Theory Should I move out?

[incelerated]

I can't take my parent's comments and micromanaging anymore. I'm so done. I feel like 33yo child. I wanna move out but I'm afraid I'll end up isolated and lose my mind completely.

Pros of moving out:
- can escortmaxx (actually maybe not since the landlord will have a problem with that)
- can smoke at home
- can drink at home
- can be at peace without being micromanaged
- higher confidence

Cons:
- extremely high cost of living
- I'll be able to save 0 money
- hyperinflation may cause me to not be able to afford it in a year, or two years or 6 months, nobody knows what the prices will be but salaries are always 20-30% less increased than rent
- the house will be in a shit neighborhood compared to my current medium/upper medium one - I'll be lonely
- I have to make food and do laundry myself

 

[IceMan2000]

Do you own a vehicle and a gym membership?

 

[supersoldier]

extremely high cost of living
- I'll be able to save 0 money
- hyperinflation may cause me to not be able to afford it in a year, or two years or 6 months, nobody knows what the prices will be but salaries are always 20-30% less increased than rent

how to go homeless guide

 

[FuckYou]

Yeah

 

[lifesucksandyoudie]

Do you have the option of moving back in if times get rough?

 

[DarkStar]

I can't take my parent's comments and micromanaging anymore. I'm so done. I feel like 33yo child. I wanna move out but I'm afraid I'll end up isolated and lose my mind completely.

Pros of moving out:
- can escortmaxx (actually maybe not since the landlord will have a problem with that)

Just say it's a foid friend/girlfriend

- can smoke at home

Like cigarettes/tobacco, or something else.

- can drink at home

Thought you couldn't get that in Persia

- can be at peace without being micromanaged
- higher confidence

These are the main two reasons for me tbh

Cons:
- extremely high cost of living
- I'll be able to save 0 money
- hyperinflation may cause me to not be able to afford it in a year, or two years or 6 months, nobody knows what the prices will be but salaries are always 20-30% less increased than rent
- the house will be in a shit neighborhood compared to my current medium/upper medium one - I'll be lonely
- I have to make food and do laundry myself

I can cook food & do my own laundry, but the cost in Burgerland nowadays is insane to rent even.

 

[incelerated]

Do you own a vehicle and a gym membership?

No

Do you have the option of moving back in if times get rough?

Probably yes

Just say it's a foid friend/girlfriend

Won't matter, still taboo in shitran, specially poorer neighborhoods

Like cigarettes/tobacco, or something else.

Cigs but may try weed too.

Thought you couldn't get that in Persia

Oh you can. Just not from the store.

I can cook food & do my own laundry, but the cost in Burgerland nowadays is insane to rent even.

I can too but when you come back home at 7PM fully exhausted it's very very difficult.

 

[DarkStar]

Won't matter, still taboo in shitran, specially poorer neighborhoods

Ah that sucks, maybe try & pass it off as a relative of sorts(sister, cousin, etc)visiting?

Cigs but may try weed too.

Wonder how you'd get that in Iran tbh, in the US we have legal loophole alternative due to weird laws: It's also legal in like half the country, so plenty of stuff is easily-available.

It's all quite interesting, since I recall reading some of the first recorded usages of it were in Zoroastrianism, so in a way it's kind of part of Persian culture kek.

Oh you can. Just not from the store.

Alcohol is very easy to make at home as well, just need some yeast & grape juice iirc.

I think I also read that if you're part of the non-muslim group, you're allowed to consume it.

But still, it's probably gonna come with risks tbh.

I can too but when you come back home at 7PM fully exhausted it's very very difficult.

Yeah I get that feeling.

Look into meal-prepping, it's not that hard to do if you cook it all at once.

Also look for pre-cooked meals you could throw in the oven or microwave.

 

[incelerated]

Wonder how you'd get that in Iran tbh,

My foid cousin has it all the time.

Alcohol is very easy to make at home as well, just need some yeast & grape juice iirc.

Yeah lots of people make it at home for themselves or for selling. My own friend makes beer at home. I also know people who sell it. It's easy to get.

 

[nice_try]

I couldn't live with my mom, because she is sucking the testosterone out of me because she treats me like a child despite me being a 33yo grown man.

I'm afraid I'll end up isolated and lose my mind completely.

Don't act as if you aren't isolated and insane already


If you can afford it, I would move out.

 

[Emba]

Do you own a vehicle and a gun range membership?

 

[DarkStar]

My foid cousin has it all the time.

Ofc, foids always seem to have easy access to drugs

I haven't spoken to any of my foid cousins much about drugs(weed), yet even if they didn't do it(doubt so in many of their cases), but I just know due to them being foids they'd easily be able to access any kind of drugs & probably could get it for a low-price.

Yeah lots of people make it at home for themselves or for selling. My own friend makes beer at home. I also know people who sell it. It's easy to get.

Yeah I imagine anyone at your work would use it and/or make it or know people.

Best to do would be make it yourself, since it's very easy.

 

[Incline]

I can't take my parent's comments and micromanaging anymore. I'm so done. I feel like 33yo child. I wanna move out but I'm afraid I'll end up isolated and lose my mind completely.

Pros of moving out:
- can escortmaxx (actually maybe not since the landlord will have a problem with that)
- can smoke at home
- can drink at home
- can be at peace without being micromanaged
- higher confidence

Cons:
- extremely high cost of living
- I'll be able to save 0 money
- hyperinflation may cause me to not be able to afford it in a year, or two years or 6 months, nobody knows what the prices will be but salaries are always 20-30% less increased than rent
- the house will be in a shit neighborhood compared to my current medium/upper medium one - I'll be lonely
- I have to make food and do laundry myself

I left my family home at 18 yrs old for the same reason

I rather wageslave than live another day under their roof, they put 302490243902490 rules and restrictions on me, order me around, get mad at me, micromanage etc, fuck that shit I left asap.

 

[DarkStar]

I couldn't live with my mom, because she is sucking the testosterone out of me because she treats me like a child despite me being a 33yo grown man.

How did you & OP make it past 30? I'm 22 & already want to call it quits on life.

 

[Regressive]

I dont know your context but Id remain with them
Unless u know youll overcome the loneliness n that theres just many shit chores to be done to keep life going
Maybe try it for a short period of time n see what happens

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I think you should try it and keep the option of moving back open as well.

Note that even after you move out you're probably going to get a ton of annoying phone calls which might cause stress similar to being at the old home. You will still have to put your foot down and work to become fully independent. Moving out is not like a cheat code for zero stress, but it's a good first step.