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Serious Should I stop seeing this decade-old friend as a friend?

gymletethnicel

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I have a friend whom I grew up with and he's become my best friend for a long time, and he is still my friend in theory. But he's become extremely successful while I've faced tremendous hardships. He's also given me bad advice because he looks at things from a POV of a privileged person who does very well for himself. I still make significantly more than the average person, however, it's nothing compared to what these people are making (10 to 15k USD a day), I barely make 5-10% of that.

It's caused a lot of gaslighting. From being called gay numerous times due to being incel, him not keeping promises (for example you get 10k if you do this and that, and then being told I get only a small portion of it for even more favours). I think he enjoys it sometimes, to see my life being shit and gaslighting me for it.

But I'm also grateful for a lot of things he's done for me. It's tough. For me, what broke the trust is not keeping his word and abusing the position he holds over me.
 
He's a peasant only befriend those making 50k daily
 
I think so. He clearly likes doing harm to you, so it's best to stop seeing him
 
Talk to him about it and see what he has to say for himself. If he keeps being a prick don't talk to him anymore
 
Talk to him about the problems that you see in you're friendship with him. If he doesn't change his behaviour then you probably should stop interacting with him
 
I suggest you to cut him off. He sees you as less because you have a lower socioeconomical status than him
 
He probably considers you lower than him
 

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