Sex is exactly like porn. Don't let normies tell you otherwise.
If you under perform (not being able to thrust and hold on at least 5 minutes without cumming) during sex women will despise you.
That doesn't mean all sex is like porn, it means sex w/ Chad is a lot more pornesque than foids are willing to admit.
Obviously normy sex w/ non-Chad betabuxers isn't like porn and foids don't want you to be aware of the contrast (ie they're unaroused, faking orgasm, etc) so they'll try and make it seem like the most enjoyable sex for them doesn't leave them moaning/panting etc.
That said, we should admit that even Chad-sex that brings foids to legit orgasm does vary from a lot of depictions in porn like for example how in porn you have actresses using a lot of language like "oh yeah, oh yeah" over and over again in this weird monotone voice.
IRL that seems unlikely, more likely foids are nonverbal (not this doesn't mean silent) during their orgasm and just moaning/squeaking and stuff.
Unfortunately that sort of behavior doesn't pay jewish script-writers so they'll insert an unusual amount of words in both the foreplay and sex beyond realistic levels.
You see this in fake sex stories a lot too, an unfathomable amount of dialogue when IRL it's mostly just non-word sounds by both parties in an animalistic way.
The focus on language is purely for non-Chads because foids would rather talk to their beta orbiters than engage in base subverbal behaviors like sex with them.
I have more than 3 normie friends that their gf left them because they under performed and had a small penis.
Your normie friends were probably unattractive too, because penises feel larger if you have good height/face/muss/confidence and foid is aroused by you: their vagina tightens up so small dicks feel average and average dicks feel huge. It's just science.
one of them told me how he used to not being able to perform more than 1 minute, cumming only a few seconds after starting.
after that his gf gradually stopped giving him sex.
Kind of understand, he should probably have shown some restraint and just asked to try "soaking" to build tolerance.
Not to mention probably done some fingering or cunnilingus to help her orgasm until he's able to last longer.
A loving GF of course would not be so brutal and would communicate that she wants to help you last longer and basically do a bunch of light-petting and "edging" stuff to try and build up BF's tolerance so he doesn't coom too fast.
In Porn, the pornstars aren't showing any sexual performance issues, that's what sex needs to be. if you have a small penis (under 8 inches) and can barely withstand 2 minutes without ejaculating then you will not be able to maintain a gf even if you ascend.
its fucking over
I disagree with you. If a GF values you (ie you're Chad) then she won't mind if you only last 2 minutes.
She knows deep down that if she just gives you sex on the regular eventually you'll last longer.
She just doesn't have the patience for that with sub-Chads, only Chad will get sub-minute nuts on a daily basis to slowly build up his fucking capacity.
She'd also give him regular blowjobs/handjobs to edge him, which she won't do for sub-Chads.