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"I(28M) am Filipino and my wife(27F) is Filipina. I’ll call her Mal. We were both born and raised in the US. We grew up in a city with a lot of racial diversity, but Mal always seemed drawn to the handsome blonde white boys. However, many of these boys didn’t reciprocate that attraction."
Straight away, we see her affinity for blonde white men. Those men want nothing to do with her, though. Typical.
"Despite my Mal’s preference, she always stated she was open to dating any race of man. In my senior year of high school, She told me she no longer wanted to be with white men anymore and wanted to be with a nice Filipino man. She flirted with me and hinted that the nice man could be me."
Bullshit, she has only ever lusted after white men. When those white men wanted nothing to do with her or never gave any commitment after pumping and dumping her, she ran back to the safe, convenient, and available Filipino men.
"My 17 year old self was head over heels for Mal and I decided to ask her out. She fervently agreed and we continued dating. We dated on and off thorough out college because she sometimes wanted breaks in our relationship. She assured me that she loved and valued me and I sometimes gave her money and gifts to keep her love. Despite being an average looking man, most women I wanted chose other men over me and would never give me a chance. Point is, she was all I had."
So, this cuck allows her to take "breaks" in their relationship and go fuck other men when she gets bored of him. He also gives her gifts and money to keep her around because otherwise she'd dump him. But, don't worry, she assured that she "loved and valued him" jfl. He acted like a pathetic spineless cuck and wonders why the following happened.
"I married her when I was 24 and she was 23. As the years went by, she withdrew her love and affection. My wife often displayed hot and cold behavior, but could be very cold and critical. I tried my best to love her, but she made me feel like I was never good enough.
I wanted her to respect me, but my wife would become Hulk levels of angry when I asked for respect and accuse me of being a “pig” if I did. I did everything I could for her. I worked hard and earned money, bought her gifts, gave her plenty of romantic affection and took her out on dates. Despite my efforts, nothing I did ever got me the love and admiration I desired. We also had 2 daughters together, but my wife loved my younger daughter more than my older one.
One day, Mal left her iphone opened while she was doing computer work. I grabbed her phone and ran to my room. What I found hurt me to my core. She was in a group chat with 3 female friends and one of them asked, “Would you rather be with a man you love or a man who loves you?”
Mal said that she loved white men and never actually loved me. She said blonde white white men were “100x handsomer than my common Filipino husband.” The only reason she chose not to be with one was so she wouldn’t lose her independence or be worried about your partner. Mal felt it was more emotionally and financially advantageous for her to marry someone she didn’t love because she could more easily control them.
I was livid and lambasted Mal for playing me. She played innocent and swore she loved me, but I knew she was lying. I had our daughters paternity tested and found out my younger daughter had a blond white father.
I can’t stand my wife anymore. One of my pastors said I should give her a chance and love her. Fuck that and fuck her. But if I leave, could I still find love or am I doomed to be lonely?
I hate my wife, but some of my family members and friends think I should give her another chance or should my wife just be Mal and not my wife any more.
If Mal loves blonde hair blue eyed men, then she should go be with them, so I can find a woman who loves and admires me. Then again, who the hell ever does that?"
JFL. Poor guy got cheated on and was raising someone else's kid. Every aspect of this story emphasizes the importance of the racepill.
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