Blackpill Raising with barely any masculine figure doomed me to being emotional weakling

[RealSchizo]

I used to absolutely hate masculinity since my parents were divorced and I took my mother's words for a law. Obviously it was my dad's fault since he cheated on her, but a woman cannot properly raise a son. This is why I turned into a weakling. My mother taught me life from a woman's perspective.

My dad used to tell me how important it was to be a real man but I never took his words seriously. I basically raised as a kid from the average liberal household that was never taught manhood.

My dad did have some impact on my life but as I said I did not take his words serious. I believed my mother more since I lived with her and on top of that experienced abuse by my dad so of course I would love and trust my mother more, but that ended up being a double-edged sword. I am an emotional weakling that cannot handle life because of how I was raised.

 

[Hohenstaufen]

I was very strongly raised by my mom, very protected etc. This obviously gave me a mental blow.

I currently try to break this cycle of weakness but it's hard as it's deeply ingrained into my brain.

 

[RealSchizo]

I was very strongly raised by my mom, very protected etc. This obviously gave me a mental blow.

I currently try to break this cycle of weakness but it's hard as it's deeply ingrained into my brain.

My mom loved and cared for me so much. She did everything for me. She still treats me like I am her baby to this day but that was what doomed my mindest and turned me into an absolute emasculated pussy. It is hard even probably impossible to break something ingrained so deep inside your brain.

 

[Hohenstaufen]

My mom loved and cared for me so much. She did everything for me. She still treats me like I am her baby to this day but that was what doomed my mindest and turned me into an absolute emasculated pussy. It is hard even probably impossible to break something ingrained so deep inside your brain.

same same.

She doesn't see me as an adult and thinks I'm incapable of doing anything, and tries to protect me.

But somehow she's also somewhat distant emotionally...? Kinda weird all in all.

 

[160cmbloop]

nah

you’re just low t physiologically

your physiological state determines whether you’ll be masc or not

no way you can ‘fraud’ masc if you’re low t even with a father figure

high stress, high anxiety, unsafe environment blunted your natural t development during puberty for it to reduce your anxiety, reduce stress, make you more assertive, thicken your vocal cords

you missed out on all those

 

[RealSchizo]

same same.

She doesn't see me as an adult and thinks I'm incapable of doing anything, and tries to protect me.

But somehow she's also somewhat distant emotionally...? Kinda weird all in all.

talking to my mom on the phone feels like she's talking to some clueless child. Talks to me like I am her little baby and uses speech that would normally be directed towards actual children. Beyond brutal. I am an emasculated weakling.

 

[RealSchizo]

nah

you’re just low t physiologically

your physiological state determines whether you’ll be masc or not

no way you can ‘fraud’ masc if you’re low t even with a father figure

high stress, high anxiety, unsafe environment blunted your natural t development during puberty for it to reduce your anxiety, reduce stress, make you more assertive, thicken your vocal cords

you missed out on all those

that's also true. I was severely bullied and constantly anxious knowing that I'd be subjected to abuse the moment I stepped in the class room. I couldn't defend myself at all because I tried to be civil meanwhile those savages knew only violence.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

im the same nigga. my mom has always been overprotective and while she clearly does care about me i sometimes feel like me and her hardly know one another. it's a weird position to be in. she knows id die if i were homeless so she lets me neet too tbh. makes me feel kinda guilty for being a bum.

same same.

She doesn't see me as an adult and thinks I'm incapable of doing anything, and tries to protect me.

But somehow she's also somewhat distant emotionally...? Kinda weird all in all.

 

[RealSchizo]

im the same nigga. my mom has always been overprotective and while she clearly does care about me i sometimes feel like me and her hardly know one another. it's a weird position to be in. she knows id die if i were homeless so she lets me neet too tbh. makes me feel kinda guilty for being a bum.

not all women are evil. I love my mother and my sister. But ig they're kind of neurodivergent like me. Normie parents usually put a lot of stress on their children meanwhile many incels with inherited neurodivergency get to live comfy with their parents. At least we have that.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

I was very strongly raised by my mom, very protected etc. This obviously gave me a mental blow.

I currently try to break this cycle of weakness but it's hard as it's deeply ingrained into my brain.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

All mine did was be angry and yell at me

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

for sure. a lot of other incels have shitty relationships with their female relatives but mine are surprisingly understanding of my situation although not completely. it's def a cultural or racial thing cuz ik deathnics tend to have overprotective moms too esp beaners like me.

not all women are evil. I love my mother and my sister. But ig they're kind of neurodivergent like me. Normie parents usually put a lot of stress on their children meanwhile many incels with inherited neurodivergency get to live comfy with their parents. At least we have that.

 

[160cmbloop]

that's also true. I was severely bullied and constantly anxious knowing that I'd be subjected to abuse the moment I stepped in the class room. I couldn't defend myself at all because I tried to be civil meanwhile those savages knew only violence.

if you’re low t during puberty, your body chooses survival over dominance

high cortisol tells your system“environment is unsafe, don’t take risks” so testosterone gets downregulated on purpose

masculinity is never a ‘mindset’ thing despite what soy red pilled grifters say

same niggas that inject t btws

you need the physiological state in the first place to be ‘masculine’

a father figure alone can’t override biology

social modeling helps expression, not development

if your system was already blunted during the critical window, you missed out on the automatic wiring

i don’t advocate pinning testosterone in the first place but if it’s affecting you that much look into it

there’s obvious tradeoffs like being on it for life or you could do pct if you wanna stop i think

just remember it won’t ’remodel bones’ or do anything drastic

it’ll fix your physiological state of being low t

something that should’ve happened naturally in your development years if you grew up in a proper safe environment

 

[RealSchizo]

if you’re low t during puberty, your body chooses survival over dominance

high cortisol tells your system“environment is unsafe, don’t take risks” so testosterone gets downregulated on purpose

masculinity is never a ‘mindset’ thing despite what soy red pilled grifters say

same niggas that inject t btws

you need the physiological state in the first place to be ‘masculine’

a father figure alone can’t override biology

social modeling helps expression, not development

if your system was already blunted during the critical window, you missed out on the automatic wiring

i don’t advocate pinning testosterone in the first place but if it’s affecting you that much look into it

there’s obvious tradeoffs like being on it for life or you could do pct if you wanna stop i think

just remember it won’t ’remodel bones’ or do anything drastic

it’ll fix your physiological state of being low t

something that should’ve happened naturally in your development years if you grew up in a proper safe environment

exactly. Pretty well put explanation. Masculinity cannot be taught it is determined whether you were socially dominant over others. I've always found it funny how high T ogres are complaining of men being cowards. They are so delusional and retarded it's honestly insane. Especially bully victims such as myself are the way they are because of the same vermin that complain about weak men. Maybe if they never bullied us and let us do our own thing we would have been normal, but what can you do normies will always groid.

 

[Bigmaxs]

I was raised by a single mother as well but I have managed to break the cycle. The only issue I have is being too emotional I feel like I think like a woman sometimes with my indecisiveness.

 

[Youthpilled]

I have unironically high t rates, but i'm also incredibly socially anxious, shy and neurotic due to being aware of my ugliness. Thus, i'm not sure if there's inherent correlation between having high testosterone and being socially dominant, unless you have atleast decent level of attractiveness in the first place, which could allow you to thrive in any particular environment. In other words, being high t if you're ugly would just lead to the deeper resentment and frustration imo

 

[SilentShadow]

if you’re low t during puberty, your body chooses survival over dominance

high cortisol tells your system“environment is unsafe, don’t take risks” so testosterone gets downregulated on purpose

masculinity is never a ‘mindset’ thing despite what soy red pilled grifters say

same niggas that inject t btws

you need the physiological state in the first place to be ‘masculine’

a father figure alone can’t override biology

social modeling helps expression, not development

if your system was already blunted during the critical window, you missed out on the automatic wiring

i don’t advocate pinning testosterone in the first place but if it’s affecting you that much look into it

there’s obvious tradeoffs like being on it for life or you could do pct if you wanna stop i think

just remember it won’t ’remodel bones’ or do anything drastic

it’ll fix your physiological state of being low t

something that should’ve happened naturally in your development years if you grew up in a proper safe environment

So if you were low t during puberty and after you can only fix it by seeing a doctor?