Discussion Saying uh or um a lot and stuttering due to years of social stunting and not speaking often

[UnwantedVirgin]

How does one break the cycle of brain pauses and being slow in da mind when it comes to talking?

 

[der_komische]

alcohol

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

alcohol

That unleashes the inner full autist upon the world.

 

[Trannydestroyer]

Yeah but this is more of an inherent trait of mine more than social isolation

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

I notice I become less and less verbal every year, I talk like an aboo in grunts of confirmation such as mmhm head nod and shoulder shrugs etc anyone else barely say words anymore or am I regressing mentally due to no social connections?

 

[Trannydestroyer]

I notice I become less and less verbal every year, I talk like an aboo in grunts of confirmation such as mmhm head nod and shoulder shrugs etc anyone else barely say words anymore or am I regressing mentally due to no social connections?

damn it caveman maxxing

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

Yeah but this is more of an inherent trait of mine more than social isolation

Do you ever stutter or have trouble making sounds or have a really nasally voice? I've got all of those also.

I notice I become less and less verbal every year, I talk like an aboo in grunts of confirmation such as mmhm head nod and shoulder shrugs etc anyone else barely say words anymore or am I regressing mentally due to no social connections?

I think the brain isn't as sharp when it's not in constant social groups IRL, it wastes away and we lose the fine motorskills to speak and be sharp.

 

[Namtriz912]

We're just regressing back to the stone age (jk) make sure to speak more every day even if to yourself out loud it'll make you think more sharply in due time.

 

[Nikalas]

I feel like a lot of people say um when talking

 

[Moroccancel]

The less I sleep, the faster my head works on a verbal level.

 

[wastedcodeine]

Do you ever stutter or have trouble making sounds or have a really nasally voice? I've got all of those also.

Got all those it's so fucking brutal man

 

[Robb97]

Got all those it's so fucking brutal man

Maybe scream into a pillow for 3 minutes. After that speak a little and the voice will drop. My voice is subhuman, after I do that less so.

My mother hates me and she always tells me things I did wrong. But when I have my voice halo it's funny how she immediately becomes more submissive. Her voice gets softer and she stops accusing me of things. I also repeat what she says in a sarcastic voice which only works when my voice sounds decent. On the other hand when I have my usual voice and I confirm that I heard her and will implement changes etc she seems to just get more enraged and keeps talking. There's 100% a difference.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

We're just regressing back to the stone age (jk) make sure to speak more every day even if to yourself out loud it'll make you think more sharply in due time.

Like a workout for our voice and vocal cords?

The less I sleep, the faster my head works on a verbal level.

I've had that too at times when I've been awake for too long, it's like I become really alert and can move my mouth easier.

Got all those it's so fucking brutal man

Do you have the Chris Chan autist voice like I do also?

 

[Namtriz912]

Like a workout for our voice and vocal cords?

That too there are YouTube videos you can use to follow (exercises) but I meant it in a way to move away from using filler words speak concisely in short sentences at first then move onto doing it for minutes on end.

 

[The Wolf]

I have that too

I practically never speak English (only YEARS ago, in school), now only German

 

[Wolnir]

Yeah, I come across as really dumb in real life, it also sometimes physically hurts to talk.

 

[wastedcodeine]

Do you have the Chris Chan autist voice like I do also?

Thankfully not

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Stop speaking once and for all