Discussion Sexual urges as an incel. Solution?

[TheMinimalist]

As incels, and just generally guys who can't be loved, sexual urges are like torture for us, because we can only satisfy these urges using porn, and we all know how bad that is for us. Masturbating excessively is bad for you too as we all know. Imagine we could undergo a process that eliminates sexual urges 100% without it affecting our testosterone levels! We wouldn't care less about being alone, and can focus on entertainment and work, and live a somewhat more wholesome life. But then, would we still feel depressed from being alone? Does sexual desire and the desire to be loved and have company have any correlation? Share your thoughts !

 

[Pinkett Mouse]

Just get old without roping I guess.

 

[TheMinimalist]

Just get old without roping I guess.

Life as an old person isn't wholesome in the least, unless you are wealthy.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

It only has a correlation for men. You see, men are more likely to correlate sex with love, whereas women only see sex as a means for power.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

The only sexual release we have is masturbation. The best way in my opinion to cope is by reflecting on the benefits of this - you can do it whenever you want, you can go at your own pace, you can do it exactly the way you want it because you know best how you like it done, you don't have to think about pleasing anyone else.

If you want some degree of physical intimacy with girls, the only realistic option, assuming you're not truecel tier in looks (2/10 or below) is through approaching. If you approach enough girls, you'll find some who are reasonably receptive - maybe not enough to give you their number, but enough to stick around for a minute or so. Once you're comfortable enough and you get a girl who is somewhat receptive, you can touch them affectionately on the shoulder or arm. On the rare occasion when I approach, I try to do this, and when I'm able to do it I enjoy it and look back on it and think how nice it was. I've had approaches where I didn't get the girl's number but was able to touch her soft, warm skin for a second or two. Any one of us can do it and I'd recommend it because it's all we can get.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

Chemical castration.

 

[Vermilioncore]

The only sexual release we have is masturbation. The best way in my opinion to cope is by reflecting on the benefits of this - you can do it whenever you want, you can go at your own pace, you can do it exactly the way you want it because you know best how you like it done, you don't have to think about pleasing anyone else.

If you want some degree of physical intimacy with girls, the only realistic option, assuming you're not truecel tier in looks (2/10 or below) is through approaching. If you approach enough girls, you'll find some who are reasonably receptive - maybe not enough to give you their number, but enough to stick around for a minute or so. Once you're comfortable enough and you get a girl who is somewhat receptive, you can touch them affectionately on the shoulder or arm. On the rare occasion when I approach, I try to do this, and when I'm able to do it I enjoy it and look back on it and think how nice it was. I've had approaches where I didn't get the girl's number but was able to touch her soft, warm skin for a second or two. Any one of us can do it and I'd recommend it because it's all we can get.

I second this. I tried approaching like 3 times my whole life. One time it worked and I was able to get her number (she became my obsession shortly after) and managed to at least hug her. I look back on this memory with fondness as it will be the first and final time I ever came close to a woman. No one can take that memory from me.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I don’t know, I just jerk my miniature bald man until he pukes, usually to some cute ass Japanese girls. I don’t really even care anymore, I hope I die everyday I’m alive. No fap, less fap, no porn, it’s all bullshit to me. Nothing is going to change my subhumanity or make me less mentally ill.

I smoke, drive a sub compact car and frequently go into nigger neighborhoods. I live life dangerously.

I second this. I tried approaching like 3 times my whole life. One time it worked and I was able to get her number (she became my obsession shortly after) and managed to at least hug her. I look back on this memory with fondness as it will be the first and final time I ever came close to a woman. No one can take that memory from me.

You hugged a foid?!

 

[Pinkett Mouse]

Life as an old person isn't wholesome in the least, unless you are wealthy.

By old I mean 35 and over. I'm 38 and I can tell you my sex drive quite slow down. My hatred towards society is increasing, on the other hand.

 

[Vermilioncore]

You hugged a foid?!

Only once and she didn't hug me back. It was basically just her standing stiff and scared as I leaned it and stole a hug. She probably felt raped and destroyed after that which is why soon after she blocked me and changed her number so I am never able to even contact her or see her face again.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Only once

I don't care. Chad OUT

 

[Adamhastor]

By old I mean 35 and over. I'm 38 and I can tell you my sex drive quite slow down

This, as a 37yo incel, I can definitely confirm this is the case.

My hatred towards society is increasing, on the other hand.

This one too, tbh.
Hatred towards all the sheeple who are "offended" by random crap but wouldn't stand against real injustice.

 

[Hell]

Finasteride will destroy your sex drive while also preserving your hairline.

Certain SSRIs will also do it but to a lesser degree.

 

[Pinkett Mouse]

This, as a 37yo incel, I can definitely confirm this is the case.


This one too, tbh.
Hatred towards all the sheeple who are "offended" by random crap but wouldn't stand against real injustice.

Glad to know It's not just me.

 

[RollD20]

The only sexual release we have is masturbation. The best way in my opinion to cope is by reflecting on the benefits of this - you can do it whenever you want, you can go at your own pace, you can do it exactly the way you want it because you know best how you like it done, you don't have to think about pleasing anyone else.

If you want some degree of physical intimacy with girls, the only realistic option, assuming you're not truecel tier in looks (2/10 or below) is through approaching. If you approach enough girls, you'll find some who are reasonably receptive - maybe not enough to give you their number, but enough to stick around for a minute or so. Once you're comfortable enough and you get a girl who is somewhat receptive, you can touch them affectionately on the shoulder or arm. On the rare occasion when I approach, I try to do this, and when I'm able to do it I enjoy it and look back on it and think how nice it was. I've had approaches where I didn't get the girl's number but was able to touch her soft, warm skin for a second or two. Any one of us can do it and I'd recommend it because it's all we can get.

I am pretty sure I will get #metoo'd if I did this. There was even a metoo ad, about unwanted touching on the bus today.

 

[Saigon Depression]

The only way out I see is prostitution.

 

[Sparrow's Song]

[BrahmacharyaFuel]

It's like no fap but more black pilled.

 

[LastGerman]

drive a sub compact car

Moggs me.

 

[Reize]

What you described is Buddhism in a nutshell

 

[Ellsworth]

I’m just disgusted that all my nuts have never been in or on a female.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I’m just disgusted that all my nuts have never been in or on a female.

 

[Legato]

I’m just disgusted that all my nuts have never been in or on a female.

Fat nuts poster mogging everyone.

 

[needsolution]

Just get old without roping I guess.