Brutal Ricecel realizes his dad was an incel

[Lv99_BixNood]

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The older I get the more I realize this and why this might be a part of the issues my family has. My mom's the primary abuser, my dad's passive and lets her do whatever. But in my parents generation a lot of asian women married white, and my dad isn't that impressive in the circle he grew up in, so I don't think there were many asian women around him that expressed an interest in him. My mom was the only person willing to go along with my dad and get married etc, and I think my dad doesn't want to be alone forever, so he thinks everything my mom says is okay.

Like, if another woman had expressed interest in my dad, maybe I wouldn't be here in this situation. My dad had legitimately no one. My parents were matched up by family friends cause they were both old and couldn't find partners on their own.

I half don't blame my dad for not leaving my mom, or for getting with her, because his only options were lifelong singlehood, or an abusive women. And in this era I think many asian men just chose the latter.

Now for his son today there is no arranged marriage to save him, never began.

 

[Jesussaveme]

Suifuel lol

 

[Nicusor_delaBraila]

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Now for his son today there is no arranged marriage to save him, never began.

a lot of men would be incel today and not realise it

 

[Pikacel]

a lot of men would be incel today and not realise it

 

[NormieCelll]

a lot of men would be incel today and not realise it

It's the same men who are treating us like we're worse than ISIS btw

 

[Itsoverm8]

I hate cucks like that

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

How do sons realize stuff like this and not hold absolute contempt for their mothers?

What's worse, how does he now view his father? Your father is meant to be your model in life—the person you derive your idea of masculinity from. But if you see him like this, as true as it may be, what are you supposed to think then? Jesus Christ.

 

[Itsoverm8]

How do sons realize stuff like this and not hold absolute contempt for their mothers?

What's worse, how does he now view his father? Your father is meant to be your model in life—the person you derive your idea of masculinity from. But if you see him like this, as true as it may be, what are you supposed to think then? Jesus Christ.

I deal with this I have no respect for my dad I see him as a buck broken cuck

 

[endoftheskies]

How do sons realize stuff like this and not hold absolute contempt for their mothers?

What's worse, how does he now view his father? Your father is meant to be your model in life—the person you derive your idea of masculinity from. But if you see him like this, as true as it may be, what are you supposed to think then? Jesus Christ.

Again. No role-model is what is implied here, not the fact that your father is an negative role-model. The father clearly doesn't show interest in the kids, or help them. And also, most people derive what masculinity is from, not by their parents, although their parents play a deep part in their upbringing, but by culture and media, this is the Idol of the Theater.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Again. No role-model is what is implied here, not the fact that your father is an negative role-model. The father clearly doesn't show interest in the kids, or help them.

Does it imply that? I suppose I missed it... Even if the mother is abusive and the father is supposedly passive, I would think that he'd still be interested in raising his kids...

 

[endoftheskies]

Does it imply that? I suppose I missed it... Even if the mother is abusive and the father is supposedly passive, I would think that he'd still be interested in raising his kids...

Its just my pure conjecture due to the way he described his father as passive, he supposedly yields to the women which would make him take on an less important, and to mention adjacent role to the kids. I was just adding my own observations to your comments.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I deal with this I have no respect for my dad I see him as a buck broken cuck

Jesus, and I thought me just 'lightly' getting along with my father was tough. Why do you think of your father that way?

 

[AdolfRizzler]

a lot of men would be incel today and not realise it

 

[AdolfRizzler]

bp proves that, while let s say that our dad wasn t an incel in his life, but he would have been one if he would have been born today, never let your bluepilled delusional dad lie to you because he was lucky with the time period otherwise he would have been the one today in our places

 

[Nicusor_delaBraila]

It's the same men who are treating us like we're worse than ISIS btw

True
Most black,white,asian,indian,arab or sea men that reproduced in the past wouldnt do so today.
Yet theyre the ones making fun of us and calling us radicals n shit

 

[underballer]

Jfl

 

[underballer]

It's the same men who are treating us like we're worse than ISIS btw

Lol

 

[Erenincel]

Now for his son today there is no arranged marriage to save him, never began.

We need to renew arranged marriage

 

[Erenincel]

It's the same men who are treating us like we're worse than ISIS btw

Brutal true

 

[AsiaCel]

a lot of men would be incel today and not realise it

 

[160cmbloop]

mom doesnt even find him attractive lol

 

[PersonalityChad]

My dad was an inkwell too