Instead of saying we're involuntarily celibate, maybe we should say we're involuntarily childless. The whole point of sex is reproduction. If we say we're incel, we're making people think our problem can be solved with prostitution or sex, but it won't. The Guardian(and probably other places) has a positive article of the involuntary childless. If we call ourselves involuntary childless, we'd receive more support.
www.theguardian.com
‘The desire to have a child never goes away’: how the involuntarily childless are forming a new movement
One in five British women born in the 60s don’t have children – and the grief many of them feel has rarely been acknowledged. But now they, and men in the same position, are organising with others around the world to gain recognition and comfort
