Personality "matters"/exists because its connected to looks

[kantero]

I dont think i should mention again that robust chads in general are robust in their character too. At the same time, nerdy geeks arent courageous enough etc. So, actually yes, if you're attractive, you can be pussy because of feminised society, but in general masculine and healthy guys are pretty masculine mentally too. I can judge because of myself, my father and other people. You can force your personality traits to change (for some percent) but that's not what we are talking about.

 

[drivebyartist]

duh.

 

[kantero]

duh.

I guess i should have tagged this topic with DAILY REMINDER

 

[Gremlincel]

tru dat

 

[VLÖ]

"You can force your personality traits to change"

How exactly? Just "believe hard enough bro"?

 

[Soul_Synarchy]

Truecels don't have personality, that stuff is for gay normies.

 

[drivebyartist]

"You can force your personality traits to change"

How exactly? Just "believe hard enough bro"?

these people aren't exactly the most intelligent beings out there. typically they're bent on the idea that our personalities can change with the snap of a finger, without something in our life improving.

it's the same shitck with "confidence" if you constantly get rejected by girls, and you're either called ugly, or never complimented on ur looks, whats gonna happen?

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Sadly, there is truth to this theory

 

[kantero]

Personality - primal reaction to actions and events in life.
Change personality example: you need to make some risky step rapidly. If you're not Chad with good hormones, you naturally wont do this. But you can try to overpower your pussyness because of lack of Testosterone etc and act like typical hero-male. BUT! We all know that overpowering =/= being risky (for example) naturally. Its always not as effective and pleasurable as it could be.

 

[Brooding Genius]

Not necessarily.

My looks used to be very good (especially when young) but now they are shot due to age. I have the same personality as I did when young and I am about as confident. Maybe even more confident.

Bottom line is personality and confidence is worthless without the looks to back them up. You can have all the personality and confidence on Earth, but if you are looks are shit, they are worth fuck all.

And some unattractive men still have good confidence and personality, especially if they lost looks due to age for instance.

But yes it is related to looks in a sense. Goodlooking guys get chicks, become Chads and develop excellent personalities and great confidence as a result.

 

[Notgoingtomakeit]

Personality is secondary trait. Looks comes first- ALWAYS...unless you have insane Status.. IE professional basket ball player with millions. Nobody will give you a time of day if you look like shit. You can have the greatest personality in the world and it won't matter.

It's like having an ugly guy talk about his slay count to your friends and you all look at each with disbelief. Nobody is gonna believe the asshole. Where as Chad could tell everyone he slayed 1000 women and you would be inclined to believe him.

 

[Limerencel]

Good looks will give a man the attention of girls during important years in his teens, and will build his personality for many years to come. But looks are always #1

 

[Evildoer]

Yes, but femoids would chase Chad, no matter what his personality is. He would be perceived as either "cute" if he is nerdy/unsocial/nice or "manly" if he is competitive/highly social/douchebag.
But your point is correct, Chad in general tend to have more manly personality traits.

 

[Blackpill101]

This. Supposed personality is connected to the halo effect. Women see ugly men as having a shitty personality because of their appearance. It's that simple.

Yes, but femoids would chase Chad, no matter what his personality is. He would be perceived as either "cute" if he is nerdy/unsocial/nice or "manly" if he is competitive/highly social/douchebag.
But your point is correct, Chad in general tend to have more manly personality traits.

Chad is always assumed to have a good personality because of the halo effect, even if he acts abusive.

 

[Evildoer]

Good looks will give a man the attention of girls during important years in his teens, and will build his personality for many years to come. But looks are always #1

Also this. From the beggining, if you're good looking people treat you best, so your confidence increases, you experience far less stress, and you naturally develop more alpha personality.

 

[Hope Less]

these people aren't exactly the most intelligent beings out there. typically they're bent on the idea that our personalities can change with the snap of a finger, without something in our life improving.

it's the same shitck with "confidence" if you constantly get rejected by girls, and you're either called ugly, or never complimented on ur looks, whats gonna happen?

Nature vs nurture

 

[Evildoer]

Chad is always assumed to have a good personality because of the halo effect, even if he acts abusive.

Yes, i will also ask you to consider that perception of same personality trait as either "good" or "bad" is different for different individuals for femoids, because of the effect you mentioned.
Shy/cowardly Chad = "awww so cute, i will be with him to protect him" for femoid
Shy/cowardly incel = "OMG what a loser weirdo, he is afraid of everything" for femoid

 

[Animeincel]

One problem is that I see alot of not good looking guys who are extremely confident and they get tons of women. Theres something else going on than pure looks for sure.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

I sold my soul to satan for a rope.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

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[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

buh but my anecdotal evidence of a ugly guy "getting" girls its something else his CONFIDENCE

 

[satoshisacuck]

One problem is that I see alot of not good looking guys who are extremely confident and they get tons of women. Theres something else going on than pure looks for sure.

Yes and its called betabuxxing, they are getting cucked in some way and those relationships do not LAST.

 

[Animeincel]

Yes and its called betabuxxing, they are getting cucked in some way and those relationships do not LAST.

No I dont agree at all, these guys are alpha as fuck and usually cheat on their girlfriend or hit her. Actually, I know more good looking guys who have been cucked than not good looking ones with alpha personalities.

Yes and its called betabuxxing, they are getting cucked in some way and those relationships do not LAST.

No I dont agree at all, these guys are alpha as fuck and usually cheat on their girlfriend or hit her. Actually, I know more good looking guys who have been cucked than not good looking ones with alpha personalities.

 

[Weirdcel]

A man's face is his autobiography. It says everything about who you are as a person.