Normies live unendingly pathetic lives. You can tell how well they've ingrained themselves to a destructive mode of self deprecation by how often they shrug off and make jokes about their wives cheating on them. I know this one 45 year old balding houseslave husband who brings up the fact that his wife used to date a basketball player nearly every time I see him. Too often he'll even go on a tangent that it made his wife a size queen, and they have to use oversized dildos to get her off. He doesn't lament at all, he makes light of his impotence like a sexless jester, who dances to the amusement of a barely empathetic audience as his wife is fucked in his own bed.