much as we are of Hulk Hogan.

High IQ. Better than I could've articulated it.
I remember I went to the club once and I saw this really tall white guy with a cocky smirk in his face. Then I saw him approach a hot blonde and they started making out. Then I heard her say, "give me your number." He knew he was going to get a welcomed by women.

A lot of our fear stem from a shitty past of brutal rejections, and we definitely don't want to experience that shit again.

 

[LDARbeforeROPE]

Too many times I've heard "men" asking for advice on how to make eye contact with a foid, how to talk to her confidently and generally on not being scared around the other gender (the other singular one, jfl at living in a world where you have to specify).

How the hell does this chickening attitude even make sense? You are double her size, triple her muscle mass and you could literally kill her with a hand.

Then why when it comes to approach, even simply to just talk, those wimps begin to shake end sweats cold? In front of you stands some tender small cute creature and yet you're acting like you are facing Hulk Hogan or el Chapo Guzman with his guards behind him pulling how out a video camera and two machetes.

You know why? Maybe it's not so much about you being a pussy (you still are) but about an ingrained and ancestral mechanism you inherited from your forefathercels.

Back in the past (and by past I don't mean just the caveman era but up until 100-150 years ago) approaching a foid or even just saying hi the smallest thing she could have perceived as non appropriate could (and who knows how many times did) have had CONSEQUENCES. And sometimes deadly.

Even just trying to have a tame convo with the sister of medieval illiterate angry religious Chad could result in having him feeding you to the pigs few hours later.

Or having said something a bit too bold trying to court just your average village girl could lead you in being the very next day approached by 8-10 farmers with a very serious look on their face and holding pitchforks.

Now THAT is a good occasion to sweat cold JFL

And do you think that you can get rid tens of thousands of years of evolutionary conditioning just because some Indian PUA scammer janitor made you pay 400 dollars to "teach" you how holding frame and doing shit tests?

You don't. Real IRL confidence is given either by being a Chad/well adjusted and respected man in the community (thus not unconsciously fear retaliation) or by being a schizo with nothing to lose (thus unconsciously ready to die). All the faggots in between have to live with the constant uneasiness around m'lady.

If tomorrow ALL men apart ugly blackpilled subhumans were killed your behaviour around femaloids would turn flips 180 degrees in an instant.

Simps and mate guarding jocks out of the picture you'd talk to them with the same nonchalance you talk with your down syndrome neighbour.

If her started to call you ugly and creepy you would just laugh to her face and sway your penis in front of her in a mocking way. You would now see them for the harmless small animals they are and wouldn't give a damn about their "opinions".

Inhibition definitely exist

 

[The Abyss]

I think you're onto something, the repercussions of the moron protectors or law, punishing you for methods that got your grandfather a wife.

 

[mmm]

Social anxiety around women doesn't exist, it's fear of other men that makes you uneasy.​

It depends. Some guys are genuinely afraid of rejection. You were right about me, though.

 

[Toxic_Manbabby]

I dont agree, i feel anxious around attractive women and rich people because it makes me insecure and worthless, im fine around other men even double my size.

I was going to say the same thing. I would actually feel less anxious fighting a fucking grizzly bear than approaching a Gigastacy in a random place.

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

i feel anxious around attractive women and rich people because it makes me insecure and worthless

 

[Profligate]

It's not that deep bro. It's just fear of being rejected because it causes emotional pain and people don't like pain

 

[Shaktiman]

You are right OP.when i am alone with women during coaching classes i feel more secured then when there are other boys with me in the class.Luckily i get to do my classes one day a week with only women present there and i defintely notice my behavioural changes if i have more men present there with me