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So thinking of scheduling an appointment with counselor, not really a psychologist/therapist, was/am going to bring up the sexual/romantic

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frustrations and everything associated with it, like all out honesty, just let it all out, but with some precautions. I have been meaning to bring this up ever since I have been talking with her. This has been at the root of alot of my problems. Any suggestions?
 
She will just tell you you're not ugly and you're a "nice guy" and etc etc etc etc. It won't help for shit and she might even ruin your life based on that.
 
I wouldn't ever say anything about those types of problems to any "professional" ever, they're just going to spread it around and laugh at you in the best case scenario and in the worst case scenario can prevent you from getting a job or what-not
 
She will give you useless advice unless you're a mentalcel
 
Dont even go there...this person will never understand you.
 
Women literally cannot understand the male perspective either lol

They seriously think dating for males is as easy as it is for them.
 
I have a job, have had one for a few years now. Lived on my own a few years, parents help with rent, long story/I kind of fucked up by not saving enough. All this time, and I have tried, maybe not enough, but I have tried, and still single/lonely/sexless. For a LONG Time. and there are probably many reasons for this, I think maybe this is/has all been mental. And I need to unravel that.
 
Do not pay for anything like this. Complete waste. They are bluepilled as fuck. If you can get it for free (like in high school or college), it's worth a shot just for someone to vent to.

Honestly, as controversial as this may sound to some incels, living a Christian life and having a good doctrinal foundation is the best cure to mental issues that an incel can have. Human validation is the best, but we can't get that.
 
I try to not make it be about validation. There was another post on here talking about how the only way to feel good is through lots of validation. I was looking for it to respond no, it's not what you think. Yes, praise and getting credit feels good. It's a nice feeling. But there is a dark side to that. Look at rock stars/famous people, they get a high, they get in with certain crowds, they get fucked up on drugs, they have no off switch. Go and read the stories of this happening to people who don't have the sense or maturity to stop. It's not all that cracked up to be.

And then on a lighter but more annoying note, imagine having to deal with mmm, a 70-90% of people who either through needy anxiety or not being able to stop and pay attention for 2 fucking seconds or someone looking to have their fucking ass kissed cause they never really grew the fuck up and/or aren't being used to told no and/or go fuck yourself, and they try to suck you into their own personal orbit of stupid fucking bullshit and when you resist and tell them no, they can turn on you like a rabid dog over the pettiest of shit. All in the name of "validation". Yeah. It's not all you think it is.

I was not always the most matured kid, I was/am a lonely bastard for a long time, but I long knew and could see the issues with it all being about "validation". Granted I spent alot of time alone thinking I knew better, but yeah, don't make that the focus if you ask me.
 
female therapists are fucking useless. They will call you immature and act like they're better than you while giving bluepilled cuck responses.
 
She hasn't called me anything like that. It's been good so far. I need to talk with someone about this cause I feel like I am in a dark place ovet alot of this and haven't had help or guidance to sort it out over the years and here I am 32 and these are still problems I haven't figured out/hung up on.
 
frustrations and everything associated with it, like all out honesty, just let it all out, but with some precautions. I have been meaning to bring this up ever since I have been talking with her. This has been at the root of alot of my problems. Any suggestions?

Do it. Ignore the terrible advice from others here.
If you're doing therapy, you might as well be open about what the fuck is going on, or else why bother with it in the first place.
 
I did this before. Sorry to say it, but they can't help you. It will only fuel your anger and sadness
 
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You should get only an appointment with a maxface.
The rest is scam.
 
She will just tell you you're not ugly and you're a "nice guy" and etc etc etc etc. It won't help for shit and she might even ruin your life based on that.

Where did you do your therapist training? What accreditation?
 
I wouldn't ever say anything about those types of problems to any "professional" ever, they're just going to spread it around and laugh at you in the best case scenario and in the worst case scenario can prevent you from getting a job or what-not

You might want to get that paranoia checked out.
 
Watch this OP.

 
ehhhh, i tried therapy twice and it was a waste of time they both just spouted normie platitutes and created normie scenarios i couldnt relate to because im incel.

they actually thought i had friends. top kek.
 
If you mention anything about sui the cops will kick down your door and arrest you.
 
never go to therapy. the entire industry is a scam built on the back of entertaining house wifes. therapy worsened my life by a great deal.
 

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