" If you're overweight, dress poorly, have no career prospects, and can't carry a conversation"
Does the same apply to women? Methinks not. Why are guys always expected to be such exceptional creatures, meanwhile women are perfect out of the womb? I guess this is online dating, where the standards are a lot higher, but even in person guys have to be on top of their game for the most mediocre of woman. Also, I would say it is normal for guys to get no engagement, as that is how dating apps are set up. Inbalance of men to women; women go for the top guys.