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New member here. As an Asian dude I experienced all the racial prejudice in my youth in terms of dating. Not only white girls rejected me, but Asian girls also rejected me as well. It really wounded my self-esteem, thinking Asian males were an inferior group. I also tried really hard to work out in the gym to beef up my muscles, to alleviate my "nerdy Asian" image. Didn't really help me get many dates with white girls or any American born Asian girls of my match. All the women who agreed to go out with me were either much older, or much fatter. I only wanted to date girls of similar age and similar physic. Plenty girls rejected me and then went out with white guys much less fit and much less educated.
Until one day, during my business trip in China, I found myself suddenly no long a pariah, but rather a hot stud. I met my match, my current wife.
We have been married for 18 years. We have 5 kids. Our oldest son is 17, and he is one of the most popular boys in his high school. He dated the hottest girls in his school. He had straight A's throughout his entire school life, and aced his ACT test a few months ago. Our 2 younger kids are the same, never a B in their lives. They all did it with minimum efforts. (The 2 youngest haven't started school yet)
I kept in touch on Facebook with some of the girls that rejected me. Some of their husbands got senile and fat, and some of them got divorced. Today in my mid 50's, I still have the same body shape and energy as in my 20's.
Looking back, I'm glad those girls rejected me. Otherwise I could not have met my wife, who's smart, beautiful and fit, who gave me 5 wonderful children. My children are all very proud of being full-blood Asians, as they know Asians are the smartest and healthiest amount all races:
According to CDC, the life expectancy of Asian American is 86.3, vs. Whites at 78.6, a whopping 10% longer. Asian Americans have the highest educational achievements, and the lowest divorce rates.
This is my sense of pride in my Asian masculinity: we are humans, not animals. We don't compete with each other on physical strength. We compete with each other on intelligence, and health. Yes I'm smaller and not as strong as you, but no matter how strong you are, you still can't defeat a bear. Your muscle strength won't help you make money in our society. If I'm smart, I can make more money and provide better for my family and kids; I'm healthy than you so I can enjoy life better and spend more quality time with my kids.
For anyone who dares to laugh at me for having a small dick, I laugh back at them for having a small brain. As long I have the biggest brain, I can care less about the size of any other organs (not that I admit the biased dick size myth).
Asian men and women should really consider each other as their top choice of partner. We are best made for each other, and we can produce the smartest and healthiest kids. This is not racism. All other races are the same: white girls put white men as their top choice, black girls put black men as their top choice. It's time for Asian girls to put Asian men as their top choice.) 'S me
