Ritalincel
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Why can't these retards figure out that being involuntarily celibate isn't ideology.
Leaving this on my main account because fuck it.
For probably 10 years or so I was an "incel" and didn't realize it until I found r/foreveralone and got caught up in an echo chamber. I was constantly drinking, alone, at home, and wondering why no girls would talk to me or go out with me or even give me a phone number for the most part. I mean, fuck, was I not a nice guy? A proper gentleman? Being nice to all of these ladies and they weren't responding in a manner I felt they should because I was so nice all the time, I was doing stuff for my co-workers and they weren't appreciative enough. I'd be talking to a girl and find out they had a boyfriend and be so pissed that I was doing all this "nice" stuff for them and there was no way that they'd "return the favor by giving me a mouth hug or sexy times." Not fair, right?
Then, one day, after posting on a throwaway account I don't remember anymore, I was bitching about how this one co-worker who was leaving was such a bitch because she wouldn't respond to my advances at all and kept trying to friend zone me and I'd always be a loser and no one would ever want a guy like me because I guess I'm just too nice for my own good, right?
And some dude responded with something along the lines of "if you're only doing nice things because you think someone is going to reciprocate with sex, you may not actually be a nice person. Just a nice guy. And nice guys suck. I think they even linked, or I found soon afterwards, a website about nice guys and why what you're doing is kind of a dick move and maybe if you were just doing nice things for people because you were nice and not because you're putting nice coins into a vending lady to maybe show her how special you are you could find someone not repulsed by your overbearing, creepy antics.
So I worked on ways to be more confident in myself, improved my grooming (fat, lazy slob over here guys wondering why 8s and 10s wouldn't date smelly, sweaty me), got my haircut (I hadn't been to a barbershop in probably about 6 years at that point) and stopped treating women as some prize I had to win and more like people like me except they have boobs. And I got a girlfriend after ~1 month of that, that I still have to this day.
TL;DR I was a dick in an echo chamber that rightfully got told off when venting about what a nice guy I was, changed my shit, and am a better person now then I was 7 years ago.
the entire/r/askreddit user base needs to be gassed
Why can't these retards figure out that being involuntarily celibate isn't ideology.
@Reddit_is_for_cucksReddit is the epytome of cuckoldry
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this smells so much like an IT or feminist larping, this just has to be a larp