(Serious) I'm not fit for a relationship.

[Deleted member 14805]

(for some reason the prefix isn't working that's why I put "Serious" in paranthese) Real talk, I'm not cut for a relationship, having missed out on obtaining them during a very crucial part of mental and social development which is HS. I would always tell myself I know what I want in a mate, but that's only because of what I imagine of what my relationships might be like, but in reality it maybe very different from what I was hoping for, thus shaping up your expectations and sharpening your social development. Having not obtained relationships during HS I haven't learned the social cues of what's right or wrong, of what type of females to go for and to avoid.

Basically I'm saying, I'm socially and emotionally stunted due to lack of relationships during developmental stages of life, believe it or not, relationships helps us learn more about ourselves as a person. Since I never obtained anything of the sort I never really learned too much about myself in terms of how I would be in a relationship. It's easy to think our relationships will be what we see in Anime or Disney movies, when in reality it's far different.

Me being alone, always playing video games, jerking off, eating, and pretty much not caring about much, yeah I wouldn't be a good partner in a relationship. I'm not 100% sure if I'll be a stronger better person if I obtained a few relationships or if I would be worse, but I'll never know since I missed out on them during a very crucial development part of my life and sadly I think that applies to generally all men who missed out during HS.

So what're your thoughts? Does this apply to you too? Am I wrong? Did I miss anything? Leave your thoughts below.

 

[HighTGymcel]

same tbh. I only want sex anyway

 

[zangano1]

I want a relationship where the whore loves me and helps me despite the fact that Im obviously not ready for a relationship

 

[BraccusRex]

Dude if you've already been blackpilled its over you'll never trust a foid or live a happy normie life.

There are only two paths left or get OVER it

 

[Deleted member 8206]

u should try some mmos i think they are good cope and help with social xp a bit

 

[FrothySolutions]

You feel like you would be a bad partner. Do you know what a good partner is like?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

im too mentally stunted and emotionally drained to handle an actual one.

 

[jerrycan dan]

I wish I had a gf that would walk me through dealing with people tbh

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I believe that I would become a better person than I am now if I got into a serious relationship. Of course, that would only be if she didn't leave me or cheat on me because if she did then I'd devolve even further mentally.
If I had a girl that I could have sex with, this would give my life meaning, a point and thus it would drive me to do the things that I currently don't have the motivation for; find a job, get a driver licence, become more social etc. What reason do I have to archieve those things right now? I'm all alone, all I can do is escape the lonelines through copes. When you look at married men, they are okay with working hard and generally doing things I'd never do because they're doing it for their wife and their children (who are a product of them having sex with their wife), not for themselves. Humans require intimacy, that is a primal desire like our desire for food and sleep, as long as we do not statisfy this desire, we cannot move forward and focus on more important things.
Would a starving man care about if he is a functional member of society? No, his mind is too focused on obtaining food for that.

 

[Smallus Dickus]

Most(if not all) incels over certain age(somewhere in middle 20's) becomes non fit to relationship, even if they were perfectly fit before that. It's not only about lack of experience, I think that could be reversed. But constant string of rejections, blackpill knowledge and often getting acustomed to life in solitary makes it pretty much impossible. When you are teen then even if you are not in relationship you are living with other people -> your parents and siblings. When you in college/uni you often live still with parents or in dorm or in some rented apartment but with few other people. After that and starting earning some cash you are living just by yourself, losing ability to have normal human contact. I mean sure you have it in work, but it's very shallow, based only in work(not counting talking about weather or football match). If you are neeting then you are usually still living with parents, but your relationship is changed because they DON'T want you to live with them.
After a while your sexual drive can lower, which is happening to me at the ripe age of 30. I like living alone, but to be honest my mother was (and still is)manipulative, nagging witch that I have love/hate relationship. After a hundred of rejections I just have rather bad view on "beutiful gender". I don't even know if I wanted sex if I could have it, I mean it would be so awkward.

 

[Insomniac]

I am dead inside

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

For starters having autism, I'm definitely not, it was over for before it began for me. Sometimes I wonder why I even bother looking at the double-standards and hypocrisy of women, dating, relationships, sex, etc, because I'm not even in the game, let a lone at the bottom of it. I guess I just have all the time in the world free, so I can just do whatever I want, and my mind has focused on these kinds of things in the last few years, so its what I spend most of my time thinking about.

 

[Cuyen]

I wish I had a gf that would walk me through dealing with people tbh

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

I wish I had a gf that would walk me through dealing with people tbh

This is how I use my psychologist.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I would get cucked if I had a relationship, I'd be too nice and she would think I was a pussy. I don't have the ability to be assertive.

I am dead inside

We all are.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

I would get cucked if I had a relationship, I'd be too nice and she would think I was a pussy. I don't have the ability to be assertive.


We all are.

I can see having 0 exp, you'd either get get cucked, or you'd be way over-bearing and push her away. We haven't learned how to have a healthy functioning relationship, this is something you learn when you're younger with experience and you're given the benefit of the doubt. But the older you get the less people are willing to put up with your lack of inexperience. Its a vicious cycle tbh.

 

[BraccusRex]

u should try some mmos i think they are good cope and help with social xp a bit

Mmos are a great cope, socializing in them is as bad as irl. Still normans behind those avatars.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

It's correct, here we all had a stunted social/emotional development, making us unable to manage relationships.
That makes us either loners for life in the best case. In the worst we are the victims of choice of roasties looking for betabux.
Knowing ones' limits is a strenght though.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

Same bro. Foids have nothing of value to contribute with but sex anyway though.

 

[ihaveno1]

I want a relationship where the whore loves me and helps me

 

[GeneticFilth]

You can do whatever you want, looks are everything. I knew a girl that complained about how all her boyfriend does is play cod back when that game was relevant. There were also girls on tinder talking about how fortnite stole their boyfriends from them.

 

[Reize]

Same

 

[investigatorcel]

Same here
Im too autistic to handle a relationship

 

[Sennacherib]

Dude if you've already been blackpilled its over you'll never trust a foid or live a happy normie life.

Facts,foids are genetically engineered to cheat,to upgrade to a superior man.
They're unreliable and worthless.