I've asked before what counts as bragging. Best answer I got was "it varies by mod discretion."
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So it's impossible for me to say when something is bragging. But I can say this: It's contradictory and it causes division in the community.
I would never say that someone "doesn't belong here" or "isn't incel" because they happen to be tall or whatever. And the idea of someone, anyone, wanting to belong here but getting thrown out and being without a community, it makes me sad. So I prefer to think "We're all the same in that we're all unattractive incels. Nothing else matters." And that's the logic a lot of you also stick with. But you know what's contradictory? When one day you say "I'm an ugly incel just like everyone else here," and then another day you're like "I have X trait. Isn't that such an attractive trait?"
You defend this by saying "But I make up for it by being utterly deplorable in every other way. I only have one/a few good traits." Some of us have no good traits. Not one. I used to think I had one, but I recently went in for a checkup and learned I don't have it. So I have no good traits either. This is actually news to some of you and god bless you oblivious little saints. If only you knew how hard it was for some of us. But others here KNOW there are people here with no redeeming traits. And yet they still make threads like these. I ask you to use your brains here. If you are saying "I have this good trait" knowing that we don't, that means we are not the same. And if it is enviable to be Chad, if we have the right to be angry that Chad looks good and we don't, doesn't that mean we should be angry that you are tall and we aren't? Or you have a fat cock and we don't? Or you have good hair and we're bald? It makes no sense to say "I'm incel, that's all that matters" but then say "Look at this good part of me, this good part of me matters enough that I'm bringing attention to it. People should notice it. You here should notice it." If you have noticeable good traits, and good traits are a thing to be coveted, by your own logic you are not the same as us, you are someone to be envied, you don't know adversity like we do.
And I don't want it to be this way. I want you to belong. But you're the one who insists on attention paid to how much better you are than us. If that matters, then we simply aren't the same.
Mods, is it bragging to say you mog someone?
Once upon a time a mod explained to me, it's not bragging to say how big your dick is. But it IS bragging to say "I have a good sized dick." What makes something bragging is to describe yourself physically in a positive way. So surely it's bragging to say "I look better than this guy?" No? Yes...
incels.is
So it's impossible for me to say when something is bragging. But I can say this: It's contradictory and it causes division in the community.
I would never say that someone "doesn't belong here" or "isn't incel" because they happen to be tall or whatever. And the idea of someone, anyone, wanting to belong here but getting thrown out and being without a community, it makes me sad. So I prefer to think "We're all the same in that we're all unattractive incels. Nothing else matters." And that's the logic a lot of you also stick with. But you know what's contradictory? When one day you say "I'm an ugly incel just like everyone else here," and then another day you're like "I have X trait. Isn't that such an attractive trait?"
You defend this by saying "But I make up for it by being utterly deplorable in every other way. I only have one/a few good traits." Some of us have no good traits. Not one. I used to think I had one, but I recently went in for a checkup and learned I don't have it. So I have no good traits either. This is actually news to some of you and god bless you oblivious little saints. If only you knew how hard it was for some of us. But others here KNOW there are people here with no redeeming traits. And yet they still make threads like these. I ask you to use your brains here. If you are saying "I have this good trait" knowing that we don't, that means we are not the same. And if it is enviable to be Chad, if we have the right to be angry that Chad looks good and we don't, doesn't that mean we should be angry that you are tall and we aren't? Or you have a fat cock and we don't? Or you have good hair and we're bald? It makes no sense to say "I'm incel, that's all that matters" but then say "Look at this good part of me, this good part of me matters enough that I'm bringing attention to it. People should notice it. You here should notice it." If you have noticeable good traits, and good traits are a thing to be coveted, by your own logic you are not the same as us, you are someone to be envied, you don't know adversity like we do.
And I don't want it to be this way. I want you to belong. But you're the one who insists on attention paid to how much better you are than us. If that matters, then we simply aren't the same.
