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most of us are just autistic
Its more about not knowing how to react when someone is emotional or acts a certain way
I think its just apathy tbh
I think its just apathy tbh
yes i recognize it but it just passes through me
doesnt do me much
doesnt do me much
most of us are just socially anxious and high inhib but that doesnt mean autism because autism is a neurological disorder ur born with but high inhib is a symtom of autism so having high inhib doesnt mean u got autism
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In my case I sometimes want to react but I'm afraid of making/saying something that will makes me look like an idiot
Nah I meant most of us are born non-NT (or just sub5 facially)
not even ADHD but autism lv 1 or 2
then there are socially anxious failed normies
high inhib failed normies
but it's a minority
Depends who it is if i know them well i can sorta tell when they are emotional
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Yes exactly but the whole mental illness thing is have multiple layers and "imperfection" that somehow can be either :
A: all diognoses found in one person
B: none can be found in anyone
I'm really having hard time translate my thoughts into words however what I mean to say is people are either mentally ill and exhibit all diognoses (autism OCD social anexity deppression etc...) or they are perfectly fine
YES we do. we just arent good at showing empathy, doesnt mean we dont have any.
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We all display emotion no one is "unemotional"
i sort of can most of the time but just dont care . i dont make any effort to appear neurotypical
I can recognize it when it is very obvious
If there are tears on their face they are sad
If they are yelling they are mad
Beyond that IDK
If they are yelling they are mad
Beyond that IDK
this describes it pretty well tbh ahahaha.
I can see that someone is sad, but what do you want me to do, cry?
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Sometimes when someone wants something from you they either start to flater you or they talk about it throughout the conversation aka hinting or when someone tells you to fuck off using body language short answars or when someone is excited about something etc...
I usually get mad when people around me are sad. Idk why
This. Plus I don't really look for emotional facial cues and things like that, at least not automatically.
If I went out of my way I could probably recognize it more easily.
I don't even make eye contact with normies, they will steal your soul
nigga thats what i saidSocial anxiety isn't autism.
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Tbh I don't feel any empathy, that must be a blackpilled autistcel trait
Right. Duh.
When someone cries idk how to act I cant bring myself to act like I care because im not a fakeass normiedroid
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Sometimes I'm oblivious to what were supposed to be "obvious" displays. Other times, I can tell something is off, but don't usually know how to react. If someone is upset over something, and I can tell they're acting differently, I may hesitantly continue as I normally do as I don't know what they're getting at. Or I might ask them if something is wrong, which usually leads to them saying, "Everything's fine," but in an emotional way, or flat-out getting angry.
Of course, if I'm upset or feeling blue, no one returns the favor. In fact, they may chastise me for having emotion. Normies love to talk about "setting boundaries." Like, "I felt upset. You didn't pick up on it and crossed MY boundary." In my experience, "boundary" is just a buzz word for "I have every right to treat you like shit because I'm in a bad mood and you didn't magically know how to do what I wanted you to do, therefore, I'm justified in anger or hostility toward you." But these same people seemingly don't think I'm entitled to "boundaries" of my own.
Of course, if I'm upset or feeling blue, no one returns the favor. In fact, they may chastise me for having emotion. Normies love to talk about "setting boundaries." Like, "I felt upset. You didn't pick up on it and crossed MY boundary." In my experience, "boundary" is just a buzz word for "I have every right to treat you like shit because I'm in a bad mood and you didn't magically know how to do what I wanted you to do, therefore, I'm justified in anger or hostility toward you." But these same people seemingly don't think I'm entitled to "boundaries" of my own.
bro i didnt know u could talk normally
few days ago he posted blacked porn
Heres the thing: trying to memorize body language never works. You either understand it at first glance or you wildly misinterpret things through guessing.
I think like 40% of this forum is able to ascend, if it wasn´t for their mental retardation. A good amount on here is Low Tier normie and some even Mid-tier I guess
basically I can notice of course when something has changed and stuff.
But I dont know how to react to it.
Let's say I notice someone is trying to be nice to me somehow (speaking slow, smiling bla bla)
but i just dont feel it. Usually people want you to instintively give back that emotion,
but i can not do that.
And thats very painful.
The way I express empathy is by being helpful and constructive, I like to give people information and stuff.
But the way normies express empathy is by showing emotions and sucking up each others emotions. To me thats offensive and feels patronizing.
But to them my way also feels invalidating because when i try to offer solutions, it sounds like I am questioning their feelings.
And I cant fake emotions, its impossible.
Reading the emotions themselves is like 50/50. Often I have to ask the person how they feel or if they are bored or something, because I can not tell. I also dont look at people while talking to them, so i cant read them that way either.
But I dont know how to react to it.
Let's say I notice someone is trying to be nice to me somehow (speaking slow, smiling bla bla)
but i just dont feel it. Usually people want you to instintively give back that emotion,
but i can not do that.
And thats very painful.
The way I express empathy is by being helpful and constructive, I like to give people information and stuff.
But the way normies express empathy is by showing emotions and sucking up each others emotions. To me thats offensive and feels patronizing.
But to them my way also feels invalidating because when i try to offer solutions, it sounds like I am questioning their feelings.
And I cant fake emotions, its impossible.
Reading the emotions themselves is like 50/50. Often I have to ask the person how they feel or if they are bored or something, because I can not tell. I also dont look at people while talking to them, so i cant read them that way either.
Im low tier normie with autism I can't ascend
And I think it for the bottom 5-10% of man it never began
We are the bottom trash of society
Yes, I recognize emotions.
I don't care about them because I've been rendered subhuman garbage.
I don't care about them because I've been rendered subhuman garbage.
someone should videotape me in public and tell me what I'm doing wrong because I can't figure it out.
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Yes I do understand body language it just I have a hard time reacting to the satuation esp if it was a friendly gesture, I was wondering if you boys feel the same...
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This is what I meant and I couldn't say it better myself
Thinking about it, I'm guilty of that tbh
It's funny how normies use morality as a cover to their true nature, and then proceed to accuse us of everything they are guilty of either case you are right,
Handsome= wow how understanding
Ugly= le boundries have been crossed
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Normies can't comprehend real empathy the average normie is a psychopath by nature and the patronizing part is right, it is more about validating each other regardless of the truth.
Thinking about it orbiters use that stuff thinking it will get them inside the panties, it's never about the truth but rather the benefit of validation in order to achieve certain personal goals and the other party often recognize this but they enjoy the attention
No just the authistic
yeah ive noticed that larping is a primary way the use to get through life
like projecting is huge with them, confirmation bias etc.
i mean autistic people also have these, but there is some evidence that autistic people use fewer of these "heuristic" tools in day to day reasoning.
If you look at movies, or culture in general, you see a lot of symbolic language, which often is the same as larping. Idk how to express this well, but for example how people dress up for a job, and different for other social occasions. You are expressing different things through intentionally displaying a certain behavior or vibe.
The problem with autism is that autistic people dont do this, but others will still interpret all their behavior like that. Everything we say or do is interpreted as "intentional."
For example if an autistic person has messy hair or clothes, they will assume they are doing that intentionally.
But the autist may just not care as long as his clothes are still functional.
I took me until my 20s to realize that normies pay attention to tiny details of your appearance. Like, if your sleeve has like a little thread sticking out, they notice that.
Another example I can think off is when you avoid people. They always interpret that as me hating them or something. But I just don't care honestly. Also facial expressions, same thing. You are often supposed to fake smile out of courtesy for others. I can't fake emotions. But because they can, they assume I can too. And so, when I don't smile, they assume I am frowning on purpose to fuck with them.
It's annoying and I wish people were just straight forward and honest. Like if someone told me to my face what they feel or want, I would love that.
If I'm paying attention to the keyboard, I can figure out your password pretty easily.
Too bad I don't do that often.
Same for body language.
Too bad I don't do that often.
Same for body language.
I cAn read emotion pretty well but I know that no matter what I do I will be seen as a retard and people will criticise me so I don't really say much to people. I just keep it minimal. I can't help them anyways I am basically useless to people now
I can't always tell the exact emotion (unless it's extremely obvious) but option 1 is the closest
giga-autist trait tbh
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