A common tactic used against incels is the assertion that sex "isn't a big deal," making it seem unreasonable for them to feel troubled by not having it. However, even a brief observation shows that sex is one of the most carefully guarded and restricted activities in human society.
Women often take significant steps to evaluate potential sexual partners, and their close circles—family and friends—are highly protective when a woman begins spending time with a new man. In my city, bars and nightclubs display posters everywhere on how to avoid men who may come across as creepy, offering discreet ways to seek help if a situation feels uncomfortable. For instance, ordering an "angel shot with lime" alerts the bartender to call a cab for the woman, have security or the police remove the troublesome man, and ensure her safe exit from the venue.
When I was in college, there were legal notices in the hallways defining consent, warning that if you engage in sexual activity while both parties are drunk, you could be considered a rapist under the law, carrying the responsibility regardless of the circumstances.
So, I don't understand. How can sex be considered "not a big deal" when it is clearly one of the most protected and regulated aspects of our lives? If it were truly insignificant, all these social protections wouldn't be necessary.
To the normies reading this:
If you’re willing to acknowledge that sex is indeed a significant matter, then it follows logically that the complaints from incels are not absurd, and society should explore ethical ways to address the incel issue until a more permanent solution is found.
What the solution might be, I'm not certain. But a simple acknowledgment of our concerns would be a good starting point to initiate the conversation.
Women often take significant steps to evaluate potential sexual partners, and their close circles—family and friends—are highly protective when a woman begins spending time with a new man. In my city, bars and nightclubs display posters everywhere on how to avoid men who may come across as creepy, offering discreet ways to seek help if a situation feels uncomfortable. For instance, ordering an "angel shot with lime" alerts the bartender to call a cab for the woman, have security or the police remove the troublesome man, and ensure her safe exit from the venue.
When I was in college, there were legal notices in the hallways defining consent, warning that if you engage in sexual activity while both parties are drunk, you could be considered a rapist under the law, carrying the responsibility regardless of the circumstances.
So, I don't understand. How can sex be considered "not a big deal" when it is clearly one of the most protected and regulated aspects of our lives? If it were truly insignificant, all these social protections wouldn't be necessary.
To the normies reading this:
If you’re willing to acknowledge that sex is indeed a significant matter, then it follows logically that the complaints from incels are not absurd, and society should explore ethical ways to address the incel issue until a more permanent solution is found.
What the solution might be, I'm not certain. But a simple acknowledgment of our concerns would be a good starting point to initiate the conversation.
