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Experiment [Poll] For those who are against escortcelling: Why?

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Why are you against going to an escort to? And are you against other incels seeing escorts?

  • Don't like that women who despise us get to make money of our suffering

    Votes: 22 59.5%
  • Shy / Too high inhib

    Votes: 14 37.8%
  • Ashamed of my body / Expecting to get hurt by the foid's reaction to my physique

    Votes: 10 27.0%
  • Worried about a scam / police / disease

    Votes: 18 48.6%
  • Too expensive.

    Votes: 22 59.5%
  • Second Question: Personal preferance

    Votes: 6 16.2%
  • Second Question: Against other incels doing it

    Votes: 6 16.2%

  • Total voters
    37
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And is it just about personal preferance for you or do you care if other incels see escorts as well?
 
Checked all the options regarding the first question. But in particular it's this one for me:
Don't like that women who despise us get to make money of our suffering
As for the second i don't really care about what other incels do tbh. Whatever helps you cope i guess.
 
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I will do the most honorable thing and delete my account here if I have sex with an escort.
 
Checked all the options regarding the first question. But in particular it's this one:
Yeah, that one also affects me the most, even more than my inhibitions and fear of being judged for my physical shortcomings. I'm in the process of hiring my first escort and during the search for the right one I was crushed by the absurd unfairness of it all everytime I saw the prices these whores can demand for 1 or 2 hours of work.
 
I think every brocel should do as they please in this regard, but the reason I personally don't care to see an escort ain't listed -- I just don't feel the need to have sex with someone when the feeling ain't really mutual. Also I'd probably be too high inhib were I to actually want it.
 
I think every brocel should do as they please in this regard, but the reason I personally don't care to see an escort ain't listed -- I just don't feel the need to have sex with someone when the feeling ain't really mutual. Also I'd probably be too high inhib were I to actually want it.
Guess that is an option I missed, my desire for sex is so intense I didn't consider it might not be that way for some of us
 
Maybe I shouldn't have given unlimited votes, seems like they all apply for everyone :feelstastyman:
 
When VR AI sex bots become a thing, I'll no longer see escorts. It's not worth the money and risk of getting caught by police or given bad service from lazy entitled whores.
 
When VR AI sex bots become a thing, I'll no longer see escorts. It's not worth the money and risk of getting caught by police or given bad service from lazy entitled whores.
Where I'm at it's legal, though I do worry about getting bad service by lazy whores. Any tip on avoiding those?
 
Where I'm at it's legal, though I do worry about getting bad service by lazy whores. Any tip on avoiding those?
The only way is to be aggressive and show no signs of weakness. No being respectful or nice. Don't pay up front. You have to make her fear you.
 
i dont hate escortcellers like I used to, but nothing about it adds up to me to be worth it-- the entire environment is incredibly low trust. It's like hiring a drug dealer to do surgery
 

Why are you against going to an escort to? And are you against other incels seeing escorts?​


I am against going to an escort because it goes against my values. Also I think it's gross to have sex with escorts because they have fucked hundreds or thousands of men before. Furthermore, sex with an escort is not a substitute for real love and intimacy with a woman, which is what I seek.

I am not against other incels seeing escorts. To each their own. But IMO, incels who have easy access to escorts and can afford the habit aren't incels in the truest sense of the word.
 
All of the above tbh
 
Ban escorts and give us state mandated stacies
 
every nigger who pays a hooker is part of the problem
 
I think that escorts can bring 'bad luck' for someone and became a trap if you are too attached to sex with hookers.
However, main cause is that I'm ashamed of my body.
 
I'm a virgin, never had sex, don't know how to fuck at all.
Might even cry during it.
 
I'm a virgin, never had sex, don't know how to fuck at all.
Might even cry during it.
Don't know where you live, but there is something called a "sexual companion", at least here in Germany. These women specialise in payed sex with e.g. disabled people, but they usually also do normal escort stuff on the side and are used to autistic and shy clients from what I can tell. I plan on using one of these for my own first time. Maybe look into it a bit, if prostitution is illegal where you are at, consider switching countries or doing it on a holyday visit somewhere in europe. Should plan everything out before hand though, it has taken me forever to find the right girl. Many of them are super old, or absurdly unattractive, or have insane prices, and so on.
 
i dont hate escortcellers like I used to, but nothing about it adds up to me to be worth it-- the entire environment is incredibly low trust. It's like hiring a drug dealer to do surgery
Think this might be more true in America, where prostitution is legal you can find all kinds of women doing it. Under such circumstances you could probably find a girl through trial and error, sooner or later, who at least makes you feel good when you are with her and then become a regular customer of hers, which will build some kind of trust / familiarity between you two over time.
 
The only way is to be aggressive and show no signs of weakness. No being respectful or nice. Don't pay up front. You have to make her fear you.
Kek, I'm way too autistic for that, 0% chance. I think I will try differend approaches and see what I can make work, I suspect me trying to be aggressive and imposing will mostly have comedic value for w/e girl I try it on.
 
Its illegal in some countries and many incels don't have the means to travel to other countries. To allow escourtcels is to reward people for being born in a particular country and have the means to do so.
 
The majority of escort are either very old or very ugly. The ones that are not require ridicolous amount of money, that I don't have.

And also the majority of them ghost me, when i request them to send their face, before i use their "service".
 
I'm not against it, I just don't believe it's really worth it. I'm also too insecure, I don't think they would even agree to fucking me
plus it's illegal here to buy sex, not illegal to sell though from what I know
 
I guess I'll go with too expensive, but obviously it's deeper than that, which I have already mentioned before. Foids being able to commodify sex without any social cost causes a great power imbalance between men and foids. The expensiveness is an obvious consequence of that
 
Don't like that women who despise us get to make money of our suffering
 
I checked all options.

First, most escorts hate us but try to manipulate us into spending a lot of money. For me, the problem isn't even that they despise us, but that they try to manipulate and abuse us for monetary gain. Maybe this could actually be a separate point: I don't go because I risk being lied to and that's something I cannot really stomach.

Then, I am a bit too shy. First, the atmosphere in an e.g. brothel is ... kinda not the atmosphere I think I would go for. I do crave sex, but mainly for intimacy reasons, not necessarily to bang a hot girl. I think brothels mainly cater to the latter group of clients, not the former. I also worry about what people will think of me when I go to escorts.

Also, I am ashamed of my body. I would like to not give her a horrible experience but I am ugly and overweight and have a small dick so sex with me is abysmal anyway but she probably still would feel a lot of pressure to fake being into it ... I don't want to do that to anyone. I don't really think she would reject me though, honestly. They want money and I think they accept most safe and hygienic clients.

While I am not worried about the police - it's legal here - I am worried about being e.g. set up for a robbery. I am also worried about disease, I am worried about that in general, especially since Covid. Unfortunately, most of the sex acts I crave most like kissing also pose a significant infection risk, so a tough choice ...

Then, it's too expensive. I don't have a that high income, so I could probably only afford 1-2 hours per month at most ...


But I have no moral issue with it, so I think it should be everyone's choice. All of the reasons I don't go at the moment are personal reasons, not moral reasons. If other people judge things differently, then that's great. And in fact, I thought of going to an escort, so well, maybe I will someday.
 

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