Personality does matter somewhat though, but not in the way bluepilled people think. Being dark triad is attractive to females, although looks and height are still more important. In the same way, autism decreases your sexual market value. Read the
scientific blackpill.
I think that my autistic personality
contributes to my involuntary celibacy, even though being 5'7" is the
main reason. The thing is, that I am very boring and share nothing with neurotypicals to talk about in social settings. I am neither nice or dark triad. I am just completely apathetic and extremely introverted on top of that.
It would not matter if I were Chad, yes, but unfortunately I am not Chad, and being neurotypical is then crucial for you.