Serious Sex is not the goal

[InMemoriam]

hear me out, sex is not the goal;
[UWSL]yes, I get the sexual frustration part,[/UWSL]
[UWSL]being an ex-coomer i have had my fair share.[/UWSL]
[UWSL]having sex as an incel will always come off as act of pity![/UWSL]
merely having a sexual intercourse would have little effect on the way you're perceived as a social loser
because at the end of the day we still live in a gynocentric society; unless some major social reform occurred such as a paradigm shift of the currect socio sexual hierarchy!

otherwise dying alone or getting laid won't change a thing!

(No, I'm not an escortcel and still a virgin myself!)

 

[subhuman]

Sex is the goal for me

having sex as an incel will always come off as act of pity!

Don’t care

merely having a sexual intercourse would have little effect on the way you're perceived as a social loser

Don’t care

otherwise dying alone or getting laid won't change a thing!

Don’t care

 

[tulasdanslos]

 

[Deleted member 43314]

Truth , for me ascending means spending atleast 1 year getting free sex with girlfriend

 

[Linesnap99]

sex is half the problem for an incel, the other half i how society treats you and outcasts you.

 

[BaffleTrot]

I've really spent a lot of time thinking about what I want on this front - what this whole incel thing is about, and I agree - it isn't the sex, at least not for me. Rather, for me, it's about feeling sexy. That means that not only do I perceive myself as sexy, but other people treat me in a way that supports that belief. I could fool myself easily enough, just keep lying and pretending, but if other people don't act the part then the lie will fall apart soon enough.

When it comes down to it, I really think that that's it. The blackpill is the understanding that society doesn't find me sexy, and by our current standards, rightly so. Subhumans aren't sexy to anyone, not even other subhumans. I'm going to live and die without ever knowing what it's like to feel sexy.

 

[InMemoriam]

I've really spent a lot of time thinking about what I want on this front - what this whole incel thing is about, and I agree - it isn't the sex, at least not for me. Rather, for me, it's about feeling sexy. That means that not only do I perceive myself as sexy, but other people treat me in a way that supports that belief. I could fool myself easily enough, just keep lying and pretending, but if other people don't act the part then the lie will fall apart soon enough.

When it comes down to it, I really think that that's it. The blackpill is the understanding that society doesn't find me sexy, and by our current standards, rightly so. Subhumans aren't sexy to anyone, not even other subhumans. I'm going to live and die without ever knowing what it's like to feel sexy.

You put the feelings into words better than I could ever have 100%

 

[BaffleTrot]

You put the feelings into words better than I could ever have 100%

Thanks man. I'm still trying to really understand what it means. I've arrived at the point where I know that this is the pain point for me - I want to feel sexy, and be treated as such, but I'm just not sure exactly why my brain wants that so badly. My current operating theory is that the feeling of being sexy is how we understand someone's position on the social dominance hierarchy, but at the same time, I feel like that's just confusing cause and effect. If I really wanted sex then I could go see an escort, so why should I care more about feeling sexy than about sex itself?

It seems strange and contradictory, but it's my truth, and I don't understand it fully yet. Still trying to push the rope regarding incel discourse, I guess.

 

[Deleted member 43314]

Thanks man. I'm still trying to really understand what it means. I've arrived at the point where I know that this is the pain point for me - I want to feel sexy, and be treated as such, but I'm just not sure exactly why my brain wants that so badly. My current operating theory is that the feeling of being sexy is how we understand someone's position on the social dominance hierarchy, but at the same time, I feel like that's just confusing cause and effect. If I really wanted sex then I could go see an escort, so why should I care more about feeling sexy than about sex itself?

It seems strange and contradictory, but it's my truth, and I don't understand it fully yet. Still trying to push the rope regarding incel discourse, I guess.

I wanna feel wanted like a chad, wanted by fat and ugly girls