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Do only super slim hot girls get the best on SA? SA is giving me a reality check.
Hi everyone
I wanted to ask this question because SA has literally caused my self esteem drop to all time lows.
Im 23 caucasian female, polish-born, look younger than I am, but seriously, I never before questioned my attractiveness until NOW. Is the sugar-bowl extremely extremely superficial?
Im not saying that there is anything wrong with SDs mindset, you get what you pay for, survival of the fittest, etc. Do only super super hot skinny girls get the best on SA? the highest allowances, etc.
The reason why I ask is lately my confidence and self esteem has gone down since SA. All the messages I get are from guys that i am not the least attracted to!
Ive been lurking on this forum and have had an SA account for a couple months, not taking it that seriously, went on a couple M&G, didn’t work. Im starting to question my actual worth! I have an awesome profile, describes me well but maybe my pictures are bad? Literally all the guys that message me, I am not attracted to at all! I sometimes show my private photos to attractive looking guys (in hopes they will find me attractive and then they don’t say anything back! So I am the problem, and have to do something about it!
I think the reason why I haven’t been successful in finding a good looking SD is because Im not super slim. I know I have pretty face (but yes beauty is in the eye of the beholder, i know!), but I think I need to seriously lose weight to up my appearance. Right now, Im petite/small (Size S, 5’4 so short), but definitely not skinny/slim, so I think I need to gear towards the more edgy slender look in order to improve myself and ultimately my life.
SB’s did you experience any of these feelings? Did you change/fix your appearance, lose weight, take better care.. etc?
SD’s did you drop any potential SB’s because they weren’t as slim/attractive/perfect body? When you find their photos not as attractive, you don’t reply or what usually happens?
Be brutally honest to me
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