Serious People who aren't narcissistic are boring. "Personality" = narcissism

[FemaleInventionsLOL]

Think about it: Any interesting person you meet is going to be self-absorbed. If you're watching an interview with someone and you find it interesting, it's because this person has given a lot of thought to the topic you are interested in: Them.

Who the fuck cares about some selfless, self-effacing person? Nobody. That kind of person is boring to listen to. They have little to say about anything because they're too humble. Humble is boring.

So what do people mean when they say that incels need to "fix their personality" in order to make themselves more "interesting?" They mean they need to be more like Charismatic Chad; a self-absorbed person who just so happens to also be good-looking.

 

[Inceldo]

I dont find anyone i meet interesting

 

[Gengar]

I dont find anyone i meet interesting

 

[RopeMaXXer]

Dude personality is a meme. As long as you can maintain eye contact and don't smell you're not doing anything different from Chad.

Some people are indeed charismatic. I can somewhat be charismatic when I'm buzzed and know the person. But that's whatever for females

 

[Cuyen]

I dont find anyone i meet interesting

 

[Remyx]

Just be a narcissist theory

 

[Glimmer]

Who the fuck cares about some selfless, self-effacing person? Nobody. That kind of person is boring to listen to. They have little to say about anything because they're too humble. Humble is boring.

So what do people mean when they say that incels need to "fix their personality" in order to make themselves more "interesting?" They mean they need to be more like Charismatic Chad; a self-absorbed person who just so happens to also be good-looking.

The only reason those people can be "confident" and "interesting" is because they have looks that allow them to express that and feel comfortable. When you are constantly beaten down for looking ugly compared to other people how could you be expected to be "interesting" when no one wants anything to do with you just because of the way you look.

If this was a just world we would consider meek, friendly people to be good even if they are ugly but this is a world where you based off of how you look. It is so very hard but I try to be a good person despite the fact I can never be truly accepted by society and that's only because of features of me I cannot control.