I have noticed how inceldom, and being perceived as such, extends further than the sexual aspect of life. On our day to day life, we are constantly reminded, often subtly, that we matter less. That our lives are less important. Normies and above, do not notice this, because it is a deeply entrenched social, so they do not think about it. All of these attitudes is what I have come to call the "but it is only you"-effect. In short that massive entitlement to a good life that couples usually have.
Some examples:
- When discussing career prospects, and salary aspirations. There is always the "but why do you need more?" "it is only you". Essentially implying that your time is less valuable, and you deserve less compensation because... you are a social loser all the same. I want to note, I am not saying there is an actual wage gap per se, but rather the perception of what one deserves. Likely going to affect you, come time for promotions.
- Chad and Stacy: "Oh, this year sucks, we could not get more than 2 weeks of holiday, and there is not much money, so we will just travel 1000 km away, not crossing oceans". And everyone commiserates with them. 5 minutes later, you mention how this year you have little holiday and can't travel due to money, you will get "well, but it is only you, chill at home, staying in town is nice".
- Looking for apartment the couple will, while standing in your own studio apartment, complain that "all they can afford is something that is twice your appartment, and that something is TOO SMALL". If you dare point out how insulting they are being...get ready for "but it is only you". Bonus points if one of the couple, usually the girl, builds some excuse as to why "it is not entitlement, they need the space due to X" where X is some BS hipstery hobby. eXamples: beer brewing, knitting, yoga, meditation, arts and crafts.
- Someone needs help with a move. "Oh, I do not want to bother chad and stacy" But the incel is expected to always have time.
These are just a few examples...but i am sure you get what i mean.
Some examples:
- When discussing career prospects, and salary aspirations. There is always the "but why do you need more?" "it is only you". Essentially implying that your time is less valuable, and you deserve less compensation because... you are a social loser all the same. I want to note, I am not saying there is an actual wage gap per se, but rather the perception of what one deserves. Likely going to affect you, come time for promotions.
- Chad and Stacy: "Oh, this year sucks, we could not get more than 2 weeks of holiday, and there is not much money, so we will just travel 1000 km away, not crossing oceans". And everyone commiserates with them. 5 minutes later, you mention how this year you have little holiday and can't travel due to money, you will get "well, but it is only you, chill at home, staying in town is nice".
- Looking for apartment the couple will, while standing in your own studio apartment, complain that "all they can afford is something that is twice your appartment, and that something is TOO SMALL". If you dare point out how insulting they are being...get ready for "but it is only you". Bonus points if one of the couple, usually the girl, builds some excuse as to why "it is not entitlement, they need the space due to X" where X is some BS hipstery hobby. eXamples: beer brewing, knitting, yoga, meditation, arts and crafts.
- Someone needs help with a move. "Oh, I do not want to bother chad and stacy" But the incel is expected to always have time.
These are just a few examples...but i am sure you get what i mean.
