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I came across this forum by accident searching something on Google, and after reading for about an hour I just wanted to post this.
Yes, you might be playing life in hard mode. But you know what? That's the exact thing that will make you better and stronger than the average person. Overcoming the suicidal period of my life was the most character building thing that’s ever happened to me.
A lot of posts here highlight the worst aspects of girls, but I don’t understand why you devote so much of your energy to hating them. Yea there are dumb, entitled bitches: who gives a shit? Just ignore them and get on with your life. Seriously, WHO GIVES A SHIT. If you saw a dog turd in the street would you stop and point at it? Would you stoop down and smell it? No, you’d just ignore it and move on.
There are a lot of assholes in the world. But there are also girls who are just like me and you. There are girls that are normal and fun to be around. Human beings. Everything doesn’t have to be about sex. There are lots of girls that are into memes, video games and being cynical. But you can’t find them by sitting around on a forum like this.
Most of you focus waaay too much on looks. I’ve travelled a lot and started up my social circle from scratch a handful of times. Socially, looks do not matter one iota. Being an interesting person who is well-rounded and fun to be around, that’s what matters. Romantically, I’d be lying if I said looks didn’t matter. But haven’t you seen plenty of ugly/fat guys with beautiful wives/girlfriends? Like I said, you might be playing in hard mode, but that just makes you a better person in the end. In fact it FORCES you to be a better person. Who the fuck wants to play in easy mode?
When you compare the amount of wars, diseases and genocides that went on in the past, we actually live in an amazingly positive time period. News has to be negative to get clicks and views. Stop reading it.
If you hate the little corner of the globe you live in, move. The magic of the internet means a lot of people can get paid to do stuff from any country, anywhere.
Become a master of a skill you enjoy and get paid well for it. Embrace your hobbies and get outside into the world. It can be an amazing place, but you have to get out of your bubble.
I don’t know if you get random people coming on to your forum and telling you how to act often, if so I apologise.
But if you’re reading this thinking it might be time to leave your echo chamber, please read these books. If you do that I guarantee you’ll have a new outlook on life and you can begin to craft one you’ll enjoy every minute of:
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - Mark Manson
Mastery - Robert Greene
Meditations - Marcus Aurelius
Ego is the Enemy - Ryan Holiday
The Compound Effect - Darren Hardy
Yes, you might be playing life in hard mode. But you know what? That's the exact thing that will make you better and stronger than the average person. Overcoming the suicidal period of my life was the most character building thing that’s ever happened to me.
A lot of posts here highlight the worst aspects of girls, but I don’t understand why you devote so much of your energy to hating them. Yea there are dumb, entitled bitches: who gives a shit? Just ignore them and get on with your life. Seriously, WHO GIVES A SHIT. If you saw a dog turd in the street would you stop and point at it? Would you stoop down and smell it? No, you’d just ignore it and move on.
There are a lot of assholes in the world. But there are also girls who are just like me and you. There are girls that are normal and fun to be around. Human beings. Everything doesn’t have to be about sex. There are lots of girls that are into memes, video games and being cynical. But you can’t find them by sitting around on a forum like this.
Most of you focus waaay too much on looks. I’ve travelled a lot and started up my social circle from scratch a handful of times. Socially, looks do not matter one iota. Being an interesting person who is well-rounded and fun to be around, that’s what matters. Romantically, I’d be lying if I said looks didn’t matter. But haven’t you seen plenty of ugly/fat guys with beautiful wives/girlfriends? Like I said, you might be playing in hard mode, but that just makes you a better person in the end. In fact it FORCES you to be a better person. Who the fuck wants to play in easy mode?
When you compare the amount of wars, diseases and genocides that went on in the past, we actually live in an amazingly positive time period. News has to be negative to get clicks and views. Stop reading it.
If you hate the little corner of the globe you live in, move. The magic of the internet means a lot of people can get paid to do stuff from any country, anywhere.
Become a master of a skill you enjoy and get paid well for it. Embrace your hobbies and get outside into the world. It can be an amazing place, but you have to get out of your bubble.
I don’t know if you get random people coming on to your forum and telling you how to act often, if so I apologise.
But if you’re reading this thinking it might be time to leave your echo chamber, please read these books. If you do that I guarantee you’ll have a new outlook on life and you can begin to craft one you’ll enjoy every minute of:
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - Mark Manson
Mastery - Robert Greene
Meditations - Marcus Aurelius
Ego is the Enemy - Ryan Holiday
The Compound Effect - Darren Hardy
