Please help. I can't stop messaging the foid that rejected me

[ihatelife2]

Me: Hey
I shouldn't message you because it will be hard to get over you but it's hard not to, idk if these feelings will pass because I have known you for a long time and other people that I told you about, I only knew them for one day so I didn't have strong feelings
I at first thought I could get over you right away but it will be hard, I was not planning on being like this

Actually I stopped thinking you in February a lot because I knew you weren't interested but the problem is when you said you dreamed about me I thought you liked me so I started imagining us being together and how life would be if you had feelings for me and I actually thought you might feel the same way
For example today I was imagining telling you about stuff (just daily life) if we were together and how you would know me and appreciate me unlike other people that I have met, I'm not sure how to get these thoughts and imaginations out of my head and it is probably wrong of me to tell you, the main problem is I got carried away thinking you might feel the same way
I guess it's possible I might look for someone like you but I want to be with you and not with them (I'm not asking you, you already said no and I'm not a stalker) this is very difficult, wish I could disappear so that thoughts of you would disappear also

Help me boyos this is my first time having feelings for someone, before I just approached random people that I didn't know or dating apps. I am seriously considering roping and ending my life to take the pain away I can't stop imagining how it would have been if she had said yes. Please help me boyos I am not ok mentally I'm on the verge of quitting my job and leaving this place please help

 

[retributor]

send her a picture of herself in her room

 

[ihatelife2]

send her a picture of herself in her room

Lmao

 

[spud_tard]

Sorry to tell you, but if she rejected you, there no going back

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Sorry to tell you, but if she rejected you, there no going back

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Accept the pursuit is futile.

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

dnr

 

[Erenincel]

This is what a loneliness do to you. She didn't want you, so you shouldn't care about her in any way. God damn her. I know it's hard, but try to redirect your emotions. Instead of falling in love with her, start feeding your hatred.

 

[whiteboyhair]

I don’t have any good advice to give you. I’ve been stuck on my oneitis for the past four years also. She’s like a dead person. You have to mourn her. Time heals all wounds. Please don’t rope

 

[Codependency]

Sorry to tell you, but if she rejected you, there no going back

This.

Plus we’re just a joke to these rotten whores.

Someone to dump all their bullshit onto then once they feel better they run off to get fucked and abused by Chad until they can’t take their beating or emotional abuse anymore then they find another bozo like us to repeat the cycle with all over again lather, rinse, repeat.

Don’t even bother trying for love if you’re an ugly male.

Rent whores or buy dolls like ol @Dollfucker instead.

Much better investment of your time and money.

 

[ihatelife2]

This is what a loneliness do to you. She didn't want you, so you shouldn't care about her in any way. God damn her. I know it's hard, but try to redirect your emotions. Instead of falling in love with her, start feeding your hatred.

You're right, I'll try to repeat to myself she doesn't care so that hopefully it sinks in

I don’t have any good advice to give you. I’ve been stuck on my oneitis for the past four years also. She’s like a dead person. You have to mourn her. Time heals all wounds. Please don’t rope

Wow that is very brutal. Are you feeling better now than you are at the start of the 4 years? Thanks very much for caring I know I said this on another post but you are a good person

This.

Plus we’re just a joke to these rotten whores.

Someone to dump all their bullshit onto then once they feel better they run off to get fucked and abused by Chad until they can’t take their beating or emotional abuse anymore then they find another bozo like us to repeat the cycle with all over again lather, rinse, repeat.

Don’t even bother trying for love if you’re an ugly male.

Rent whores or buy dolls like ol @Dollfucker instead.

Much better investment of your time and money.

I need to feel love though that's why dolls and escortmaxxing wouldn't work for me

Lol chad

 

[whiteboyhair]

Wow that is very brutal. Are you feeling better now than you are at the start of the 4 years? Thanks very much for caring I know I said this on another post but you are a good person

Yes, I would say my infatuation with her was lessened over the years. I haven’t seen her in months also, which is good. Even seeing her one more time with her boyfriend would probably drive me into a jealous rage and make me lose all hope in life.

 

[HeightpillVictim]

Don’t feel bad if you feel rejected now, but the best thing you can do right now is leave her became if she already rejected you she would want you only as a friend and will play with you sometimes. Is up to you but that is my advice

 

[ihatelife2]

Yes, I would say my infatuation with her was lessened over the years. I haven’t seen her in months also, which is good. Even seeing her one more time with her boyfriend would probably drive me into a jealous rage and make me lose all hope in life.

Oh god seeing her with her bf sounds absolutely brutal

Don’t feel bad if you feel rejected now, but the best thing you can do right now is leave her became if she already rejected you she would want you only as a friend and will play with you sometimes. Is up to you but that is my advice

Thank you mang

 

[Icarus]

This.

Plus we’re just a joke to these rotten whores.

Someone to dump all their bullshit onto then once they feel better they run off to get fucked and abused by Chad until they can’t take their beating or emotional abuse anymore then they find another bozo like us to repeat the cycle with all over again lather, rinse, repeat.

Don’t even bother trying for love if you’re an ugly male.

Rent whores or buy dolls like ol @Dollfucker instead.

Much better investment of your time and money.

 

[The Judge]

By messaging her, you are only stroking her ego providing her with (more) unnecessary validation.

Why would she suddenly change her mind after already rejecting you? This is not some romantic comedy where the plucky male lead manages to finally win over his love interest through years of perseverance—this is real life. You are just one of the dozens of men messaging her.

As someone who had his fair share of "oneitises" in the past, my advice to you is to take whatever hope you might have out back and put it out of its misery.

 

[deadcells]

i think i did something similar like this but she blocked me very quickly. social media apps give females every tool in their disposal to torture you. i felt horrible and for a whole week i felt like my chest was blown through, but after awhile I grew numb and wanted to ignore the fact I ever talked to such a vile person with so much effort. point is, dont beat yourself up over it, because you are doing the job for her. sounds like complete bullshit to forget ik but thats all you can do.

 

[ihatelife2]

i think i did something similar like this but she blocked me very quickly. social media apps give females every tool in their disposal to torture you. i felt horrible and for a whole week i felt like my chest was blown through, but after awhile I grew numb and wanted to ignore the fact I ever talked to such a vile person with so much effort. point is, dont beat yourself up over it, because you are doing the job for her. sounds like complete bullshit to forget ik but thats all you can do.

Wow it would be great if after a week I'll just start feeling better that gives me hope

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Why would she suddenly change her mind after already rejecting you? This is not some romantic comedy where the plucky male lead manages to finally win over his love interest through years of perseverance—this is real life. You are just one of the dozens of men messaging her.

John Hughes should be drawn and quartered for the millions of males he mentally misled.

 

[ihatelife2]

By messaging her, you are only stroking her ego providing her with (more) unnecessary validation.

Why would she suddenly change her mind after already rejecting you? This is not some romantic comedy where the plucky male lead manages to finally win over his love interest through years of perseverance—this is real life. You are just one of the dozens of men messaging her.

As someone who had his fair share of "oneitises" in the past, my advice to you is to take whatever hope you might have out back and put it out of its misery.

I'm not messaging her to get her to be with me, I know she's not interested, I'm messaging her because I have strong feelings and it makes me feel better but I know it's harassment

 

[The Judge]

John Hughes should be drawn and quartered for the millions of males he mentally misled.

Absolutely.

"If I show her how much I love her, maybe she'll choose me instead of that abusive jerk!"

 

[INVERTER]

Me: Hey
I shouldn't message you because it will be hard to get over you but it's hard not to, idk if these feelings will pass because I have known you for a long time and other people that I told you about, I only knew them for one day so I didn't have strong feelings
I at first thought I could get over you right away but it will be hard, I was not planning on being like this

Actually I stopped thinking you in February a lot because I knew you weren't interested but the problem is when you said you dreamed about me I thought you liked me so I started imagining us being together and how life would be if you had feelings for me and I actually thought you might feel the same way
For example today I was imagining telling you about stuff (just daily life) if we were together and how you would know me and appreciate me unlike other people that I have met, I'm not sure how to get these thoughts and imaginations out of my head and it is probably wrong of me to tell you, the main problem is I got carried away thinking you might feel the same way
I guess it's possible I might look for someone like you but I want to be with you and not with them (I'm not asking you, you already said no and I'm not a stalker) this is very difficult, wish I could disappear so that thoughts of you would disappear also

Help me boyos this is my first time having feelings for someone, before I just approached random people that I didn't know or dating apps. I am seriously considering roping and ending my life to take the pain away I can't stop imagining how it would have been if she had said yes. Please help me boyos I am not ok mentally I'm on the verge of quitting my job and leaving this place please help

You sound young. Don't worry once you get past mid twenties, all your romanticism will be gone. You will cease to have feelings and begin to see humans as just faulty machines. NEVER write a long screed like this to a woman.

 

[cathuluelitist]

Me: Hey
I shouldn't message you because it will be hard to get over you but it's hard not to, idk if these feelings will pass because I have known you for a long time and other people that I told you about, I only knew them for one day so I didn't have strong feelings
I at first thought I could get over you right away but it will be hard, I was not planning on being like this

Actually I stopped thinking you in February a lot because I knew you weren't interested but the problem is when you said you dreamed about me I thought you liked me so I started imagining us being together and how life would be if you had feelings for me and I actually thought you might feel the same way
For example today I was imagining telling you about stuff (just daily life) if we were together and how you would know me and appreciate me unlike other people that I have met, I'm not sure how to get these thoughts and imaginations out of my head and it is probably wrong of me to tell you, the main problem is I got carried away thinking you might feel the same way
I guess it's possible I might look for someone like you but I want to be with you and not with them (I'm not asking you, you already said no and I'm not a stalker) this is very difficult, wish I could disappear so that thoughts of you would disappear also

Help me boyos this is my first time having feelings for someone, before I just approached random people that I didn't know or dating apps. I am seriously considering roping and ending my life to take the pain away I can't stop imagining how it would have been if she had said yes. Please help me boyos I am not ok mentally I'm on the verge of quitting my job and leaving this place please help

Enable the chase. Just ignore her and make yourself simultaneously valuable and she'll come along. You can try to sabotage her to speed up the process. (Note: this only works if you're at a certain height and looks threshold of course)

 

[cathuluelitist]

Absolutely.

"If I show her how much I love her, maybe she'll choose me instead of that abusive jerk!"

Brutal.

 

[cathuluelitist]

By messaging her, you are only stroking her ego providing her with (more) unnecessary validation.

Why would she suddenly change her mind after already rejecting you? This is not some romantic comedy where the plucky male lead manages to finally win over his love interest through years of perseverance—this is real life. You are just one of the dozens of men messaging her.

As someone who had his fair share of "oneitises" in the past, my advice to you is to take whatever hope you might have out back and put it out of its misery.

Exactly this. Enable the Chase.

 

[Wither]

Well...

 

[cathuluelitist]

Don’t feel bad if you feel rejected now, but the best thing you can do right now is leave her became if she already rejected you she would want you only as a friend and will play with you sometimes. Is up to you but that is my advice

Leave her then sabotage her and you'll have a higher value to her.

 

[abrahamlarpwys]

dnr

theres no paragraph for your face boyo

 

[The Judge]

I'm not messaging her to get her to be with me, I know she's not interested, I'm messaging her because I have strong feelings and it makes me feel better but I know it's harassment

Still. By indulging in your feelings, you are only giving her power over you while harming yourself in the long-run.

I am telling you this solely from the goodness of my heart, as I know how dangerous a "oneitis" can be for one's mental health. I was nearly driven to suicide on multiple occasions due to my obsesssion with foids who viewed me as one would view an ant crushed beneath the sole of their boot.

Whatever you decide to do, I still wish you all the best.

 

[spud_tard]

Well...

whats wrong with you

 

[Wither]

whats wrong with you

?

 

[ihatelife2]

You sound young. Don't worry once you get past mid twenties, all your romanticism will be gone. You will cease to have feelings and begin to see humans as just faulty machines. NEVER write a long screed like this to a woman.

I'm in late 30s

Still. By indulging in your feelings, you are only giving her power over you while harming yourself in the long-run.

I am telling you this solely from the goodness of my heart, as I know how dangerous a "oneitis" can be for one's mental health. I was nearly driven to suicide on multiple occasions due to my obsesssion with foids who viewed me as one would view an ant crushed beneath the sole of their boot.

Whatever you decide to do, I still wish you all the best.

This is very brutal and very terrifying foids had so much power over you completely damaging your mental health I'm sorry brocel

 

[spud_tard]

?

okay he made a naive post, but why are you mocking him?

 

[Wither]

okay he made a naive post, but why are you mocking him?

Im not, it was a joke. If it came across like that then i didnt mean that.

 

[spud_tard]

Im not, it was a joke. If it came across like that then i didnt mean that.

ah sorry I'm autistic I take everything seriously

 

[INVERTER]

I'm in late 30s

This is very brutal and very terrifying foids had so much power over you completely damaging your mental health I'm sorry brocel

No offense but I am shocked someone your age is still capable of having any sort of hope in another person

 

[The Judge]

This is very brutal and very terrifying foids had so much power over you completely damaging your mental health I'm sorry brocel

Thank you, friend.

 

[SewerGoat]

I don't know where to begin. The stuff you write to foids is a major red flag. Don't get me wrong - sure maybe Chad could get away with it but not you. I'd hiss the white flag, bro. Let it go. Just don't message her again. If she wants you, she's going to text you anyways.

 

[LusER]

Stop messaging her. Giving her validation for just existing. She rejected you. Try to find copes for slowly forgetting your oneitis

 

[St3v3Cel]

I am seriously considering roping and ending my life to take the pain away I can't stop imagining how it would have been if she had said yes. Please help me boyos I am not ok mentally I'm on the verge of quitting my job and leaving this place please help

You should start coping with Christianity or religion. It is the best way to keep suicidal impulses at bay. Do not ever commit suicide on an impulse brocel. You don't need to read or research the Bible, though that can of course help. The crucial part is that you have to start praying, do one prayer before you go to sleep each night. Pray for yourself, and others. Say that you are thankful for your life and ask for forgiveness for your sins. Pray for strength to survive each day. Remember, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit".

I am not Christian but this is what helped me when I was having suicidal impulses. I prayed for faith as well. Remember the cycles I spoke about with you previously. Do this until you are feeling better again, no matter how hopeless it feels. Once you feel better again you can dismiss Christianity and go back to living regularly again. If you start to truly believe you can take that as the devil in me speaking, but I do not think that it makes sense for a truecel to be a devout follower of religion. That is neither here or there for now though. Hope it works out for you brocel. The world we live in is too harsh.

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

I'm always careful while messaging w*men, they are very volatile and inconsistent but they are still filtering chads, normies and inkells

 

[ihatelife2]

No offense but I am shocked someone your age is still capable of having any sort of hope in another person

First fucking time a foid talked to me without disgust and hate so I fell for her

 

[ihatelife2]

I don't know where to begin. The stuff you write to foids is a major red flag. Don't get me wrong - sure maybe Chad could get away with it but not you. I'd hiss the white flag, bro. Let it go. Just don't message her again. If she wants you, she's going to text you anyways.

Haha I know not me thanks for making me laugh on a dark day. I just quit my job I am not ok

 

[ihatelife2]

You should start coping with Christianity or religion. It is the best way to keep suicidal impulses at bay. Do not ever commit suicide on an impulse brocel. You don't need to read or research the Bible, though that can of course help. The crucial part is that you have to start praying, do one prayer before you go to sleep each night. Pray for yourself, and others. Say that you are thankful for your life and ask for forgiveness for your sins. Pray for strength to survive each day. Remember, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit".

I am not Christian but this is what helped me when I was having suicidal impulses. I prayed for faith as well. Remember the cycles I spoke about with you previously. Do this until you are feeling better again, no matter how hopeless it feels. Once you feel better again you can dismiss Christianity and go back to living regularly again. If you start to truly believe you can take that as the devil in me speaking, but I do not think that it makes sense for a truecel to be a devout follower of religion. That is neither here or there for now though. Hope it works out for you brocel. The world we live in is too harsh.

Thanks very much. The problem is I was involved with the church a long time but I just couldn't bring myself to feel anything about it or to give a shit because I am too depressed to care about anything. But I appreciate you trying to help me find a cope idk maybe I'll try again to pray, before I didn't pray much just read the bible and church

 

[ihatelife2]

I'm always careful while messaging w*men, they are very volatile and inconsistent but they are still filtering chads, normies and inkells

Sorry for not reading on discord I'm not ok right now and very fragile so I need time because I am in a bad place

 

[SewerGoat]

Haha I know not me thanks for making me laugh on a dark day. I just quit my job I am not ok

Just talk to us man. Don't throw away your comfort of living for some foid and existential shit. Let's talk at your new thread

 

[ihatelife2]

Just talk to us man. Don't throw away your comfort of living for some foid and existential shit. Let's talk at your new thread

Thank you, see you there

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I have been dealing with a case of oneitis over the past 5 months.
The real term for it is Limerence. The most successful way to deal with it is going no contact and the feelings will fade.

 

[ihatelife2]

I have been dealing with a case of oneitis over the past 5 months.
The real term for it is Limerence. The most successful way to deal with it is going no contact and the feelings will fade.

Sorry you're going through it too is it online also? I blocked her a few min ago

 

[St3v3Cel]

Thanks very much. The problem is I was involved with the church a long time but I just couldn't bring myself to feel anything about it or to give a shit because I am too depressed to care about anything. But I appreciate you trying to help me find a cope idk maybe I'll try again to pray, before I didn't pray much just read the bible and church

Prayer is the most important thing. You need to put your hands together and close your eyes, do genuine, serious types of prayer like that. Say everything that you need to say to God. Prayer is the telephone to God. You can even pray for this girl of yours, and if you still don't get her you can cope that God didn't think you needed her. Things like that. Just my suggestion, that's all. I come from a country where religion is a completely alien concept, nobody believes in any religion here. That might have made it easier, or harder for me when I did it. I do not know.