Serious Seriously, how do most guys get their first kiss and lose their virginity? How did we end up kissless virgins?

[BradPitt]

Autism.

Legit diagnosed autism. Combined with a fuckton of other mental health problems I never had a chance.

 

[Deleted member 301]

I went to a table top gaming meetup and it was like walking into a inceltears meetup, trannies included.

 

[RichCel]

I have kissed hookers and strippers (gay, I know), but never a civilian. Not even when I was a kid and getting pecks on the cheek was common. So I wouldn't know.

 

[ChinaCurry]

I think a large part of it is shit parenting, especially on the part of ethnics, cos the ethnic parents try to remove the kids from the real world, and let them grow up in a bubble that represents the bubble they grew up in 20 years prior. Ethnics in their own country don't have this issue because the ethnic parents fit in and are developing and adapting to new world.
In the case of both ethnics and non, the parents are unable to subconsciously impress on the kids what is normal development and so shit just passes them by, and the problem is if you miss those key developmental milestones you will never get them back (kiss by 14, get laid by 17) and as such you will never be successful in any field that requires interacting with people

 

[bignose]

First of all, I'm buttfuck ugly, which kind of destroys my chances for kisses and sex as women simply do not see me as a potential sexual partner. Plus, I attended high school with a technical specialization (it's still a thing in Eastern Europe) that was almost 100% male due to its rather demanding curriculum and as a result, I now work in a male dominated field. Most people hook up in high school, college or at work, if they are still single post-Uni but due to my education and my job my social circle consists of other low-status ugly males like myself with no single women available. Nowadays, the only sociably acceptable matching services are dating apps and those are Chad's hunting grounds were subhumans like have no chance whatsoever of getting anything. My present status as a kissless, handholdless, hugless virgin is due to my sub-par looks, my upbringing and my field of work. The game was rigged from the start and I made some bad rolls on the genetic lottery while I was still in my mother's womb.

this is the history of my life , I am a Computer Engineering

I just never had any females show interest in me at any point in my life, not as a child, not as a older child, not as a young teen, not as a middle-age teen, not as a older teen, and also never in my early 20s, or never in my mid 20s, and never in my late 20s.

Now aged 32 soon.

same, I have 34 now

 

[Deleted member 5712]

lots of factors but mainly our looks
secondary Id say would be no social connections

im ugly as sin and was never invited to parties or anything after school. even if i was my parents would never allow me to go. after age 10/11 i never had any friends or people to talk to cept my parents/grandma. that meant no chances to meet girls as why would they ever want to talk to pr date the ugly kid in the corner with no friends? school is all about status and looking cool.

if, by some miracle, a girl really liked you and wanted to date you she would be made fun of and outcast by her social circle.

 

[andinocel]

if, by some miracle, a girl really liked you and wanted to date you she would be made fun of and outcast by her social circle.

You nailed it with this comment. A woman’s concern for social acceptance heavily outweighs her willingness to see other factors besides appearance. She doesn’t want to hear statements like “ew you could’ve done better”