Sex Outside of Marriage should be Illegal, for the Good of Women and Men

[ItheIthe]

How this will benefit women:

Almost every single woman - if not every single woman - complains about being used and disrespected by boars. The story is as follows: These females want a partner, they go after boars, the boars play them. Well, want to avoid being used? Refuse to give up your vagina until a man makes a full commitment to you through marriage. Unfortunately, that is hard to do considering there are so many sluts that will give it up so easily, and other women feel they have to compete. They use sex to compete and get the attention of boars, which is very unfortunate because that means quality traits such as personality and supportiveness get overlooked. Therefore, for the good of women, sex outside of marriage should be illegal. That will get rid of using sex as a way to gain the attention of boars. This will allow the best woman to win.

How this will benefit men:

Many men will be faced with the unfortunate conundrum of living alone forever, or taking on some female who has been defiled by scores of men. It is very pitiful and degenerate. This is also why many men don't care about marriage: They realize there is nothing special about being with someone who has been defiled by scores of other men. Therefore, for the good of marriages, sex outside of a marriage should be illegal.

 

[Melinda]

People would break the law. That's how it is in muslim countries. People slut behind closed doors.

 

[Jockcel]

I agree, "relationships" ruined the world. You have sex - you get married. Works for me.

 

[Melinda]

Degeneracy isn't a modern thing. https://www.brown.edu/Departments/Italian_Studies/dweb/society/sex/fornication-adultery.php

Despite the edicts of canon law and the real risk of punishment, it appears that unrestrained sexual activity was quite common throughout Europe during these times. In fact, most did not believe fornication was a sin at all, and many were taken by surprise at confession when priests informed them that they had indeed sinned by committing certain sexual acts. St. Vincent Ferrer (1350-1419) claimed that by age fifteen, all young men had lost their virginity (Richards, 38). There are also suggestions that rural populations were much more accepting of illicit sexual behavior, and that country folk were viewed as much more "free" sexually than urban dwellers (Richards, 36). Lastly, although premarital sex was obviously considered sinful by the church, in reality, once couples were betrothed, they often slept together during a sort of "trial period" before the wedding. That way, if one or both were not satisfied with the results, they might still attempt to release themselves from future consent to marry (sometimes by becoming godparents of the same child, a relationship which would lead to an incestuous union) (Brundage, 436-7).

While adultery was not quite as common as simple fornication, it too seems to have been relatively widespread. It was so common in fact that by the later Middle Ages it was not even considered grounds for the dissolution of marriage (Brundage, 455). Andrew the Chaplain, author of The Art of Courtly Love, wrote that if a man is unfaithful to his wife out of passion and not love, his actions are acceptable (Richards, 40).

 

[Kointo1]

People would break the law. That's how it is in muslim countries. People slut behind closed doors.