Venting sex is a rite of passage to manhood

[Classic_Jarvis]

Sex is a rite of passage to manhood in modern societies. Ever since the old rites of passage have been abrogated (which are to this day being practiced in remote regions of the world), sex and relationships have become the exclusive sign that you have passed from being boy to having become a man. This is one of the reasons why inceldom is so humiliating. We are not seen as equals. We are socially awkward around girls. Normies view us on the same level as boys and below women. They claim we are immature and emotionally unstable. We have not made it. Being in a relationship is a proof that you are a respectable member of society and can relate to the lives of the normies around you. Another well-known incel, Elliot Rodger, is often described as boyish and immature, even though he was a mature 22-year-old gentleman. Femoids and their normie betabuxx expect us to suck it up and accept that us incels are the new weaker sex. Even in this fucking forum there are LARPing normies who mock us with their "gay cope" threads, implying that we are closet gays and should just become faggots. I consider any suggestion that Elliot Rodger should have been a twink, a heresy. Not getting a girl is the only thing that made Elliot Rodger go over the edge. He would have made a perfectly normal member of society if girls had given him a chance. Since the dawn of time your male ancestors have successfully been mated. What the fuck went wrong? Shouldn't your DNA have some key to get you to mate, if everyone else before you made it? If my DNA wants to exist and being passed on that bad, then why doesn't talking to girls come naturally to me. Why am I not at all attractive to girls? I am 33 years old. Only in endangered, soon-to-be-extinct species males that old have never mated. Also, sex is a rite of passage to womanhood for girls. Before their first time, girls are naturally shy and ashamed of being looked at by man. Little girls are pleasant because they have not yet become fucking obnoxious and entitled cunts who think they are celebrities. After having been deflowered, girls lose their respect for men and realize that sex is a commodity for her to get things out of him. They realize that man is essentially a sex-driven animal, and that there is nothing special about us. Another thing that occurs to me is that, while it can be said that femoids respect volcels to a certain level, because voluntary celibacy is something exotic and extraordinary, incels are looked down on. A femoid will never respect an incel, because they view us as undesirables.

 

[Mainländer]

Agreed. I'm a huge enthusiast of the theory that life has some "checkpoints" that you have to reach in the correct timing in order to build a normal, satisfied and functioning personality.

As a baby you need to get breastfed and lovingly touched by your mother.
As a child you must play and have friends.
As a preteen you must have your first experiences with females, kissing, romance and whatnot.
As a teen you must have your first sexual experiences.
As a young adult you must have a job/occupation/goals.
As an adult you must have a family.

This is the correct timeline of a enjoyable normal life. Missing any of the steps generates suffering and emptiness, if not a mental prison on an earlier stage.

 

[Gremlincel]

High IQ post.

 

[chadmarco]

Its more about who you hang around, I went to church recently and felt normal for the first time in forever. The problem is in mainstream society virginity is no longer valued, sex is their religion.

 

[Classic_Jarvis]

High IQ post.

thank you, finally some appreciation

 

[ziggyziggy]

I feel you're right that sex is a rite of passage to manhood. It is the expression of masculine values and traits: virility and vigour.

But Elliot Rodger would not have been fixed by getting laid. That kid was really messed up.

People who don't respect themselves, don't respect those who care for them. And that kid hated his own guts. My guess is if any woman fucked him, he'd have thought she was a slut who fucked everybody.

Killing himself was the right thing to do, since he refused to LDAR

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

yeah i wish there was some way to get permanent low inhibtion without drugs / Thats a big chunk of my problem as well damagee social skills = no experience with women = women & men make fun of you = HIGH INHIBITION = WombToTomb

 

[Classic_Jarvis]

I feel you're right that sex is a rite of passage to manhood. It is the expression of masculine values and traits: virility and vigour.

But Elliot Rodger would not have been fixed by getting laid. That kid was really messed up.

People who don't respect themselves, don't respect those who care for them. And that kid hated his own guts. My guess is if any woman fucked him, he'd have thought she was a slut who fucked everybody.

Killing himself was the right thing to do, since he refused to LDAR

I was and maybe still am a toned-down version of Elliot Rodger. I can assure you 100% that he would have ceased with his antics had he been able to socialize normally and had girls given him a shot. I am 100% certain of that. The highly proud persona he created for himself was a defense mechanism against the injustices and the humiliations of isolation and mental illness. At the core, he just wanted to fit in, he said so himself many times.

 

[BootyHunter88392]

this is why i keep saying, young men need to go to a prostitute and have sex. Otherwise you'll never truly become an "adult" because you never went thru this rite of passage and you'll remain a totally cringy virgin.

Tijuana is good for prostitutes. Just take a viagra pill one hour before and you'll have no trouble at all and will pound her!

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

I feel you're right that sex is a rite of passage to manhood. It is the expression of masculine values and traits: virility and vigour.

But Elliot Rodger would not have been fixed by getting laid. That kid was really messed up.

People who don't respect themselves, don't respect those who care for them. And that kid hated his own guts. My guess is if any woman fucked him, he'd have thought she was a slut who fucked everybody.

Killing himself was the right thing to do, since he refused to LDAR

This post is all over you should be permabanned.

 

[BootyHunter88392]

I was and maybe still am a toned-down version of Elliot Rodger. I can assure you 100% that he would have ceased with his antics had he been able to socialize normally and had girls given him a shot. I am 100% certain of that. The highly proud persona he created for himself was a defense mechanism against the injustices and the humiliations of isolation and mental illness. At the core, he just wanted to fit in, he said so himself many times.

if he stopped fucking caring so much what others think about it, and stop trying so desperately to fit into the "normie" crowd, he would have been fine. Then he could have gone to Tijuana and banged some hot prostitutes and he would have gotten over his awkward virgin stage.

Prostitution being illegal is what killed Elliot. His blood is on the hand of religious conservatives and feminists who both oppose prostitution being legalized.

 

[Classic_Jarvis]

if he stopped fucking caring so much what others think about it, and stop trying so desperately to fit into the "normie" crowd, he would have been fine. Then he could have gone to Tijuana and banged some hot prostitutes and he would have gotten over his awkward virgin stage.

Prostitution being illegal is what killed Elliot. His blood is on the hand of religious conservatives and feminists who both oppose prostitution being legalized.

prostitution is a very bad cope, a whore will give you NOTHING (except STDs), but you will leave with an empty feeling, emotionally drained. If you are into it, you will become an escortcel betabuxx (which is pathetic). What's the point of that?

 

[KyloRen]

It's a part of psychological development.

Intimacy versus isolation is the sixth stage of Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development. This stage takes place during young adulthood between the ages of approximately 18 to 40 yrs.
During this period, we begin to share ourselves more intimately with others. We explore relationships leading toward longer-term commitments with someone other than a family member.
Successful completion of this stage can result in happy relationships and a sense of commitment, safety, and care within a relationship.
Avoiding intimacy, fearing commitment and relationships can lead to isolation, loneliness, and sometimes depression. Success in this stage will lead to the virtue of love.

https://simplypsychology.org/Erik-Erikson.html

 

[MegaCelSuperstar]

I was and maybe still am a toned-down version of Elliot Rodger. I can assure you 100% that he would have ceased with his antics had he been able to socialize normally and had girls given him a shot. I am 100% certain of that. The highly proud persona he created for himself was a defense mechanism against the injustices and the humiliations of isolation and mental illness. At the core, he just wanted to fit in, he said so himself many times.

This is the truth

 

[MegaCelSuperstar]

if he stopped fucking caring so much what others think about it, and stop trying so desperately to fit into the "normie" crowd, he would have been fine. Then he could have gone to Tijuana and banged some hot prostitutes and he would have gotten over his awkward virgin stage.

Prostitution being illegal is what killed Elliot. His blood is on the hand of religious conservatives and feminists who both oppose prostitution being legalized.

You don't know anything about the ER story, do you? He was offered a trip to Vegas to get an escort but he said he didn't want it. He wanted someone to actually want to have sex with him, no transaction involved. Is that so hard to understand?