Rejections are Soul Destroyers. NEVER ask a Girl Out

[darkincel]

Its better to live and die at 90 without asking a girl out than
to get rejected even ONCE
Shit destroys u from the inside out.

I feel so low in life. I feel like nothing. 
Being rejected makes u feel so worthless. 

NEVER ask a girl out if you are a youngcel.
If women want u, they will make it known.

 

[justforlulzandkeks]

good advice if you want to stay incel your whole life

 

[Incel_Dikshit]

There is no way a women will approach an average or below average guy.
Even chad has to approach , the thing is once he begins it get a lot easier compared to an average guy who ask women out.
Its normal that the guy has to make the first step.
I never asked a female out because on the part that it can break youre soul, so yeah thats is true.
But you have to make sacrifices or you will stay incel.

 

[Deleted member 306]

If you get rejected once that means you are UGLY

 

[darkincel]

good advice if you want to stay incel your whole life

cope

 

[jagged0]

@blickpall do you think you would've been better off if you didn't ask any femoids out?

 

[blickpall]

@blickpall do you think you would've been better off if you didn't ask any femoids out?

I practically never have. I think I would have been better off asking and getting rejected.

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

I practically never have. I think I would have been better off asking and getting rejected.

Only better off, if you actually succeeded lol.


You lose your dignity and self-respect after you get rejected over and over again with absolutely no success.

 

[St.Tropez]

I think you should aproach at a reasonable rate.
Maybe 3-4 per night out max.
Not approaching=certain death for sub Chadlite so you really shouldn't gamble on a female approaching you.

 

[justforlulzandkeks]

cope

high iq reply my friend

 

[Akarin]

rejection is the only way to shake off your hope and oneitism, better regret doing something than regret not doing anything

 

[blickpall]

Only better off, if you actually succeeded lol.


You lose your dignity and self-respect after you get rejected over and over again with absolutely no success.

I'd be better off because I'd be blackpilled sooner and would waste less time holding false notions or hopes.

 

[VLÖ]

rejection is the only way to shake off your hope and oneitism, better regret doing something than regret not doing anything

Trust me, that reasoning is complete bullshit and I know that from experience.

 

[TriedAndFailed]

Its better to live and die at 90 without asking a girl out than
to get rejected even ONCE
Shit destroys u from the inside out.
I feel so low in life. I feel like nothing.
Being rejected makes u feel so worthless.
NEVER ask a girl out if you are a youngcel.
If women want u, they will make it known.

I don't agree, keep on trying, just make sure to adjust your approach. When I feel really shit after a bad couple of rejections, or just shit in general for being incel I put on something inspiratory on youtube, like a euphoric music playist, or some motivation video. Believe me, I know the feeling.

 

[Deleted member 2299]

Personally find it easier to live with rejection than the guilt of not even trying.

 

[Captvic]

Girls always throw signals if they want to be approached so if you are not getting signals then what's the point of approaching

 

[Framecel222]

good advice if you want to stay incel your whole life

 

[VLÖ]

JFL @ dumbasses here telling incels to "go out there and try bro!!!"

You're not blackpilled.

 

[z2020]

You can just tell from their body language towards you. If you're intelligent enough to pick stuff like this up then it'll save you alot of embarrassment.

 

[TriedAndFailed]

JFL @ dumbasses here telling incels to "go out there and try bro!!!"
You're not blackpilled.

He's right though. It's always better to give it your best shot and fail, than to fail having not even given it a go. I've tried damn hard and failed and feel much better for it. Yeah, I'd have that excuse that "well, girls never technically rejected me because I never tried!" but I would know in my heart of hearts it's bullshit. At least this way I KNOW I've given it my all.

 

[VLÖ]

He's right though. It's always better to give it your best shot and fail, than to fail having not even given it a go. I've tried damn hard and failed and feel much better for it. Yeah, I'd have that excuse that "well, girls never technically rejected me because I never tried!" but I would know in my heart of hearts it's bullshit. At least this way I KNOW I've given it my all.

Oh fuck you. You know what, I've gotten rejected too. And guess what? I WISH I NEVER DID IT IN THE FIRST PLACE! They fucking mocked me for it, they shat on me for it, they made fun of me. Every day after was a fucking nightmare because EVERYONE THOUGHT I WAS A DESPERATE LOSER! 

I didn't gain shit from that, I don't feel better about myself. I don't think I've "achieved" something.

"be happy u got rejected bro! xDD" FUCK YOU!

 

[TriedAndFailed]

Oh fuck you. You know what, I've gotten rejected too. And guess what? I WISH I NEVER DID IT IN THE FIRST PLACE! They fucking mocked me for it, they shat on me for it, they made fun of me. Every day after was a fucking nightmare because EVERYONE THOUGHT I WAS A DESPERATE LOSER!

How many times did this happen to you? From the number of times it happened to me, I can say first that it was definitely a minority of women and also that I got better at recognising and therefore avoiding these types of women and situations.

"be happy u got rejected bro! xDD"

It's not be happy you got rejected, it's be happy you've got the fucking balls to get out there and TRY.

You've got to trust me when I say I know the feeling.

 

[VLÖ]

How many times did this happen to you? From the number of times it happened to me, I can say first that it was definitely a minority of women and also that I got better at recognising and therefore avoiding these types of women and situations.


It's not be happy you got rejected, it's be happy you've got the fucking balls to get out there and TRY.

You've got to trust me when I say I know the feeling.

It has happened about 3 times. All girls who I knew rather closely. And they all told their friends like the fucking cunts they were. All women do this, JFL if you think they don't.

And having balls is the biggest fucking cope. It's a stupid jackass competition, like stapling your balls to a piece of wood.
Yeah you did it, but what the fuck did you gain from that? Doing something completely retarded is still doing something completely retarded, no matter how much courage it takes.


And I seriously regret trying. The embarrassment and pain is far worse than you sadistcels imagine. It not only crushes you inside, but it makes people look at you with detest. They just hate you for being so beneath them. 

I'd rather have not tried at all and just be invisible or ignored, rather than being a fucking LAUGHING STOCK FOR EVERYONE.

 

[darkincel]

You can just tell from their body language towards you. If you're intelligent enough to pick stuff like this up then it'll save you alot of embarrassment.

some girls give on IOI's just to get ur validation. They just lead men on, they dont intend on dating u.

 

[St.Tropez]

It has happened about 3 times. All girls who I knew rather closely. And they all told their friends like the fucking cunts they were. All women do this, JFL if you think they don't.

And having balls is the biggest fucking cope. It's a stupid jackass competition, like stapling your balls to a piece of wood.
Yeah you did it, but what the fuck did you gain from that? Doing something completely retarded is still doing something completely retarded, no matter how much courage it takes.


And I seriously regret trying. The embarrassment and pain is far worse than you sadistcels imagine. It not only crushes you inside, but it makes people look at you with detest. They just hate you for being so beneath them. 

I'd rather have not tried at all and just be invisible or ignored, rather than being a fucking LAUGHING STOCK FOR EVERYONE.

You are paranoid bro. 
I highly doubt anyone would give a fuck about you and talk about you,and detest you etc. 

People just dont give a fuck. It is all in your head. You could have aproached 1000s of females (like I have) and trust me.even then nobody gives a fuck.about you,or even remembers you after few months.

In fact in some.clubs that I used to go to,not one.female would recognise or remember me.

 

[TriedAndFailed]

It has happened about 3 times.[/quote[
Which is not that bad.

All girls who I knew rather closely.

Ok, this is worse. Venture safely - go outside your social circle unless you KNOW a girl is cool. I was having drinks with a girl in a pub a few weeks ago and tried to hit on her, didn't work but I KNEW she was cool and wouldn't be embarassed or humiliated for it. 

And they all told their friends like the fucking cunts they were.

I had this happen to me when I was 17. After a bunch of other albeit less awkward experiences, I decided it's generally better to keep this stuff outside your social circle. 

All women do this

Trust, they don't and anyway ... maybe it could work in your favour? e.g. they tell a cute girl interested in you and she finds out your single because of it? Just a thought.

If this would happen to me now (I'm 26), I'd just be like, "yeah, I asked that girl out. So what?" and the guys will be like, "yeah, high five, my man for trying!" and some girls will just be like *roll eyes* "whatever" but you think I give a damn? That's the advantage of age: thick skin

And having balls is the biggest fucking cope. It's a stupid jackass competition

I don't know about you but only person I'm trying to compete with is myself. And yeah, I like the thrill. And yeah, I like to know I'm doing SOMETHING.

Yeah you did it, but what the fuck did you gain from that? Doing something completely retarded is still doing something completely retarded, no matter how much courage it takes.

Well that's funny you say that because yeah, I did retarded approach attempts I wouldn't do again. I also did ones that went way more smoothly, I had times I came up with the perfect thing to say and just grabbed her attention. One time I went up to a girl in a club and was just like "heey" and she was like "heey", then I took her hand spun her and started dancing up close, then she was like "I'm married", so I was like "so why were you like, heey" and she was like, "just the way you said it, was like you know me or something", it was just natural like that. So while I didn't get anything sexual out of those moments, I definitely don't feel retarded. I'm proud of those approaches, I don't care what anyone says.

And I seriously regret trying.

Well, this is a frame of mind and you can change it.

The embarrassment and pain is far worse than you sadistcels imagine.

I'm a sadistcell? lol  

It not only crushes you inside,

More like empowers and invigorates me. 

but it makes people look at you with detest.

Some arseholes yeah. I've also been praised quite a bit for some of my approaches. I would not take those back for the world, 'rejection' or no.  

They just hate you for being so beneath them.

Usually these are the same people that can't get laid themselves because they don't ever put themselves out there.

I'd rather have not tried at all and just be invisible or ignored, rather than being a fucking LAUGHING STOCK FOR EVERYONE.

Even if I was on fucking youtube, I would do it all again.

 

[VLÖ]

You are paranoid bro. 
I highly doubt anyone would give a fuck about you and talk about you,and detest you etc. 

People just dont give a fuck. It is all in your head. You could have aproached 1000s of females (like I have) and trust me.even then nobody gives a fuck.about you,or even remembers you after few months.

In fact in some.clubs that I used to go to,not one.female would recognise or remember me.

MEGA-FUCKING-COPE

You're fucking naïve bro.
They obviously joke about you. I've had girls (classmates) tell me how certain guys have complimented them or asked them out and told me how creepy and gross they are. 

Your delusion that nobody cares gets crushed the moment you see everyone smirking at you and saying vague shit about your confession. People do care, people like making fun of losers. 

Face it, the word will spread. People will associate you with being a loser. This is one thing TRP and dumb fucks like you don't want to admit, you think that women don't talk to eachother about these things at all. You think that they just keep it a secret and don't tell anyone. I envy that kind of delusion, but sadly my experiences have already proved otherwise.

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

I practically never have. I think I would have been better off asking and getting rejected.

Did u end up asking that one chick in ur class?

 

[blickpall]

Did u end up asking that one chick in ur class?

Yep. I added her on Facebook and messaged her. She responded 3 days later. I respond later that day. She still hasn't answered or even read the message and it's been like 3 more days since then. Either she just doesn't use Facebook or she didn't even bother opening my messge, either way it's over and I'm okay with that.

 

[soulcell]

MEGA-FUCKING-COPE

You're fucking naïve bro.
They obviously joke about you. I've had girls (classmates) tell me how certain guys have complimented them or asked them out and told me how creepy and gross they are. 

Your delusion that nobody cares gets crushed the moment you see everyone smirking at you and saying vague shit about your confession. People do care, people like making fun of losers. 

Face it, the word will spread. People will associate you with being a loser. This is one thing TRP and dumb fucks like you don't want to admit, you think that women don't talk to eachother about these things at all. You think that they just keep it a secret and don't tell anyone. I envy that kind of delusion, but sadly my experiences have already proved otherwise.

I partially agree except for the last part. I was friends with a female in college, and she rejected me, but people were with me instead of laughing, and thought the whole situation was epic. Especially after an incident with her going crazy, where she cut of the friendship because of my "aggressive language" to her,  Even a beta male orbiter who was mutual friends of both of us didn't defend her when I said how I really felt about the passive c***.

 

[Deleted member 1627]

If you get rejected once that means you are UGLY

 

[VLÖ]

I partially agree except for the last part. I was friends with a female in college, and she rejected me, but people were with me instead of laughing, and thought the whole situation was epic. Especially after an incident with her going crazy, where she cut of the friendship because of my "aggressive language" to her,  Even a beta male orbiter who was mutual friends of both of us didn't defend her when I said how I really felt about the passive c***.

Nobody thinks that an ugly guy getting rejected is "epic". That stuff just doesn't happen. Pity maybe, but cheering? I seriously doubt that.

 

[anon_899]

Rejection is to the only way to know if you are a mentalcel or a truecel, no PSL rating will be as honest as a female about your looks. The true is, most people in this forum are sheltered mentalcels who are too much of a faggot to ask a girl out, or to looksmax, only 20% or so of the users here are genetically fucked truecels.

"but chad never got rejected"

You are no chad, and if you asked 1000 girls out and ONE accepts and you manage to fuck her, it'll all be worth, or at least you wouldn't have to worry about being a virgin anymore.

Also, people here have severe problems with oneitis. You need to accept your oneitis is not your looksmatch, and that she suck chad's cock on a weekly basis, and get over her. Unfortunately for men, liking a very specific girl will never work unless you are chad. Men are like a soldier in the middle of the jungle, you can't see your targets, so you need to shoot at all sides to even have the chance to hit, while women are a sniper in a hill far away, they only need to aim.

So yea, you should at least try before claiming to be a truecel.

 

[soulcell]

What's epic is how I made the girl hate me two days after I asked her out without trying. I don't know what her deal was but yeah.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

being rejected is one of the worst moments in life

 

[avsky1]

You're definite volcel if you never even tried. If after 10 rejections the outcome is the same, then you can call yourself incel

 

[anincelforlifelol]

JFL @ dumbasses here telling incels to "go out there and try bro!!!"

You're not blackpilled.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I feel the same way. It's not worth the pain. Costs outweigh the benefits

 

[Minjaze]

You can usually tell whether a girl is into you or not.
If she's being bubbly with you and acts flirty/interested during your conversations, then sure go for it. But if she's ignoring you the moment you try talking to her, what's the point of asking her out?

 

[St.Tropez]

You can usually tell whether a girl is into you or not.
If she's being bubbly with you and acts flirty/interested during your conversations, then sure go for it. But if she's ignoring you the moment you try talking to her, what's the point of asking her out?

Pretty much this.

 

[blickpall]

You can usually tell whether a girl is into you or not.
If she's being bubbly with you and acts flirty/interested during your conversations, then sure go for it. But if she's ignoring you the moment you try talking to her, what's the point of asking her out?

Closure.

 

[nausea]

rejection is the only way to shake off your hope and oneitism, better regret doing something than regret not doing anything

this is what I believed many years ago.............

 

[Minjaze]

Weren't you the guy who said that you've never asked a girl out due to your subhumanity? Lol.

 

[Akarin]

this is what I believed many years ago.............

I'm 18yo younger than you so I still have some room for beliving

 

[nausea]

this is what I believed many years ago.............

I'm 18yo younger than you so I still have some room for beliving

legit

 

[FeminismsCancer]

There is no way a women will approach an average or below average guy.
Even chad has to approach , the thing is once he begins it get a lot easier compared to an average guy who ask women out.
Its normal that the guy has to make the first step.
I never asked a female out because on the part that it can break youre soul, so yeah thats is true.
But you have to make sacrifices or you will stay incel.

Believe me, when they like a guy it's so obvious.
Asking a girl out to "find out if by chance she likes you too but is too shy to say it" as you see in da movies is blue pill quackery.

 

[z2020]

some girls give on IOI's just to get ur validation. They just lead men on, they dont intend on dating u.

Why would they want validation from someone ugly?

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

Yep. I added her on Facebook and messaged her. She responded 3 days later. I respond later that day. She still hasn't answered or even read the message and it's been like 3 more days since then. Either she just doesn't use Facebook or she didn't even bother opening my messge, either way it's over and I'm okay with that.

Damn thats too bad. If she was interested prob would actually reply so yea... at least u tried. Respect.

 

[oilonthe-Rose]

It hurts hard when they tell you "they aren't interested in anyone" and then fuck chad instead of you...

 

[Hunter]

be the one in control. let them come to you.