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r/socialskills•7 yr. ago
Strai8tShot14
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-Always had acquaintances. Whether it was class, a volunteer place (hospital, offices), or a work setting. Never had a person ever genuinely like me. I was always just tolerated (based on how interested they were in asking me about myself).
-High school: graduated valedictorian, so people knew who I was, but I was never liked. Just tolerated as someone people talked to at school. I talked to people in class and bullshited before and after, but no one ever say "Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend."
-College: Commuted from home (Pretty fuckin' stupid considering I had no friends in high school). This was pretty much the same thing, talked to some people in class, nothing after class ended.
I literally don't know how to make friends/be a person that has enough value to where people want to be my friend.
What I'd like to know is how you made friends in high school and college? (Real friends not acquaintances)
How often do you guys/girls (social successful ones or otherwise) initiate approaching people/asking to hanging out?
It seems ridiculous that I'm the one who has the responsibility to lead everything. If that were true, shy people would have no friends. We know that this isn't true, so something is inherently wrong with me.
Would appreciate any feedback or input. thanks!!
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r/socialskills•7 yr. ago
Strai8tShot14
I've never had a single friend in my life. wtf is wrong with me?
23M
-Always had acquaintances. Whether it was class, a volunteer place (hospital, offices), or a work setting. Never had a person ever genuinely like me. I was always just tolerated (based on how interested they were in asking me about myself).
-High school: graduated valedictorian, so people knew who I was, but I was never liked. Just tolerated as someone people talked to at school. I talked to people in class and bullshited before and after, but no one ever say "Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend."
-College: Commuted from home (Pretty fuckin' stupid considering I had no friends in high school). This was pretty much the same thing, talked to some people in class, nothing after class ended.
- Not sure if it's the way I look (I'm a virgin who has literally zero experience with girls). Maybe I'm simply physically repulsive, resulting in NO ONE (girls, guys, wild animals, mystical creatures) ever starting conversations with me.
I literally don't know how to make friends/be a person that has enough value to where people want to be my friend.
What I'd like to know is how you made friends in high school and college? (Real friends not acquaintances)
How often do you guys/girls (social successful ones or otherwise) initiate approaching people/asking to hanging out?
It seems ridiculous that I'm the one who has the responsibility to lead everything. If that were true, shy people would have no friends. We know that this isn't true, so something is inherently wrong with me.
Would appreciate any feedback or input. thanks!!
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