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So let's rank copes by degree of effectiveness

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From least useful to most useful, here's my personal list

- Suicide: not a cope, since you cease to exist.
- PUAcelling (will drive you even crazier if you're sub5)
- Gymcelling (if done to get girls rather than for health)
- "Death is the ultimate equalizer": you'll still have lived a shitty life and you'll leave no legacy behind, besides Stacies and Chads will probably become immortal with longevity medicine during this century
- Fapping: will just make you more horny, brain-fogged and lonely on the long haul
- Politics: if you want social change, the only way is tax dodging through cryptocurrency, no normie will ever side with ugly men in a voting booth
- NEETing: been there, done that, not a good solution on the long haul
- Earning money: a cope honestly, but it allows your brain to fantasize about betabuxing a nice foreign girl one day
- Hobbies and vidya: good but you can't rely on them alone to feel good
- VR: I've tried a Rift and was a bit disappointed, but next-gen VR headsets will be da bomb
- A sport that you enjoy: I do long distance running and feel great thanks to it
- A self-actualizing job: better than NEETing, but these are rare unicorns
- Religion: can be any, and you can delude yourself into believing. The most effective cope in my experience. My set of beliefs is an admixture of Christianity, Buddhism and Singularity. I may be a heretic but this beats the most effective chemical anti-depressants I've tried, with no side effects.
 
I agree that religion is the best cope, especially blackpill-ish stuff like Buddhism and Gnosticism.

Christianity is bluepilled as fuck, not a good cope depending on your IQ and personality.
 
-Getting a GF: the cope to end all copes
 
"It's not your fault" Is a bad cope, every normie and femoid who ever put their eyes on you seriously thinks it's your somehow fault and delusionally laugh inside as they convince themselves they are superior

A good "cope" is serial killing or abusing power to hurt femoids or males who are more attractive than you and not black pilled
 
  • Posting on Incels.me - GOAT cope
  • Escortceling - (if you can afford) very close 2nd
  • Vidya
  • Social circle
  • TV, films, music
  • Religion, spiritualism and self-help
 
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I agree that religion is the best cope, especially blackpill-ish stuff like Buddhism and Gnosticism.

Christianity is bluepilled as fuck, not a good cope depending on your IQ and personality.
The Christianity of the origins, that is until ~500 AD, was very blackpilled, if not misanthropic. You see a lot of discourses on how you can't trust anyone, how life as a hermit is good, how women should be avoided.

Then Christianity was turned into an institution and used by political rulers. At this point it became ever more bluepill, eliminating "blackpill" heresies like Marcionism, Gnosticism, Catharism, Bogomilism (all these heresies were extremely similar, united in contempt of the material world and of reproduction), silencing certain parts of the New Testament when it suited Church and government officials.

So all in all, the original Christianity is actually blackpill, but contemporary Christianity is not - - its stance against transhumanism proves that it has become a mere status-quo enforcer.
 
  1. Video Games
  2. Anime&Movies/Tv Shows
  3. Masturbating
  4. Sleeping
  5. Music
  6. Drugs
 
The Christianity of the origins, that is until ~500 AD, was very blackpilled, if not misanthropic. You see a lot of discourses on how you can't trust anyone, how life as a hermit is good, how women should be avoided.

Then Christianity was turned into an institution and used by political rulers. At this point it became ever more bluepill, eliminating "blackpill" heresies like Marcionism, Gnosticism, Catharism, Bogomilism (all these heresies were extremely similar, united in contempt of the material world and of reproduction), silencing certain parts of the New Testament when it suited Church and government officials.

So all in all, the original Christianity is actually blackpill, but contemporary Christianity is not - - its stance against transhumanism proves that it has become a mere status-quo enforcer.
It baffles me how most people accept dogmatic changes in a religion with time. It's supposedly the fucking words of GOD there in the Bible, how come a religious authority nowadays can shit on them and everyone accepts it without questioning?

For example Christianity is harsh as fuck with females and their tendencies, but modern Christianity invariably ignores if not condemns the plethora of scripture on females, to match nowadays political paradigm.

Even "scripture only" types ignore the most controversial parts of the Bible in relation to the modern paradigm. Women are not even supposed to TALK at churches at now they're even preachers in pentecostal churches, for God's sake.
 
Most copes are not good enough for me currently, I'm waiting for fully immersive virtual reality to cope to the maximum.

If I had to pick though, LDAR reigns supreme as the best cope.
 
It baffles me how most people accept dogmatic changes in a religion with time. It's supposedly the fucking words of GOD there in the Bible, how come a religious authority nowadays can shit on them and everyone accepts it without questioning?

For example Christianity is harsh as fuck with females and their tendencies, but modern Christianity invariably ignores if not condemns the plethora of scripture on females, to match nowadays political paradigm.

Even "scripture only" types ignore the most controversial parts of the Bible in relation to the modern paradigm. Women are not even supposed to TALK at churches at now they're even preachers in pentecostal churches, for God's sake.
That's why the only legit form of Christianity is Orthodoxy, but even Orthodoxy is moderately suspicious, and so are in fact the Holy Texts. The Bible scholar Bart Ehrman has successfully questioned how much of the Bible is true and how much was added/deleted later on by clever cheats.
 
- Suicide
- Fapping
- PUAcelling
- NEETing
- Vidya
- VR
- Politics
- Gymcelling
- Religion
- "Death is the ultimate equalizer"
- Escorts
- Hobbies
- Earning money
- A self-actualizing job
 
I agree that religion is the best cope, especially blackpill-ish stuff like Buddhism and Gnosticism.

Christianity is bluepilled as fuck, not a good cope depending on your IQ and personality.
Christianity is the opposite of bluepilled , dumbass. Femoids would be stoned to death by a whole village or left in the wildernesses to die .
 
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Blue Pill copes (everything will turn out alright):
- Beta orbit.
- Feminism.
- Friendzone.
- Nihilism (nothing matters anyway).
- Omegabux for camwhores/etc.
- Reactionary politics (evangelicalism, nationalism, men's rights, etc.).
- Necromania (death makes us equal).
- Theism/etc. (believing in a god/afterlife/karma/reincarnation/etc.)
- Therapy.
- Waiting for women to hit the wall.

Red Pill copes (I can make things better):
- All types of maxxing.
- All types of surgery.
- Any type of "willing" abstinence/celibacy.
- Dating apps.
- Expatting from the Western world.
- Kink communities.
- MGTOW.
- Numbers game spam approaches.
- PUA.
- Religion as a personal lifestyle.
- Self-help tutorials.

Rainbow Pill copes (fuck being a straight guy):
- Going gay.
- Going trans.

Black Pill copes (it's over):
- Creeping on femoids.
- Drugs.
- Escapist media (games, anime, porn, etc.).
- Escorts/prostitutes.
- Fatalism (it was destined to be this way).
- Masturbation.
- NEETing.
- Personal hobbies and projects (that you have more time for without trying to SMVmaxx).
- Perverse fetishes.
- Sex toys.
- Social experiments.
- Trolling normies.
- Virtual reality.

Black pill is best pill.
 
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Dota 2, Ragnarok Online, CS:GO number 1 copes
 
Blue Pill copes (everything will turn out alright):
- Beta orbit.
- Feminism.
- Friendzone.
- Nihilism (nothing matters anyway).
- Omegabux for camwhores/etc.
- Reactionary politics (evangelicalism, nationalism, men's rights, etc.).
- Necromania (death makes us equal).
- Theism/etc. (believing in a god/afterlife/karma/reincarnation/etc.)
- Therapy.
- Waiting for women to hit the wall.

Red Pill copes (I can make things better):
- All types of maxxing.
- All types of surgery.
- Any type of "willing" abstinence/celibacy.
- Dating apps.
- Expatting from the Western world.
- Kink communities.
- MGTOW.
- Numbers game spam approaches.
- PUA.
- Religion as a personal lifestyle.
- Self-help tutorials.

Rainbow Pill copes (fuck being a straight guy):
- Going gay.
- Going trans.

Black Pill copes (it's over):
- Creeping on femoids.
- Drugs.
- Escapist media (games, anime, porn, etc.).
- Escorts/prostitutes.
- Fatalism (it was destined to be this way).
- Masturbation.
- NEETing.
- Personal hobbies and projects (that you have more time for without trying to SMVmaxx).
- Perverse fetishes.
- Sex toys.
- Social experiments.
- Trolling normies.
- Virtual reality.

Black pill is best pill.


YOu forgot NoFAP as a Red Pill cope
 
i love these
My version of "death is the ultimate equalizer" is comparing our lives with infinity. We were just an extremely ephemeral intersection in nonexistence. Good and bad stuff happening lose their impact when you think that way.
 
I agree that religion is the best cope, especially blackpill-ish stuff like Buddhism and Gnosticism.

Christianity is bluepilled as fuck, not a good cope depending on your IQ and personality.

I was about to talk shit to you for being a May 3rdcel. But holy fuck you already have 500+ posts which means you definitely belong to this website. But you are definitely wrong about Christianity being bluepilled.
 
I was about to talk shit to you for being a May 3rdcel. But holy fuck you already have 500+ posts which means you definitely belong to this website. But you are definitely wrong about Christianity being bluepilled.
Thanks for noticing me, Senpai.

I just think Christianity is too positive and optimistic, it doesn't reflect the reality of this world at all, except for the "heresies" like Gnosticism and Catharism.

Any religion or ideology that preaches that life is good and fair just doesn't get down my throat.
 
The Christianity of the origins, that is until ~500 AD, was very blackpilled, if not misanthropic. You see a lot of discourses on how you can't trust anyone, how life as a hermit is good, how women should be avoided.

Then Christianity was turned into an institution and used by political rulers. At this point it became ever more bluepill, eliminating "blackpill" heresies like Marcionism, Gnosticism, Catharism, Bogomilism (all these heresies were extremely similar, united in contempt of the material world and of reproduction), silencing certain parts of the New Testament when it suited Church and government officials.

So all in all, the original Christianity is actually blackpill, but contemporary Christianity is not - - its stance against transhumanism proves that it has become a mere status-quo enforcer.
It baffles me how most people accept dogmatic changes in a religion with time. It's supposedly the fucking words of GOD there in the Bible, how come a religious authority nowadays can shit on them and everyone accepts it without questioning?

For example Christianity is harsh as fuck with females and their tendencies, but modern Christianity invariably ignores if not condemns the plethora of scripture on females, to match nowadays political paradigm.

Even "scripture only" types ignore the most controversial parts of the Bible in relation to the modern paradigm. Women are not even supposed to TALK at churches at now they're even preachers in pentecostal churches, for God's sake.

This always struck me as odd too. I always found myself sympathizing, in a way, with fundamentalist Christians, as, even if the veracity of the scripture is questionable, they can at least nominally make the attempt to live by the word of their God. Most of the other vusible sects are concerned simply with how to manipulate it to suit the contigencies of the zeitgeist. "Um the Bible actually said to love everyone, so I'll just ignore all those unequivocal, clear injunctions against sodomy, adultering, and female autonomy???"

I'm nothing approaching a theologian, but I'd love to delve further into this stuff. I can't see myself ever being a theist, but most religions seem eminently useful as prescriptive philosophies.
 
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- VR: I've tried a Rift and was a bit disappointed, but next-gen VR headsets will be da bomb
-

What were you disappointed with? Screen door effect? low FOV?

What do you expect out of the next-gen headsets?
 
You know you are fucked when none of these copes sound appealing to you or help anymore.
 
Not a very common cope in my age group (the age group I assume most of you guys are in) but please don't ever fall into gambling. The highs of winning are AMAZING, I won't lie. When you win, or you keep hitting good amounts, there's nothing in the world you give a shit about. My anxiety? Women? Love? Sadness? Pfft, laughable. But those days are few and far between. You never really win, when you do, it's just more fuel to feed your love. I'm sorry to say this, but I've been in an abusive relationship, with a machine. The machines replace what you lack in your life. Where I live the access is so easy, every bar has vlts (like slot machines, but more addictive for some reason). If you live somewhere where you have them, don't go near them. Please. We all suffer a lack of affection, love and sex, but gambling is the worst thing you can do to fill that void. I wish I never touched those machines. I married the machines and they sucked all the betabux out of me.
 
Who here maladaptive daydreaming?
 
VR is overrated. Maybe in a decade. Competitive video games are the best cope.
 
1) music
2) incels.is
3) alcohol
 
I agree that religion is the best cope, especially blackpill-ish stuff like Buddhism and Gnosticism.

Christianity is bluepilled as fuck, not a good cope depending on your IQ and personality.

Today's Christian churches yes are bluepilled. They are all very weak and compromised. If Jesus were to visit a modern church today, they'd kick Him out. That or... Jesus will start overturning tables like what He did at the temple when they turned it into a den of thieves.

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(Matthew 21:12-13)
12 And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves,
13 And said unto them, It is written, My house shall be called the house of prayer; but ye have made it a den of thieves.
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The Bible has the original blackpill...

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14 I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and, behold, all is vanity and vexation of spirit. (Ecc 1:14)
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Note that that Book was written by King Solomon... who was an obvious Chad... 700 wives... 300 concubines... Even he arrived at the conclusion that this world is all vanity and going to waste and there's no hope.
 
I have to say a Doll is the best cope for me. The Japanese are also working on this hologram companion type thing, that should work for the dudes who care more about having someone to talk too, rather than plow.
 

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