His arguments are bizarre. Obviously fgm is a problem, but mgm is more widespread and is also a problem.
Talking about women having it harder in the west specifically is pure lunacy. The problem which he brings up is as you already mentioned ridiculous, because men are expected to make more money and be providers, which is the trade. But worse than that, we're talking about a supposed 'problem' which occurs in a relationship, men usually have a hard time getting to that point at all, or an impossible time like users here.
Lets not even fucking talk about violence, just lol, delusion that he even mentions this as evidence for women having it worse. Men are more likely to be victims of violence worldwide, more likely to be murdered, more likely to be imprisoned, more likely to kill themselves, men generally live shorter lives, and the list goes on.
Look I'm not claiming that women don't have problems, only refuting a ridiculous claim made by this guy.