rejected? or not?

[radiohed]

This girl at my work who i chat to sometimes (think she pities) asked what i was doing this weekend. I said something like 'not much, might go cycling'. i then asked if she wanted to join me and a mutual work mate for a drink at the weekend. she said she'd have to check when she was free but she'd let me know on fb messenger. A whole day passed and nothing. WTF??

 

[Haywire]

lol i think you know the answer.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

ask her again

 

[Deleted member 3291]

or cuck

 

[tiredofthisshit]

yes ask her again, its a girl she has 2109301239 other people that are writing to her

 

[Indari]

yes

 

[TheLivingFailure]

Ask her out again. If she says no or avoids you move on.

 

[blickpall]

I think the answer is clear. Asking again will just make her try to "let you down easy" again, which is what not getting back to you about when she is free is.

 

[Vainglorious]

Rejected. She just let you figure it out on your own instead of straight up saying no. I'd rather get the no and not twist in the wind.

 

[Lossphox]

You had to ask and you were given a maybe or loaded question from a women


I'm sorry bro

 

[radiohed]

update... i messaged her asking if she was up for it. i was not expecting this but she said yeah. i'm suprised but i'm fairly certain the fact that another mutual collegue is coming helped a lot as it didn't come off as me asking her out. we're off for a pint tomorrow night after work.

btw the extra colleague is another female. she's morbidly obese or some shit and she's popular at work cos she's loud as fuck and just chats shit 24/7. don't get me wrong she is one of the most vile creatures to walk this earth so her only purpose in this plan was to ease this girl into hanging out with me because she seems to like her somewhat.

 

[radiohed]

ugh. still pretty sure this means nothing though cos why the fuck would she be interested anyway lmao. just didn't want the embarassment of asking her out straight up cos it would be insta reject

 

[PrinceOfCope]

ugh. still pretty sure this means nothing though cos why the fuck would she be interested anyway lmao. just didn't want the embarassment of asking her out straight up cos it would be insta reject

Stop having autism and calm down dude
You can use this as a stepping point later on
Like, a month or so after this just invite her to have drinks again but say "Something something other person couldn't make it." and then invite her on a solo meeting.

If she takes you up on a one to one meeting like that then you know she might be interested

 

[KillingJoke]

Stop having autism and calm down dude
You can use this as a stepping point later on
Like, a month or so after this just invite her to have drinks again but say "Something something other person couldn't make it." and then invite her on a solo meeting.

If she takes you up on a one to one meeting like that then you know she might be interested

Are we a PUA board now? Dafuq are you giving this dude advice for? kek

 

[PrinceOfCope]

Are we a PUA board now? Dafuq are you giving this dude advice for? kek

This isn't PUA shit lol. This is just basic human being social interaction.

I'm giving him advice so he won't make any more shitty posts on this board later on.

I am doing the community a favor. He's clearly some kind of fakecel if a girl even wanted to be anywhere with him. Might as well boost him to ascension

 

[KillingJoke]

This isn't PUA shit lol. This is just basic human being social interaction.

I'm giving him advice so he won't make any more shitty posts on this board later on.

I am doing the community a favor. He's clearly some kind of fakecel if a girl even wanted to be anywhere with him. Might as well boost him to ascension

High iq response