There’s no real reason why we shouldn’t be allowed to walk into a bar and flirt with that one 10/10 hottie. The only reason we can’t is because we’ll get taken out like trash, if we’re lucky. At worst, we become prisoncels. Normies have warped a good chunk of our minds into thinking that it’s somehow inherently wrong to go for hot women. I know I don’t have a chance and none of us do, but that doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing to do.
Look up any dating subreddit (even redpill) and they’ll treat a guy who does this like he’s some kind of aberration on the world.
In other words, I’ve gone for solid 1/10s before, for what it’s worth. In society’s mind: I should be a good little beta and keep going for them and not go for 7-10s.
Above-average women of average/short height will show interest in me but because I'm 5'5 I nevertheless consider myself a shortcel. (anyone below 5'8 can say that imo) Also I'm not bragging when I say that. It's just factually been my experience. I never said my inceldom was due to my face, though it was before. (I was actually a cutecel for all of my 20's - growing facial hair changed everything for me.) I'm literally a 28 (almost 29) year old virgin. No other guy I know with the exception of one friend is. So I have no one to relate to. (also, we really don't talk about it - it's not like there's much to say.) I am not a fortunate, privileged human being who sees the world idealistically. You can say anything to me but I will not tolerate that. My life has been hell, I've suffered it so am in the position to say that.
In my experience because I'm this borderline case in a sense people would be
more likely to be weird about me talking to attractive women than if they were just clearly outside of my league, where there is no threat. People think (and occasionally say) there is something "off" or "weird" about me. It's like yeah, no fucking shit, I suppose the systematic, relentless career/social dejection that culminates in a man being a 29 year old virgin will not have a positive effect on their mental state? These people don't even know what it's like not having enough money for food.
If I was just a few inches taller, my chances would drastically go up and I doubt I'd still be a virgin now. But any woman taller than me wouldn't be interested in me and much of the % of the population in the USA is.
It's all just genetics, my parents were attractive in their prime, but my father was a manlet. He also wasn't from the USA. (though to be fair, neither were one of each side of my maternal great-grandparents - they were straight from Europe.)
To be honest, the main reason I'm a virgin isn't height, but other factors outside of my control that are beyond the scope of this reply. I sometimes think I should've just gone to Mexico when I had a little money. In Mexico most women are shorter but still attractive, weather is better, everything is cheaper, higher QoL - it's like an instant paradise button. It's too late now, I have nothing and I'm in a total predicament, about as close to suicide as I've ever been. I've given up on moving to Mexico. I'm getting the fuck out of the USA and going to go to the one country besides the USA where I can have citizenship.
