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Theory Small Rural Towns are most optimal for incels

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I am guessing these towns don't have much crime. No criminals/protestors/random bullshit in your face. You see no one most of the time. Minimal looks discrimination since small town folk have to rely on each other.

Now given, I haven't lived in one of these but only visited, I can't say with my own experience that they're better. But I am theorizing they are. And some day I will find out.
 
They have their pros and cons. I think in America and Canada, rural communities are too spread apart and isolated. They’re not like naturally formed villages in the rest of the world. Small towns are pretty similar, and being an outsider is brutal. Plus hard to access resources as easily.

Cities are very clustered, but since there are too many people, you have to filter out all of them. In the end you are isolated despite being surrounded by lots of people.

I think the middle ground is suburbs, but even there it’s still pretty isolating as technology becomes more prominent. Over the last decades, it has become increasingly isolating as well. But personally I prefer this because you are away from the hustling and crime of the city but close enough to get access to resources that are much more prominent in the city.
 
Not if you’re ethnic and in the US

You will be invisible or treated like a criminal
 
Not with accelerating globalisation. I know somebody from a town with less than 300 people in the middle of nowhere doesn't seem to help since satellite internet.
 
Good points but keep in mind that small towns are very close knit and rumors about you spread like wildfire and are inescapable. Pretty much everyone knows each other from birth and outsiders don't tend to be welcome.

Say a foid makes a complaint about you looking at her or something. The townspeople will hear about this and treat you like shit from then on (they most likely already think less of you for being an outsider, AND an Incel on top of that so this will make things worse) or deny you service at the businesses they own.They might even attempt vigilante justice if the crime you're accused of is especially heinous.

Only way a rural area could work is if you go off grid and have the ability to be self sufficient. Otherwise better to be an invisible NPC in a large city than be the local loser or creep.
 
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no escorts in my small town
 
As a incel living in a rural community o can confirm. When I was younger I used to blame the fact that I lived in a small town/ rural place on why I wasn’t getting many dates, but looking back it was me, I was the problem. Anyways, now that I’m older, and am pretty much as shut in on disability, it’s pretty comfy, and I’m able to stretch my check as much as possible.
 
They have their pros and cons. I think in America and Canada, rural communities are too spread apart and isolated. They’re not like naturally formed villages in the rest of the world. Small towns are pretty similar, and being an outsider is brutal. Plus hard to access resources as easily.

Cities are very clustered, but since there are too many people, you have to filter out all of them. In the end you are isolated despite being surrounded by lots of people.

I think the middle ground is suburbs, but even there it’s still pretty isolating as technology becomes more prominent. Over the last decades, it has become increasingly isolating as well. But personally I prefer this because you are away from the hustling and crime of the city but close enough to get access to resources that are much more prominent in the city.
yeah this is true. I will probably move to a suburb at some point. And then to small town when I am very old.
Not if you’re ethnic and in the US

You will be invisible or treated like a criminal
true that is probably an issue.
Not with accelerating globalisation. I know somebody from a town with less than 300 people in the middle of nowhere doesn't seem to help since satellite internet.
yeah globohomo is infecting the small towns as well.
yeah it's good because it's peaceful but access to amenities is the main problem for me, harder to get restaurant copes, longer time for online delivery, might feel too isolating at times and healthcare access in case needed
Those are the main reasons I haven't moved to one. I suspect at some point though with better technology, we might have faster delivery times. So it won't be as bad. Imo even with those issues, it might be worth moving. I'll have to give it a try at some point.
Good points but keep in mind that small towns are very close knit and rumors about you spread like wildfire and are inescapable. Pretty much everyone knows each other from birth and outsiders don't tend to be welcome.

Say a foid makes a complaint about you looking at her or something. The townspeople will hear about this and treat you like shit from then on (they most likely already think less of you for being an outsider, AND an Incel on top of that so this will make things worse) or deny you service at the businesses they own.They might even attempt vigilante justice if the crime you're accused of is especially heinous.

Only way a rural area could work is if you go off grid and have the ability to be self sufficient. Otherwise better to be an invisible NPC in a large city than be the local loser or creep.
Vigilantism is definitely a major issue. It's a good thing in some ways because it shows the power of community. But ofc also some innocents get fucked over here and there.
no escorts in my small town
Outside select European cities. Escorts are very risky. In USA cities, tons of them are glowie sting operations
As a incel living in a rural community o can confirm. When I was younger I used to blame the fact that I lived in a small town/ rural place on why I wasn’t getting many dates, but looking back it was me, I was the problem. Anyways, now that I’m older, and am pretty much as shut in on disability, it’s pretty comfy, and I’m able to stretch my check as much as possible.
Nice. Costs are lower for most of the key basic items one needs there which is a good perk
 
Btw don't even bother ruraltownmaxxing in the west if you're an ethnicel
 
I am guessing these towns don't have much crime. No criminals/protestors/random bullshit in your face. You see no one most of the time. Minimal looks discrimination since small town folk have to rely on each other.

Now given, I haven't lived in one of these but only visited, I can't say with my own experience that they're better. But I am theorizing they are. And some day I will find out.
Yes

For USA and Canada
 
You'll just be easier ostracized.
 
Btw don't even bother ruraltownmaxxing in the west if you're an ethnicel
true ethnics are best off in suburban areas that are mostly white but maybe 20% ethnic. This way it they won't be too isolated.
 
Pretty much everyone knows each other from birth and outsiders don't tend to be welcome.
Very much this, although it very much depends on the area. Anecdotally, but I found southern places in the US to be way more welcoming than NE.
I used to live in a small town in one of the Northeastern states and it was brutal. On multiple occasions I was harassed by locals and demanded to "gtfo their street" just by walking it and looking around. Not the most pleasant experience tbh.
 
I've heard there are no women or young people in rural towns so we'd be reducing our already non-existant dating pool down to nothing by going into the sticks.
 
Not if you’re ethnic and in the US

You will be invisible or treated like a criminal
You have to be in a small town of your own ethnicity, of course.
 
I've heard there are no women or young people in rural towns so we'd be reducing our already non-existant dating pool down to nothing by going into the sticks.
Can confirm as a rural dixycel. All the young women leave for college right out of HS and never come back. If you want to live in cheap and somewhat safe then rural towns are the best but if you want to actually have a life outside of work or date then you're fucked.
 
I live in a rural area where a lot of white farmer types are and the gigamogg everybody here, they are all ripped by high school and al of them reach 6ft by then end its so fucking brootal and they all own land so they are moneymaxx and statusmaxx within the rural community, its really no better than cities especially if your a blackcels or deathnic
 
Not much job opportunities
 
Societies of all sizes have defenses against unattractive men. Large cities have impossibly high standards. Small towns are impossibly insular. The market for desirability is very efficient.
 
If you're ugly and act weird, neighbors will be suspicious and people will talk behind your back
 
Small Town living suks monkey balls. How about ZERO social life? Old timers and their honky tonk offspring are like petrified dead wood.
Being far away from amenities and good paying jobs also suks. I like a big mall, so when the weathers bad I can still get exercise walking.
Important to have hospital nearby too.

Dumb country hicks can keep that 4X4 truck.


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I am guessing these towns don't have much crime. No criminals/protestors/random bullshit in your face. You see no one most of the time. Minimal looks discrimination since small town folk have to rely on each other.

Now given, I haven't lived in one of these but only visited, I can't say with my own experience that they're better. But I am theorizing they are. And some day I will find out.
Yes I agree because women back in the old days in countryside only saw 150 people (men) maximum in their lifetime. Nowadays in large metropolitan cities , competition and hypergamy is sky high because the pool of men is higher for women. This makes incels lives harder
 
I lived in one for nearly all my life.
It's quite hard to say if it's a pro or a con, I think it really depends of the town itself, and your own environment.

You basically know nearly every person from your age, which can be a pro if you're a normie, but a con if you're incel.

You're far from the big cities, which doesn't affect much normies social life, but if you are like me and have in addition overprotective parents + you're driverlicensepill, you're very limited in terms of possibilities of going out and socializing. I had a few possibilities of going out with people I once considered to be my friends, and my parents always declined for the good old "we live too far away, you won't be able to get back home".

I lived in a quite calm neighborhood with many elders, so I wasn't much exposed to suifuel stuff in my town directly. For instance, during my teen years I saw group of guys going out together (while I was alone), sometimes in the middle of the night I could hear the odd car here and there blasting normie music, but it could be much worse in terms of suifuel.
If I lived, let's say, in the limits of the town, where people have big gardens and can do very noisy parties, it would have been much more suifuel for me. And if you live in a city, I think it's even worse.

And in terms of safety the population is often whiter than elsewhere so less criminality.
 
Chances of you being robbed or assulted in a big city is as miniscule as getting hit by lightning twice in a row
in 2022, the violent crime rate was 744.2/100k, which is around 0.75% chance of you being a victim any given year. The chance of you being a victim of property crime is 2141.2/100k, which us around 2.1% every year.

Now expand that data over a 10 year span, or even a lifetime, and you’ll realize it’s not so uncommon.
 
In small towns you get more shit if you stand out from the normies. It's not all that good honestly even if it's less cucked than the big city.
 
I've been living in the city since 2019. i think it's for the better. a lot of older people live here and that's beneficial.
 

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