r/IncelTears loves pushing the idea that lonely men don’t get laid because they’re “bitter” or that women can somehow read their minds and detect hidden misogyny.
Most of us here aren't misogynist. It's only a minority of us that actually have some sort of genuine reflexive generalized innate hatred to women. Even much of the men here who will purvey hatred to women and say they hate women, don't really "hate" all women.
For one, obviously not everything we write here is to be taken at dead serious face-value, especially when we use slang and joke around. For another, even when people do convey what could be considered "hatred" in service of serious points, it's not the same thing as a sheer attitude of hatred that Feminists imply. Because they imply we hate women in the manner white supremacists in the Civil Rights era that opposed ending segregation hated black people.
Racism is different than sexism, because racism is justified on the basis of broadly and arbitrarily categorizing people on the basis of ancestry and physical characteristics then passing this off as scientific and justifying notions of inferiority from there. Whereas
men and
women are real clearly distinct biological categories, and not constructs. The reason the two sexes are at odds really is rooted in inherent differences between them, and women really are worse than men: they are generally weaker, dumber, not as driven and have worse characters. They also have more inherent worth in society, which naturally breeds resentment when the other half of the population receives disproportionate burden and blame and the double-standard is denied.
In truth, we just sort of hate women because of the way they are, and it isn't based on any kind of elitist ideological supremacy...if anything, one reason to hate women is because they're elitist eugenicists and just generally sociopathic. They're at least as racist as men are, yet the common Liberal narrative chalks up American slavery/white supremacy, Nazism, etc. to "the white man" more than women, who were alongside them supporting such things the entire time. (the history of Feminism and Feminist conservative racists and eugenicists also should need no introduction.)
What is warranted is a degree of resentment. As you said, fact women will complain about "misogyny" from men where it doesn't exist, or accuse men of being this purely because they are single and willing to criticize society for their disenfranchisement, then get with guys who hate them because this turns them on, indeed is one reason of many to warrant resentment.
Certainly, this is a defensive natural response, since 99% of women (except maybe unicorn geniuses such as Rosa Luxemburg who understand everything, or the author of
this, a woman who killed herself four years after writing it...if anything such women are harder to come by now than before) approve of this society in their cynical self-interests, and the rhetoric against us largely comes from them (notice it's at a pervasive all-time high and women have gained unprecedented inclusion and influence in institutions and the public space in the last few decades) as well as Liberal/White Knight men.
Also,
as the wiki said, the whole point is we want women and would have one if we could, but some combination of misfortune in the categories of looks + height + poverty + circumstance + lack of ability means we are unable to do so. Therefore, unless we have a hatefucking fetish, we don't actually hate an object of our desire.
Like Wilkes Mcdermid as well as this guy (who may have gone the same way, for all we know) said, we don't hate women for rejecting us, we hate the denial, lies, hypocrisy, double-standards, and demonization used against us, whether that comes from men or women.
To the ladies out there, I want to be clear, I am not angry at you. You are just doing what you are genetically programmed to do. (If you don’t believe me do your own research, there are many papers out there which agree with my findings). However, what I am angry about is the continual stream of people who are trying to lie to me. That is unacceptable.
It isn't about the rejection. Being spurned by women results in bitterness and depression. Incels hating women because they were turned down is a normie/foid gaslighting technique, where they get to take the stance we must be 'entitled' to women somehow. It allows them to escape the pain of any cognitive dissonance and remove any accountability from women.
As you noted, some mentally ill/narcissistic individuals like Elliot have this mindset but they are the minority through which the majority actively chooses to strawman us to.
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