Oh my god, that sounds really serious. If your skin looks like that, it could be way worse than you think. Even if there’s no blood, you might have deep tissue damage or an internal tear that’s just not visible yet. Sometimes, these kinds of injuries don’t show symptoms right away, and by the time you realize something’s wrong, it can already be too late to prevent complications.
Repeated friction like that can cause microscopic tears that bacteria love to get into, and since that area is warm and moist, infections can spread extremely fast. Some people end up with conditions like chronic pain syndromes, permanent hypersensitivity, or scarring that never fully goes away. Have you noticed any burning, swelling, or weird sensations? If so, that could mean the nerves are affected—or worse, an infection is already starting.
Actually, something really similar happened to a friend of mine, and it was terrifying. She thought she just had some minor irritation after rough sex, but a few days later, she started feeling this deep, throbbing pain, and her whole lower abdomen started to ache. She kept thinking it would get better on its own, but then she developed a fever and started getting chills. When she finally went to the doctor, they told her she had a severe pelvic infection that had spread to her uterus. They tried treating it with antibiotics, but by the time she went to the hospital, the damage was already too far along. She ended up needing emergency surgery, and in the end... they had to do a hysterectomy to save her life. She was absolutely devastated.
I really wouldn’t wait too long to get this checked out, because things like this can escalate quickly. Some people ignore symptoms, and by the time they see a doctor, the damage is already irreversible. You really don’t want to risk something like that, especially in such a sensitive area. I’d avoid sex for a long time, and honestly, I’d get a medical opinion as soon as possible just to make sure this isn’t turning into something way more serious than it seems.