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Should I stop associating with my last 2 normie "friends" ?

Should I stop associating with them?


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For context:
I have been friend of both since we were 3 but they have slowly distanced from me since late teenage, while they started dating foids, go partying and realized I wasn't like them.
They don't treat me bad or something like that but I don't have much in common with them anymore and sometimes I feel like a robot when I hang out with them (which happens maybe 1 time by month), at least when hanging out with me they don't bring foids, girlfriends, ask me to go to nightclubs or something because they know I dislike that.
They rarely tell me to hang out unless I tell them first, should I try to stop hanging out with them?
 
who will you have if you stop? They dont treat you bad you say, maybe you should try strengthening your bond if anything
 
So they're partying sex havers? I'd ditch them, how does associating with them benefit you in anyway?
 
I don’t have friends and I don’t see why anyone would need them, especially incels. Normies will only mock and bully you while pretending to be your “friends”.
 
I don’t have friends and I don’t see why anyone would need them, especially incels. Normies will only mock and bully you while pretending to be your “friends”.
I'm actually suspecting they are trying to feel better with themselves at associating with an untermensch (me), and lately they have become more annoying with the topic of foids.
 
Sooner or later, they will drift away from you when they start having children. These friendships are doomed to fail.
 
Sooner or later, they will drift away from you when they start having children. These friendships are doomed to fail.
I also was thinking about this, and it's fucking brutal.
Actually the decision is already taken because I don't enjoy being with them anymore and prefer be here , I just want to know the opinion of users.
 
I also was thinking about this, and it's fucking brutal.
Actually the decision is already taken because I don't enjoy being with them anymore and prefer be here , I just want to know the opinion of users.
@Pancakecel
 
It's the right choice, man.
Those childhood friendships are brutal because in our cases, it always goes away in teenage or adulthood, when we were kids we were equals, the same, boys playing with boys, foids playing with foids, there wasn't any hierarchy, as long you grow that slowly starts to change and eventually the friendship usually ends completely. I don't want to see them becoming parents and getting married.
 
at least when hanging out with me they don't bring foids, girlfriends, ask me to go to nightclubs or something because they know I dislike that.
Seems like ascension by association is no longer possible
Ditch those normies and dive full into Inceldom/TFL
 
The problem is you might bring more pain on yourself un-friending them than if you just dealt with their normie bullshit. I'd say stay friends and put up with their stupid shit.
 
The problem is you might bring more pain on yourself un-friending them than if you just dealt with their normie bullshit. I'd say stay friends and put up with their stupid shit.
having no friends is a better alternative to having friends who mog you
 
As long they don't disrespect you and you don't feel uncomfortable with them, should be fine to keep them.
 
They seem cool if they respect you enough that they don't bring foids or pull you out to mogfests. You can never regain childhood friends. Most internet 'friendships' are meaningless. You don't have to make a permanent decision, you can just take a break from them for a while.
 
never talk to normies
 
As many other users have said once they start family's the friendship is going to go down the drain
 
The problem is you might bring more pain on yourself un-friending them than if you just dealt with their normie bullshit. I'd say stay friends and put up with their stupid shit.
 
Friendship with normies not real, imo. Eventually you will walk separate ways, which has happened to you.

If you can derive important use from hanging out with them, keep them around.

If not, ask them to hang out less frequently over the course of a year and then ghost them, tbh.

I have such family members. I have literally ghosted them as they started treating me like I was nothing.
 
I've noticed the "friends" that I had before never truly cared about me. They'd leave abruptly on games to go play with other normie friends. Completely ignore me unless they were bored and had no other option.
 
id personally stop associating with them solely because they are sexhavers but its up to you
 
I don’t have friends and I don’t see why anyone would need them, especially incels. Normies will only mock and bully you while pretending to be your “friends”.
 
If you are not someone's first choice then you should cut them off. This is what I believe.
 
If you are not someone's first choice then you should cut them off. This is what I believe.
Its a hard descision, but this is honestly the best you can and should do
 
who will you have if you stop? They dont treat you bad you say, maybe you should try strengthening your bond if anything
I agree. They seem to be very respectful from what he told us. Being different is not necessarily a reason to end friendships.
 
You should stay friends with them and if they stop hanging out with you eventually, so be it.

People in this thread are coping bc they have no friends left/ever had any.

they don't bring foids, girlfriends, ask me to go to nightclubs or something because they know I dislike that.
They go out of their way to not mention topics that they know you dislike. So they clearly view you more than just a acquaintance or somebody to just bitch about their problems too.
 
stay friends they seem alright. just saw part about they dont call you? they will likely move on or maybe not. if they dont talk shit keep as friends.
 
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For context:
I have been friend of both since we were 3 but they have slowly distanced from me since late teenage, while they started dating foids, go partying and realized I wasn't like them.
They don't treat me bad or something like that but I don't have much in common with them anymore and sometimes I feel like a robot when I hang out with them (which happens maybe 1 time by month), at least when hanging out with me they don't bring foids, girlfriends, ask me to go to nightclubs or something because they know I dislike that.
They rarely tell me to hang out unless I tell them first, should I try to stop hanging out with them?
The amount of replies saying to ditch them is outrageous having friends is one of the best copes and also u can benefit off them especially if they socialize everyone who says different is brainless
 
The problem is you might bring more pain on yourself un-friending them than if you just dealt with their normie bullshit. I'd say stay friends and put up with their stupid shit.
... Because any frens are better than none!

That's why I put up with my Jesuscoper buddies.

If it wasn't for them I'd have no frens
 
The amount of replies saying to ditch them is outrageous having friends is one of the best copes and also u can benefit off them especially if they socialize everyone who says different is brainless
I am highly inclined to heartily concur
 
... Because any frens are better than none!

That's why I put up with my Jesuscoper buddies.

If it wasn't for them I'd have no frens
Jesuscoppers are some of the most annoying people on earth. They are acting like the biggest dickheads and then wanna teach you or others about god and morals
 
Jesuscoppers are some of the most annoying people on earth. They are acting like the biggest dickheads and then wanna teach you or others about god and morals
Its like they want to blame god for them being nice and kindly helping folks!

When they start preaching I'm like, stop!
 
I was inclined to say keep your friends since ik what it's like to spend life without friends but if they truly dont talk to you unless you're the one messaging then end it.
 
KEEP THEM. You can never make new childhood friends and from what I know about you you do not have many options for friends where you live. Even socializing with sexhavers is better than not. Literally keeps you sane.
 

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