You know, I'm reading this very popular book, the subtle art of not giving a fuck. It's a good book, not the best out there, but it has a nice message.
It basically says:
"If you have a problem, just accept it and try finding a way of solving it. Running away from your problems is only going to create an endless vicious hellish cycle. Life is nothing but a continuous stream of problems, and in order to achieve true happiness we must overcome them. Hiding, running away, suppressing or doing anything of the sorts to get rid of a problem might give you a quick sensation of well-being, but in the end you'll only sweep your problems to under the carpet, and that'll eventually blow up on your face."
and
"The craving for positive feelings is, in fact, a bad necessity. As much as accepting a negative feeling is, indeed, a positive experience. The more you want to look good, the uglier you feel. The more you want to be rich, the poorer you feel. This is known as the "Reverse effort law", which is a concept proposed by philosopher mr. Alan Watts."
Anyways, it's a good book. Basically MGTOWS would be doing as the book suggests if this was their reasoning:
"Women don't want us, therefore, let us use that as an excuse to separate us from women."
Instead their reasoning is:
"Women are weird and bad, let's separate."
idk if it makes sense or not, I just wrote what came to my mind.