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People used to gaslight me that I'm alone because I should wait for foids to come up to me

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They said these days foids don't like traditional roles so it turns them off if a man approaches them. They said if I waited for foids to approach me I would have had a gf so it's my own fault.

Oh sure, foids were so in love with me but just because I said hi to them, all their feelings went away.

Foids never have approached me in my life!

Has anyone else been gaslit in this way?
 
anything you do is creepy
 
I used to hear that a lot from normscum, too. I even believed it for a short time until I saw the opposite with a school friend.
 
They said these days foids don't like traditional roles so it turns them off if a man approaches them.
Chad can look and her, make her wet with his hunter eyes and 90% of the work is done, all he need now is approach and say " Hi " and the deal is sealed
 
Chad can look and her, make her wet with his hunter eyes and 90% of the work is done, all he need now is approach and say " Hi " and the deal is sealed
Exactly. They can just exist
 
Nobody approaches irl anymore, it's all about dating apps. If you get nothing on dating apps, foids don't want anything to do with you irl either.
 
Nobody approaches irl anymore, it's all about dating apps. If you get nothing on dating apps, foids don't want anything to do with you irl either.
I don't get anything on dating apps, within days I run out of people in my area without any matches
 
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just wait theory
 
I'm naturally on that mode, waiting for something that is never going to happen because I wouldn't dare ever approaching a foid, saves me the humiliation and the time.
 
They're right as in you don't need to approach women or to try because every normie and Chad got a gf by simply existing 9/10.

Problem is that we're too ugly for that, so we're automatically locked out of it.
 
They're right as in you don't need to approach women or to try because every normie and Chad got a gf by simply existing 9/10.

Problem is that we're too ugly for that, so we're automatically locked out of it.
True. We could walk past foids all day long and they would only want to run from us
 
They said these days foids don't like traditional roles so it turns them off if a man approaches them. They said if I waited for foids to approach me I would have had a gf so it's my own fault.

Oh sure, foids were so in love with me but just because I said hi to them, all their feelings went away.

Foids never have approached me in my life!

Has anyone else been gaslit in this way?
yes, and I hate when they do this. like how thw fuck do i suppose to look to be approachable?????? genuinely just stfu
 
They're right

Females approach and have for some time

Looks are the only thing and they're effectively saying you're ugly subhuman
 
They're right

Females approach and have for some time

Looks are the only thing and they're effectively saying you're ugly subhuman
They said if I didn't approach, foids would approach me. Uh, no :feelsPop:
 
i have been approached twice in my life and both were pranks. honestly its so fucking brutal to think about
 
They said these days foids don't like traditional roles so it turns them off if a man approaches them. They said if I waited for foids to approach me I would have had a gf so it's my own fault.

Oh sure, foids were so in love with me but just because I said hi to them, all their feelings went away.

Foids never have approached me in my life!

Has anyone else been gaslit in this way?
Everyday, IT and bluepiller cucks will try any way to avoid the fact that looks height are all that truly matters
 
That's brutal what did they say
well first time i was in middle school and it was just a run of the mill prank, where a girl came up to me saying she would like to date me, "youre cute" etc and i could obviously see her friends laughing on the other side of the gym. and i knew it was a prank so i told her no so she just said "thats why youre just an ugly loner." (i was legit new to the school too like wtf) i didnt care about her doing that but one of her friends was a girl i had a crush on and ofc it hurt more cause of that

another was in hs when i was a senior. me and a buddy were at the toms burgers and these girls were just giggling at the other table and i obv knew they were hs girls and one of them said "youre cute" at first they were talking about my buddy but they said "no u" and pointed at me i was like "thank you" and they just burst out laughing more. to this day i dont know if it was a prank if it was real and i was just interpreting it wrong idk

its not like literal end of the world shit but it adds up.... all of it does
 
well first time i was in middle school and it was just a run of the mill prank, where a girl came up to me saying she would like to date me, "youre cute" etc and i could obviously see her friends laughing on the other side of the gym. and i knew it was a prank so i told her no so she just said "thats why youre just an ugly loner." (i was legit new to the school too like wtf) i didnt care about her doing that but one of her friends was a girl i had a crush on and ofc it hurt more cause of that

another was in hs when i was a senior. me and a buddy were at the toms burgers and these girls were just giggling at the other table and i obv knew they were hs girls and one of them said "youre cute" at first they were talking about my buddy but they said "no u" and pointed at me i was like "thank you" and they just burst out laughing more. to this day i dont know if it was a prank if it was real and i was just interpreting it wrong idk

its not like literal end of the world shit but it adds up.... all of it does
Wow yeah that is fucked up and it does add up I feel you.
 
well first time i was in middle school and it was just a run of the mill prank, where a girl came up to me saying she would like to date me, "youre cute" etc and i could obviously see her friends laughing on the other side of the gym. and i knew it was a prank so i told her no so she just said "thats why youre just an ugly loner." (i was legit new to the school too like wtf) i didnt care about her doing that but one of her friends was a girl i had a crush on and ofc it hurt more cause of that

another was in hs when i was a senior. me and a buddy were at the toms burgers and these girls were just giggling at the other table and i obv knew they were hs girls and one of them said "youre cute" at first they were talking about my buddy but they said "no u" and pointed at me i was like "thank you" and they just burst out laughing more. to this day i dont know if it was a prank if it was real and i was just interpreting it wrong idk

its not like literal end of the world shit but it adds up.... all of it does
Yeah idk maybe they laughed out of embarrassment
 
Yeah idk maybe they laughed out of embarrassment
maybe youre right, but i mean ive had absolutely no success with women. from my perspective it just seems like they were making fun at my expense. i just think ive become super overanalytical of EVERYTHING in my past because of well, loneliness.
 
maybe youre right, but i mean ive had absolutely no success with women. from my perspective it just seems like they were making fun at my expense. i just think ive become super overanalytical of EVERYTHING in my past because of well, loneliness.
Ah yeah that is likely then when women never want anything with you, it's sad and bad
 
Ah yeah that is likely then when women never want anything with you, it's sad and bad
i know man fucking brutal.. im a firm believer that as social creatures, this shi is right on the same level as food water and shelter.
 
i know man fucking brutal.. im a firm believer that as social creatures, this shi is right on the same level as food water and shelter.
It's why we feel depressed and empty, it's a good thing we have .is this is the only place I feel accepted, I feel like if my brocels can survive this torture, so can I
 
it's a good thing we have .is this is the only place I feel accepted, I feel like if my brocels can survive this torture, so can I
comradery is all we have, i feel the same way
 
I always hear the opposite.. that I should be approaching women at grocery stores and at the park. My coworker claims he does this.

I haven't cold approached in a really long time and there are very few opportunities to actually do it
 
I always hear the opposite.. that I should be approaching women at grocery stores and at the park. My coworker claims he does this.

I haven't cold approached in a really long time and there are very few opportunities to actually do it
How did it go when you did it?
 
Nobody approaches irl anymore, it's all about dating apps. If you get nothing on dating apps, foids don't want anything to do with you irl either.
I beg to differ. I'm sure HTNs and especially chads do cold approaches, if the girl hasn't seen him or is too shy.
 
I beg to differ. I'm sure HTNs and especially chads do cold approaches, if the girl hasn't seen him or is too shy.
They don't need to cold approach, socially speaking they are interconnected and mingle with people enough to where they are always going to have some connection to the women they are talking to.

I'd only imagine cold approaches from them happening at parties, and even then it is still very likely they accidentally met someone that they are somewhat connected to.
 
Well, that's for adult ones, I'm sure good-looking teens cold approach all the time.
 
girls only approach chad, I have never been approached in real life. And when I approached girls is like I am not talking they don’t even try to look at me
 
Anyone have success with waitmaxxing yet?
 
I beg to differ. I'm sure HTNs and especially chads do cold approaches, if the girl hasn't seen him or is too shy.
Maybe if they're autistic because cold approaching is weird as hell
 

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