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Serious sex is also cope

HueHueBr

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I am a beginner in the incel universe, and if I understood correctly, "cope" is something incel does to try to feel good, but that only works for a while, and then sadness and depression return normally. if my understanding of what "cope" is wrong, everything I write down will be sheer nonsense.

when I posted something about taking care of health, finding ways to release dopamine and serotonin other than sex, being selfish and ignoring the world, moving away from any kind of political, religious or whatever cause to build a better world , several members of the forum told me that all this is "cope". in other words, it is useless to attempt to replace sex in any way, because, invariably, sadness and depression will return and the incel will once again feel like shit, rubbish, a mistake of nature.

it turns out that sex is also a temporary way of dealing with sadness and depression, except for the super chads, who switch partners as one who changes clothes. I explain

suppose you, by some miracle, rise from the status of incel to normie, find a cool girl who wants to have a relationship with you, and finally start having sex. you will find that you will, from now on, have sex regularly. but anyone who has studied women's behavior minimally knows that it will not be so.

At first, she'll give you a lot of sex to get you arrested. you two will have sex like rabbits, in various positions, in various rooms of the house, in the alleys of the street, in the car, etc. this will make you cling to her, think that you have won the lottery, you will get away from your friends, you will probably get away from this forum and dedicate yourself to it, and will create in your mind the idealized image of your partner.

as soon as you're stuck enough, sex will begin to decline and charges will appear. women are insatiable by emotions. you will spend with gifts, with travel, you will have to discover new places to take her constantly (remember that women get dizzy fast and always look for news), and sex will drop to the same extent as charges will explode.

as time goes by, you will feel more and more pressured in the relationship, but for some reason attached to the male instinct, it will not end and will continue to hold hell. at some point she'll betray you and find someone better than you. and since you only got one girlfriend out of pure accident, getting another one will be very difficult, maybe impossible. and your initial state of sadness and depression before the courtship will return.

for me, the difference between this situation and any other that does not involve sex is that in this relationship, depression and sadness will take a little longer to return. but they will come back the same way. considering the current state of women, this kind of situation will be extremely common, so that the depression and sadness that you, incel, are passing, is no different from that which normies, which have some access to women, pass.

the only ones that do not go through this are the chads that change women all the time. these men take advantage of the period when the woman gives a lot of sex to try to arrest him, and when she gets tired of giving so much sex, or when he even gets bored of her, the relationship simply ends and he starts to pick one of the 5 or 6 hotties that are giving on him at the same time. and these, we know, are 20% or less (much less, in my opinion) of men.

therefore, the conclusion I reached is the following: if we have sex to seek serotonin release, then the goal is not sex, but the release of serotonin. and the release of serotonin can be obtained by means other than sex, such as traveling, watching a movie, completing a project, making some profit by buying and selling stock, buying a new outfit, a new car, or, simply by watching pornographic movies, masturbating, drinking alcohol, smoking or hiring a prostitute.
 
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HighTGymcel


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Counterpoint, one needs sex to live a long life and stay sane when one hits old age. This has been proven with studies.
 
Counterpoint, one needs sex to live a long life and stay sane when one hits old age. This has been proven with studies.
I've read somewhere that those who do not have sex live even longer than those who do. the huge contraction at the time of ejaculation can lead some man who does not have the heart very well to a cardiac arrest. not to mention the enormous loss of minerals that go along with the sperm, which take a long time to be replenished, even with supplementation.
 
It's true, it's a form of coping, everything is practically cope. Only sex would be the biggest cope because it would generate greater satisfaction than the other and sense of validation (not escort).
 
Eloquently put, fellow recent forum joiner.

Sex is sad cope, genuine admiration/validation isn't though.
 
I am a beginner in the incel universe, and if I understood correctly, "cope" is something incel does to try to feel good, but that only works for a while, and then sadness and depression return normally. if my understanding of what "cope" is wrong, everything I write down will be sheer nonsense.

when I posted something about taking care of health, finding ways to release dopamine and serotonin other than sex, being selfish and ignoring the world, moving away from any kind of political, religious or whatever cause to build a better world , several members of the forum told me that all this is "cope". in other words, it is useless to attempt to replace sex in any way, because, invariably, sadness and depression will return and the incel will once again feel like shit, rubbish, a mistake of nature.

it turns out that sex is also a temporary way of dealing with sadness and depression, except for the super chads, who switch partners as one who changes clothes. I explain

suppose you, by some miracle, rise from the status of incel to normie, find a cool girl who wants to have a relationship with you, and finally start having sex. you will find that you will, from now on, have sex regularly. but anyone who has studied women's behavior minimally knows that it will not be so.

At first, she'll give you a lot of sex to get you arrested. you two will have sex like rabbits, in various positions, in various rooms of the house, in the alleys of the street, in the car, etc. this will make you cling to her, think that you have won the lottery, you will get away from your friends, you will probably get away from this forum and dedicate yourself to it, and will create in your mind the idealized image of your partner.

as soon as you're stuck enough, sex will begin to decline and charges will appear. women are insatiable by emotions. you will spend with gifts, with travel, you will have to discover new places to take her constantly (remember that women get dizzy fast and always look for news), and sex will drop to the same extent as charges will explode.

as time goes by, you will feel more and more pressured in the relationship, but for some reason attached to the male instinct, it will not end and will continue to hold hell. at some point she'll betray you and find someone better than you. and since you only got one girlfriend out of pure accident, getting another one will be very difficult, maybe impossible. and your initial state of sadness and depression before the courtship will return.

for me, the difference between this situation and any other that does not involve sex is that in this relationship, depression and sadness will take a little longer to return. but they will come back the same way. considering the current state of women, this kind of situation will be extremely common, so that the depression and sadness that you, incel, are passing, is no different from that which normies, which have some access to women, pass.

the only ones that do not go through this are the chads that change women all the time. these men take advantage of the period when the woman gives a lot of sex to try to arrest him, and when she gets tired of giving so much sex, or when he even gets bored of her, the relationship simply ends and he starts to pick one of the 5 or 6 hotties that are giving on him at the same time. and these, we know, are 20% or less (much less, in my opinion) of men.

therefore, the conclusion I reached is the following: if we have sex to seek serotonin release, then the goal is not sex, but the release of serotonin. and the release of serotonin can be obtained by means other than sex, such as traveling, watching a movie, completing a project, making some profit by buying and selling stock, buying a new outfit, a new car, or, simply by watching pornographic movies, masturbating, drinking alcohol, smoking or hiring a prostitute.

this is only in cucked western society, if they are enslaved and beaten into submission you can do what you want and wont have to put up with that shit
 
everything is cope if you don't have elite bones and low inhibition
 
Finding other copes doesn't stop the need for intimicy and the need to be wanted by a girl.
 
sex is not a cope it is ultimate goal
 
Cope is the same thing as freudian sublimation. Cope is the substitute for desire that can not be fullfilled otherwise.
 

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