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Serious Right now (and for the past few days) I am getting this very strong and uncontrollable urge to rope IMMEDIATELY. How do I stop this?

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Crushing and agonizing depression from being unable to fulfill my desires is attacking my chest and heart, and making me feel like I can't bear the weight of my life anymore. I want to rope IMMEDIATELY. It feels like I'm drowning. How can I stop this from paralyzing me?
 
Crushing and agonizing depression from being unable to fulfill my desires is attacking my chest and heart, and making me feel like I can't bear the weight of my life anymore. I want to rope IMMEDIATELY. It feels like I'm drowning. How can I stop this from paralyzing me?
I have periods like this, in the past I used drugs to push away the feelings, but now I just keep coping and the feeling will lessen and become background noise after a few days.
 
but now I just keep coping and the feeling will lessen and become background noise after a few days.
That's what I'm thinking as well.
 
I'm only 18 and can't stand this pitiful existence
 
sun light and exercise may help a tiny bit.
 
sun light and exercise may help a tiny bit.
I exercised so much (5 hours a day), I got burnt out. Currently on a break of few days.
 
What's going on right now? Is it money, family, school, etc?
 
Crushing and agonizing depression from being unable to fulfill my desires is attacking my chest and heart, and making me feel like I can't bear the weight of my life anymore. I want to rope IMMEDIATELY. It feels like I'm drowning. How can I stop this from paralyzing me?
Just sleep it off
 
Im feeling fucked today. Wasted so many hours
 
Take a long walk or go jogging, and meditate after it.

I've been reducing nicotine and caffeine and feeling very depressed because of it. These feelings are related to low dopamine activity in the brain, which brings feelings of inadequacy, depression and suicidal thoughts.

Exercising even once a week will help you a little bit. Regular meditation habit will also help. Its just brain chemistry at the end of the day, and you have the capability to mold it. The problem with depression is that you have less motivation to do the things that will actually make your brain chemistry better, but if you force yourself to do it then eventually you'll feel better.

Also in addition you want to avoid things that actually reduce your dopamine baseline. Porn, masturbation, drugs and entertainment will increase it for a while, until the receptors become numb and then your baseline drops.
 
Crushing and agonizing depression from being unable to fulfill my desires is attacking my chest and heart, and making me feel like I can't bear the weight of my life anymore. I want to rope IMMEDIATELY. It feels like I'm drowning. How can I stop this from paralyzing me?
What copes do you usually indulge in??
 
Put an attendance everyday in .is and let the .is flow take you where you will end
 
That's just part of being an incel unfortunately. You either cope or rope.
 
I demoed a rope strategy last night and not going to lie, it felt so peaceful and calm , I saw fireworks with my eyes closed. I had to force myself to abort as I wasn't planning on actually going through with it
 

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