Serious Reverse social-isolation theory

[jet112]

we all know that social isolation is a thing incels experience alot. and it pains me to see incels that blame themselves and the internet for their own misery.
"i wasted my life in front of a computer screen"
"my childhood was wasted on mmos and junk food"
etc etc. you know the shtick

but what if social isolation is reverse? meaning - you weren't isolating yourself the whole time, the world is anti-social and cold at large. and you are blamed for not forming new connections because your'e the only want the wants them.
the more i go out, the more i understand this. people are VERY adverse to forming new connections.
this is the truth no one is willing to admit (or can't see). and i know that blaming everyone other than yourself is not a good thing, but watch closely how people behave and you will see what i mean.

 

[Cuyen]

IQ mogs me

 

[PaulSmenis]

IQ mogs me

 

[wasted12years]

Chad can isolate himself completely and still get tons of female attention. He just need a social media profile tinder, facebook etc.

 

[PaulSmenis]

but what if social isolation is reverse? meaning - you weren't isolating yourself the whole time, the world is anti-social and cold at large. and you are blamed for not forming new connections because your'e the only want the wants them.
the more i go out, the more i understand this. people are VERY adverse to forming new connections.
this is the truth no one is willing to admit (or can't see). and i know that blaming everyone other than yourself is not a good thing, but watch closely how people behave and you will see what i mean.

Sure...sure...people are inherently inclined to reject that which they find unpalatable, particularly when it's unfamliar.

I tried investigating this through first hand experience back during my mid-teenage years. I was always baffled to find that everyone seemed like yet another NPC, incapable of creative expression of freewill within the space of any given interaction. As if all future social interaction could only ever unfold in accordance with preconditioned patterns formed relative familiarized stimuli.

Later on in the years, I would understand that most people are simply too caught up in their own self-created mental reality, to be able to invest enough of themselves to interact meaningfully with others. Lamentably, living on auto-pilot is all that most can muster.

 

[jet112]

Chad can isolate himself completely and still get tons of female attention. He just need a social media profile tinder, facebook etc.

not true, only applies to woman

 

[wasted12years]

not true, only applies to woman

It applies more to women but not only.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Later on in the years, I would understand that most people are simply too caught up in their own self-created mental reality, to be able to invest enough of themselves to interact meaningfully with others. Lamentably, living on auto-pilot is all that most can muster.

This explains a lot. Tfw cartoons are more 3d than people and people are more 2d than cartoons.

 

[Insomniac]

High IQ thread.

I like being alone anyway tbh. I get really nervous and anxious around people.