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Theory "Slaying" is more for ego than for actual pleasure or sustainable satisfaction

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since for slaying, most men (who can) will slay not-so-attractive women (my Chad friend slayed average looking women), and they have to use a condom anyway, so they can't feel much at all

they also don't always keep the woman for unprotected continuous sex, which happens in a relationship

more than anything, it's more to feed the ego, like "I'm the fucking man, I got the woman in bed"

for actual sexual pleasure, a long-term relationship is the only way, since you can actually have unprotected sex (the only actual sex) where you get to feel anything, and it's continuous, meaning you'll probably get laid again the next day or week without much hassle

if you're incel and you somehow manage to 'slay' 2 not-so-attractive women, I still wouldn't consider you ascended, since you won't be having sex with them unprotected continuously as part of your new life

I only consider getting a girlfriend/wife that you're actually attracted to as ascension

even getting a sheboon or noodle girlfriend isn't ascension
 
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Incel Community in 2023

"If you fuck 100 girls per year that's not ascension, you're still an incel"

Mark my words.
 
Incel Community in 2023

"If you fuck 100 girls per year that's not ascension, you're still an incel"

Mark my words.

if they're not actually decent looking boner-inducing women, then I wouldn't say it's ascension

say if someone claims they smashed 100 obese African American women .. are you really gonna be envious??
 
It’s more about the validation than the sex. If you just want to coom, you can just fap or get an escort.
 
if they're not actually decent looking boner-inducing women, then I wouldn't say it's ascension

say if someone claims they smashed 100 obese African American women .. are you really gonna be envious??
Dude, we can't even get average girls attracted to us. It's nice to dream and all but there's negative chance that any of us gets an attractive gf
 
Dude, we can't even get average girls attracted to us. It's nice to dream and all but there's negative chance that any of us gets an attractive gf

I think some white people here can go to mexico and get an actually attractive girl, it's not that unrealistic

but obviously a 5'6" currycel getting a white stacy is very unlikely
 
if they're not actually decent looking boner-inducing women, then I wouldn't say it's ascension

say if someone claims they smashed 100 obese African American women .. are you really gonna be envious??
The only ascension for you is the ceiling.
 
I only consider getting a girlfriend/wife that you're actually attracted to as ascension
By this standard, it would mean "ascension" is to return to the :bluepill: mindset.
 
Rejecting bitches is the real ascension.
 
Tbh I don't even want to have sex, I just want to receive affection
 
Incel Community in 2023

"If you fuck 100 girls per year that's not ascension, you're still an incel"

Mark my words.
what a load of BS. if you kiss a girl and she gives u a BJ at min u are NOT an incel and are just LARPING.
 
Sounds like the most cope I have ever heard.

Chad can have redeemable relationships and still slay on the side only in the west woman will cry over it but won’t fuck a guy no one else Desires they picked him chad is as happy as he’s mind can be.
 
since for slaying, most men (who can) will slay not-so-attractive women (my Chad friend slayed average looking women), and they have to use a condom anyway, so they can't feel much at all

they also don't always keep the woman for unprotected continuous sex, which happens in a relationship

more than anything, it's more to feed the ego, like "I'm the fucking man, I got the woman in bed"

for actual sexual pleasure, a long-term relationship is the only way, since you can actually have unprotected sex (the only actual sex) where you get to feel anything, and it's continuous, meaning you'll probably get laid again the next day or week without much hassle

if you're incel and you somehow manage to 'slay' 2 not-so-attractive women, I still wouldn't consider you ascended, since you won't be having sex with them unprotected continuously as part of your new life

I only consider getting a girlfriend/wife that you're actually attracted to as ascension

even getting a sheboon or noodle girlfriend isn't ascension
Ascension has nothing to do with getting a gf or wife, it has to do with getting to a point where your looks are finally not hurting you

technically, even a truecel could fuck an absolutely drunken Stacy (obviously rare) and this wouldn’t be an ascension at all, he’d still be a melvin

likewise, there are occasional chads who remain virgins, yet they are still chads
 
since for slaying, most men (who can) will slay not-so-attractive women (my Chad friend slayed average looking women), and they have to use a condom anyway, so they can't feel much at all

they also don't always keep the woman for unprotected continuous sex, which happens in a relationship

more than anything, it's more to feed the ego, like "I'm the fucking man, I got the woman in bed"

for actual sexual pleasure, a long-term relationship is the only way, since you can actually have unprotected sex (the only actual sex) where you get to feel anything, and it's continuous, meaning you'll probably get laid again the next day or week without much hassle

if you're incel and you somehow manage to 'slay' 2 not-so-attractive women, I still wouldn't consider you ascended, since you won't be having sex with them unprotected continuously as part of your new life

I only consider getting a girlfriend/wife that you're actually attracted to as ascension

even getting a sheboon or noodle girlfriend isn't ascension

Okay, that's entirely possible, bro.

But the below is absolutely true.


Men want to experience variety. Even the most comeliest of roasties -- after you've mounted her too many times -- will strike one as a plowed field. "Ugh," the man will often think. "The same old hole yet again." Hence, he seeks variety. The current sexual order is one in which Chads & Bill Clintons get variety at the expense of less gorgeous men.
 
I have the utmost desire to mount David Bowie's daughter, Alexandra:

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Yet, even I know that -- after I've mounted her too many times -- she will bore me. It was, after all, her father -- Sir David Bowie -- who famously said something like "Look at that pretty gal over there- - someone is tired of fucking her."
 
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since for slaying, most men (who can) will slay not-so-attractive women (my Chad friend slayed average looking women), and they have to use a condom anyway, so they can't feel much at all

they also don't always keep the woman for unprotected continuous sex, which happens in a relationship

more than anything, it's more to feed the ego, like "I'm the fucking man, I got the woman in bed"

for actual sexual pleasure, a long-term relationship is the only way, since you can actually have unprotected sex (the only actual sex) where you get to feel anything, and it's continuous, meaning you'll probably get laid again the next day or week without much hassle

if you're incel and you somehow manage to 'slay' 2 not-so-attractive women, I still wouldn't consider you ascended, since you won't be having sex with them unprotected continuously as part of your new life

I only consider getting a girlfriend/wife that you're actually attracted to as ascension

even getting a sheboon or noodle girlfriend isn't ascension
No, it's definitely ascension. :feelsjuice:

We don't have to keep making the definition of an incel more complicated. :feelsaww:

I do think "slaying" is in fact a mix of those things you're talking about. :feelshehe:
 
I definitely agree that "slaying" is more for ego than pleasure. When I'm in a bad mood, I consider it a degenerate behavior. When I'm in a normal or good mood, it's just one of those things that people do. I think a person can enjoy sex in the same way that someone might enjoy bowling, or D&D, as pithy examples, but nobody is going to say "being a good bowler is the meaning of life bro". You can spend one hour listening to your local "hot top 40" radio station and you'll hear 25 minutes of advertising and 35 minutes of "being a good sexer is the meaning of life bro". It's inane. Enjoy casual sex like bowling, but it can't be some deep mystical meaning of life.

Ascension, though, to me, is reaching a point to where I actually feel sexy, and have that feeling validated by the world around me. That means at least having the option to be in a relationship, that means feeling like I have enough of a choice to believe that I'm not settling for anybody. If I ever truly feel sexy, even if just for a little bit, I will have ascended. It's almost impossible for a foid to never experience that, but it's something that men have to fight and train for their entire lives if they aren't born into a set of circumstances (genetics, childhood environment, etc.) that will grant it to them automatically.
 
Agree where you say slaying is done for ego more than pleasure and that sex in relationship is better.

Disagree completely that having sex with unattractive women is not ascension. If you had a ONS with an ugly foid, you ascended. If we follow your chain of thought here ethnic guys with 9 children who live by the horse culture in the Gobi desert would be incels.
 
In my opinion if youve ever had sex youre not an incel
Some people just aren't ment to have sex
 

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